I'm glad you are proud of your kid for her actions! Every family is different. Sustainability is very important to our family and we try to instill those values into our kids. I would be proud of my daughter for being willing to use a perfectly good used water bottle, and most likely saving it from the landfill. The likelihood of it being eventually trashed vs making it back to the owner is pretty high. If she had been in the other position--set her water bottle down and couldn't find it again--I would be disappointed in her for not taking better care of her things or even putting her phone number on her water bottle so it could be easily returned, knowing it would probably get thrown away. She would not get a new one. She could buy one with her own money from Goodwill or similar. And I would definitely be happy knowing some other kid picked hers up and put it to good use after she was so careless. It's a water bottle, not a precious heirloom. |
Ugh. Hydroflask is SO 2023. |
They are not stealing certain brands! Clearly there are people who think if you find a water bottle you can keep it. You have no basis for suggesting a Yeti magically be stolen. Stop distracting from the main issue which is not about a particular brand but the general concept of taking something you find that someone else lost. Our society is falling apart and this is one example of why. |
My kids have lost water bottles and almost always found them at the lost and found at school, gyms, and other activities. It happens. I think one one time has one been permanently missing. I'm glad we live in the type of community where people good choices. |
Not everyone in your community is making good choices. How do people make these blanket statements with no embarrassment. |
+1 |
OP - the only reason your daughter picked up this used water bottle is because it’s Hydroflask which is expensive and she views as a coveted brand. Let me guess, you wouldn’t purchase her her own to begin with. Why the hell else would she pick up and use someone else’s water bottle? You aren’t instilling good values. It should have been turned into the mall’s lost and found. They have one. |
Drinking fountains. Why of why does everyone need to carry a water bottle everywhere now? |
Your kid stole it. She returns it and a consequence. |
Lost & found would have tossed it. The cleaners would have tossed it. She didn’t toss it. Good on her. |
Not everyone? Where did I say everyone was? I have left my phone and purse at places and they have always been turned in. I have turned in others personal items that I have found. Really, you live in a backwards community if people don't do this regularly. I once found a laptop bag and called the number on the business card and the grateful man came to retrieve it, brought his son, and made it a lesson for him that sometimes people do the right thing. He insisted I take $100 as a reward. It says a lot about you and your community that you wouldn't even consider making a good choice and assume nobody else would either. |
Strange that L&F is where I have found my kids coats, backpacks, lunch bags, and hoodies over the years. Do you know how this even works? |
Wrong. I’m actually visited lots of lost and found places. Have you? |
They’re overpriced too. Nalgene are BPA free, cost $10 and nobody is stealing them. I’ve had mine for 15 years. If you’re set on an insulated bottle, Walmart and Target have imitation Hydroflask that work just as well for a fraction of the price. If you’re image conscious, slap a Yeti sticker on it. Be warned, the sticker will cost as much as the knockoff bottle, but at least you’ll look cool and be able to announce “I have so much money that I buy $40 water bottles.” |
Telling that this is the conclusion you jumped to. It also seems that your community is rather judgmental. |