I don’t want to stay at your timeshare.

[Anonymous]

OP, what is the resort that you love? Just curious as I was vacation shopping last night .

PS-every year I argue with my DH about beach hotel vs beach house. I refuse to be this lady on my vacation:
https://www.theonion.com/mom-spends-beach-vacation-assuming-all-household-duties-1819575406

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There is only ONE place in the whole wide world that you love to vacation it just so happens to be down the street from your parent's timeshare.

Are you f'ing kidding me here.

Grow the F up. Either be nice to your parents or find an new all inclusive.

Did you parents emotionally abandon you as a child?

You would not say this to a real person in real life. YOU ARE RUDE!

Yes, when my friend is rude to her mom I say, why do you have be rude, just call her talk 10 minutes make her day.

Talking about rude... where is the OP?

She asked our opinion.

Not OP, but she didn't ask for miserable trolls to be vulgar ("Grow the F up?") and insulting.
And if you read the thread, she responded immediately to a very good and thoughtful suggestion at the top of the page.

[Anonymous]

I think most of the people who own timeshares get sick of having to go to them regularly and/or compete to exchange. Plus they get to pay the annual fees they can't even control every year regardless. That's why there are businesses popping up to help people get rid of them. Now with VRBO and AirBNB, it makes less sense to have one. So if a relative offers one, it's partly to justify having bought it in the first place. And some relatives (not OP's) would actually expect you to pay them for it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There is only ONE place in the whole wide world that you love to vacation it just so happens to be down the street from your parent's timeshare.

Are you f'ing kidding me here.

Grow the F up. Either be nice to your parents or find an new all inclusive.

Did you parents emotionally abandon you as a child?

This is OP and I’m not going to even entertain this further, but their timeshare is represented in practically every popular US travel destination. I don’t know what to tell you.

You need to own it. You are doing something that is selfish. It's okay, just be selfish or don't be selfish. But don't pretend you are not rude.

I don't think you understand how timeshares work - perhaps you should ask clarifying questions before you resort to name calling. Most timeshares are part of a large network with locations in every major vacation area around the world. People may buy a particular location but swap it for other locations every year. OP said that her parent's chain happens to have a location near where she vacations - this is not like her parents owning a house or condo in one fixed location that she vacations near. OP could vacation any resort type place in the world and her parents would likely have a timeshare site there.

[Anonymous]

OP, unless you talked your parents into buying the timeshare I don't think you have any obligation to stay there. As another PP mentioned, I think a lot of people buy them thinking they'll go more often and then look for family to stay to make it feel more like they're getting their money's worth.

OP stated very clearly why their family prefers to stay at the resort rather than the time share - tell your parents what you've said here about how much you love that you can relax from the moment you step out of the airport with the all-inclusive resort you prefer. You're allowed to like something different than your parents!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There is only ONE place in the whole wide world that you love to vacation it just so happens to be down the street from your parent's timeshare.

Are you f'ing kidding me here.

Grow the F up. Either be nice to your parents or find an new all inclusive.

Did you parents emotionally abandon you as a child?

This is OP and I’m not going to even entertain this further, but their timeshare is represented in practically every popular US travel destination. I don’t know what to tell you.

You need to own it. You are doing something that is selfish. It's okay, just be selfish or don't be selfish. But don't pretend you are not rude.

I just got a new job at a state mental hospital, and I am getting REALLY good at spotting mental illness. Based upon your ramblings, I think you need help.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Just say it. "Mom, I know it sounds crazy to you, but we really love going to the XXX resort because I literally don't have to do a thing. I don't need to cook, grocery shop, figure out entertainment etc. To me, that is the vacation. You are offering such a lovely condo, but for the time being, we are just going to keep going to XXX. Thank you for the generous offer."

This is so perfect, how did I not think of this! Especially the last part. I think part of the issue is she thinks I don’t find the timeshare appealing (I don’t lol) and the offer generous. I’ll try this next, thanks

wtf OP, it is a generous offer, whether you like the timeshare or not. you need to recognize that. if they rented it out on VRBO, it could be thousands of dollars (I know, having recently rented a stranger's timeshare). be polite and say no thank you.

new poster - try reading comprehension. she did not say she does not find the offer generous, she said she does not find the timeshare appealing...

[Anonymous]

OP, there are 2 very good suggestions here, let your mom know why you like the resort you go to and ask to trade for a different trip.


But, please, could you please tell us where your awesome vacation is? I'd like a quality AI resort.

[Anonymous]

There are a bunch of real turds on this thread. And one has a reading comprehension problem as well and is indignant about something OP didn’t even say.

Ignoring them, i also want to know the name of your resort!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There is only ONE place in the whole wide world that you love to vacation it just so happens to be down the street from your parent's timeshare.

Are you f'ing kidding me here.

Grow the F up. Either be nice to your parents or find an new all inclusive.

Did you parents emotionally abandon you as a child?

This is OP and I’m not going to even entertain this further, but their timeshare is represented in practically every popular US travel destination. I don’t know what to tell you.

You need to own it. You are doing something that is selfish. It's okay, just be selfish or don't be selfish. But don't pretend you are not rude.

I just got a new job at a state mental hospital, and I am getting REALLY good at spotting mental illness. Based upon your ramblings, I think you need help.

+1. You are doing something that is selfish because you are saying no? That is ridiculous. She doesn't have to vacation someplace she doesn't want to just because her mother offered. That's not rude.

[Anonymous]

Do you have kids? If so you could say something about how its a tradition for your family to go there.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Did they join the timeshare because they knew you loved the location?

No, they bought in years before we started vacationing there. It’s coincidental.

That’s quite a coincidence....

[Anonymous]

OP - just say no and honestly I would not worry about hurt feelings. When someone keeps pushing and pushing for someone to accept an "offer", its no longer well meaning. They are being pushy and rude.

I have relatives who do this. They want us to use their rental in an entirely different location instead of the resort that we like. Its a constant but why wouldn't you stay here, its a fraction of the cost or its free. I have relatives who we need to never tell that we are going on vacation to a particular location because they will inject that we should all go together but then stay somewhere else. We don't want to stay there or spend our vacation with them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There are a bunch of real turds on this thread. And one has a reading comprehension problem as well and is indignant about something OP didn’t even say.

Ignoring them, i also want to know the name of your resort!

This. What is wrong with people? Team OP. My idea of a vacation does not include cooking/cleaning or schlepping around in an ever to dine. Al is heaven. I’m not using hard earned PTO to replicate home life.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There are a bunch of real turds on this thread. And one has a reading comprehension problem as well and is indignant about something OP didn’t even say.

Ignoring them, i also want to know the name of your resort!

This. What is wrong with people? Team OP. My idea of a vacation does not include cooking/cleaning or schlepping around in an ever to dine. Al is heaven. I’m not using hard earned PTO to replicate home life.

*in an Uber to dine