Sleepover when mom smokes?

[Anonymous]

Ew. No. Way.

[Anonymous]

In today’s day and age, no sleepovers unless family.

[Anonymous]

No way

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Nope, I wouldn't be comfortable. You have have a glass of wine without being impaired. Same can't be said for smoking a joint.

How do you know how much she smokes? It might be a couple of puffs.

Op if you're not comfortable then the answer is no.

[Anonymous]

You can get a lot more impaired drinking. Would you let her have a sleepover at a house where you knew the Mom would be having wine?

[Anonymous]

Yes. I don’t know any productive adults who smoke daily who are getting impaired. They take like two hits after work or before bed and are fine.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes. I don’t know any productive adults who smoke daily who are getting impaired. They take like two hits after work or before bed and are fine.

This, though they aren't the type to blab it over facebook. I'm more wary of that immature behavior

[Anonymous]

No sleepover. It’s not so much that she smokes, it’s the lack of judgement in broadcasting it on Facebook to every random acquaintance she’s linked to.

[Anonymous]

Nope, and my kid wouldn't be allowed in their house or car.

[Anonymous]

She seems a bit aggressive about it. But I'm curious if everyone is ok if a mom hosting a sleepover has a glass or two of wine? I never drink if DC has a friend over, even if sometimes they drive me nuts and I need that drink!

[Anonymous]

Would you let her sleepover if the mom drinks?

I'm shocked how everyone is cool with mommies who drag their kids to beer farms and bring wine or vodka in a tervis cup to kids baseball games, but pot is problematic.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She seems a bit aggressive about it. But I'm curious if everyone is ok if a mom hosting a sleepover has a glass or two of wine? I never drink if DC has a friend over, even if sometimes they drive me nuts and I need that drink!

You're either joking about drinking (which isn't funny), or you're serious about needing a drink (which is sad).

See how we've normalized mommy wine culture?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She seems a bit aggressive about it. But I'm curious if everyone is ok if a mom hosting a sleepover has a glass or two of wine? I never drink if DC has a friend over, even if sometimes they drive me nuts and I need that drink!

You're either joking about drinking (which isn't funny), or you're serious about needing a drink (which is sad).

See how we've normalized mommy wine culture?

Agree. One glass with dinner, I'd be okay with. Posting "It's wine o'clock" and "Mommy needs her 'Mommy Juice'" on Facebook every other day would get the same "No" response as this would.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She seems a bit aggressive about it. But I'm curious if everyone is ok if a mom hosting a sleepover has a glass or two of wine? I never drink if DC has a friend over, even if sometimes they drive me nuts and I need that drink!

You're either joking about drinking (which isn't funny), or you're serious about needing a drink (which is sad).

See how we've normalized mommy wine culture?

Agree. One glass with dinner, I'd be okay with. Posting "It's wine o'clock" and "Mommy needs her 'Mommy Juice'" on Facebook every other day would get the same "No" response as this would.

+1 it’s the behavior, not the substance that bothers me. I would not let my child sleep over at a home where the parent in charge is very vocal about needing a substance (whether it alcohol or pot) to “cope” with children. I’d expect a parent to stay sober during a sleepover when they’re in charge of other people’s children. What happens if there is an emergency and they need to drive?

[Anonymous]

^^ and I say this as someone who has a glass of wine here and there, and would smoke a tad if it were federally legal (but I’m a fed so I’m not supposed to). But I would never highlight this as a lifestyle on social media.