Did she succeed? |
Aha, then 180K that she makes is just luxurious and plenty. And she can afford to experience parenthood on her own |
It's not luxurious but is way higher than the median household income. She could definitely afford a child on her own with that kind of money. OP's problem is that she wants a very specific lifestyle where she, not her husband, is the SAHP. And she doesn't even think that working part-time is an option. |
When I was 30, I was making 56K and didn’t see any clear path to improve that too much. 10 years later I make 140K, not bragging by any means, but just saying that his salary can increase, just takes initiative |
Sounds he has two problems: a lazy guy who doesn't take care of his own children and a very expensive lifestyle. If you can't make it work with 200K you won't be able to make it work with more either as you'll just end up spending more. |
I would not overlook this or be comfortable in this situation. I need a man who will take care of me financially. |
This depends a lot on the type of career/professional area you're in. In most professions, you hit the ceiling at way below 140K. 80K is a decent salary even though most people in DCUM will say it isn't. It's not fair to date someone expecting that they will return to school or take a career path they're not interested in just because you wanna sit at home. OP should either find a high earning man and hope he's a good partner or accept that she won't be a SAHM under her current expectations. |
Are you a sugar baby? |
She, not he. |
This is spectacularly false. It’s not even a top 10% income in a lot of places anymore. |
Yes, for a short while, until she got older. She's now alone in assisted living. |
Which are the places where 180k is not in the top 10%? |
Option 1: Stay with him and always have his income in the back of your mind as a reason you're annoyed and he's not good enough.
Option 2: Leave him and he'll always be the one you think about that got away. I suggest you leave him so he can find someone that values him. He deserves the opportunity to find someone else and not be locked into a relationship like this. |
Commit to overtime for the next two years and learn to live off his salary. That could give you a nice buffer for 5 - 6 years. |
Lol clearly they are struggling. No camp! The horror! |