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DP Me too! Maybe your husband will slow down! |
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OP- get a lawyer. See if they can work a deal to dismiss the reckless and he can plead straight-up to the speeding. He will still pay a hefty fine but it reduces the charge to a petty (from a misdemeanor) and there are fewer points to reckon with:
I mean- he’s gotta pay something. There’s no way he’s getting of clean unless the officer doesn’t show up to court. |
| Tell your husband to stop being a reckless driver and endangering himself and the people around him. |
| Have you considered that her husband is just really important. |
Okay here's the old thread...11 pages worth including what happened to some people and what they did. https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/460238.page |
I’m glad he’s old so he will be driving less soon. Does he routinely speed like that or was this a special situation like sick child or grandchild’s birth? He is not getting penalty reduced; I suspect if he shows up in court it will actually be worse for him. Defending himself actually may help in this case, if he can demonstrate his remorse and resolve to get better not beating the ticket. If he is routinely driving fast, get him checked for mental issues, that’s how it started for my dads memory issues — he would kinda space out while driving and be just passing cars like mad unaware of the terrible danger he was placing us all in |
| I got pulled over for doing 105 in Montana during my vacation. Cop let me go but told me to “slow down.” Not as crazy as doing 85 on I-95. |
| Good grief, all of you grandmas are absurd. I drive back from NY on Thursday evening - got home around 10. At 8:30, when I entered MD, there was so little traffic that it was easy to go 80 mph. I generally try not to go more than 20 mph over the speed limit on a highway, so OP's husband is at the upper limit of where I'm comfortable, but it's nothing to have a hissy fit over. |
Actually it is . If he slams into another car at that rate of speed it is a big deal. It's called reckless driving for a reason. |
Then keep to the right. |
| I recently spent a day in traffic court observing. I am also a lawyer, though I don’t handle these cases. I saw reckless driving charges knocked down to lower charges but the person had to complete 8 hour in person driver improvement class and community service and of course pay fines. I did not think the people who had attorneys were significantly better off, other than their cases were heard first and they didn’t have to appear in person. Tell your husband to take the class, get a *certified* copy of clean driving record to bring to court and plead his case with the judge. |
+1. Seriously. I just drove back from Philadelphia yesterday and 95 is wide open in parts and very easy to go 85 mph if you’re not paying attention. |
Virginia is the only state with the law that anything over 80 is automatic reckless driving. Stop normalizing it. - someone who drives to NJ two dozen times a year |
Nope North Carolina anything over 15 miles above posted speed limit automatic reckless driving. Over 80 can be hauled to jail. |