Husband wants to go out last minute

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If only there were things a woman could do to divert a man from his plan to leave the house... but what could they be?

I can't do that in front of my toddler. We already have a very active sex life.

[Anonymous]

No blow jobs for a month OP.

[Anonymous]

You sound like a real peach. No wonder he jumped at the first chance to get out of the house.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My wife would love that. Stuck on the couch with me and then I get a call...and leave. She'd be in TV heaven.

+6,000,000 dial up Bravo

F that! LMN time! I'd love some time to myself to watch TV

[ZachF]

Anonymous wrote:I found a new hair cream I want to try. I also had a nice chicken dinner.

I just flossed my teeth.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't think I'm mad that he's going out. It's just this friend is so sleazy and he doesn't even like him. He talks shit about him a lot. I'm going to be out of town for a few weeks soon. I thought he would rather spend time with me because I am leaving. He mentioned his friend was coming to visit a few days ago. I didn't know it was this loser. He also emptied the wine and took the car! I've got nothing and I don't watch TV usually. I'll try to find something to watch.

Word of advice, stop trying to pick your husband's friends. He will resent you for this one day, just stop. You either trust your husband or your don't, that is the real problem here, not his friend.

[Anonymous]

Here's the deal:

Last minute change of plans when you were already planning on doing something...no go. Definitely not good.

Last minute change of plans when you really don't have anything planned and you're just chilling...what's the big deal? Why does everything need to be so structured? Chill out.

I think your issue is more that you are disappointed he wants to spend time with him instead of you. Again...take a chill pill. He gets to choose his friends, he doesn't need our approval.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't think I'm mad that he's going out. It's just this friend is so sleazy and he doesn't even like him. He talks shit about him a lot. I'm going to be out of town for a few weeks soon. I thought he would rather spend time with me because I am leaving. He mentioned his friend was coming to visit a few days ago. I didn't know it was this loser. He also emptied the wine and took the car! I've got nothing and I don't watch TV usually. I'll try to find something to watch.

he talks shit about him because you are a psycho. It is to appease you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't think I'm mad that he's going out. It's just this friend is so sleazy and he doesn't even like him. He talks shit about him a lot. I'm going to be out of town for a few weeks soon. I thought he would rather spend time with me because I am leaving. He mentioned his friend was coming to visit a few days ago. I didn't know it was this loser. He also emptied the wine and took the car! I've got nothing and I don't watch TV usually. I'll try to find something to watch.

Word of advice, stop trying to pick your husband's friends. He will resent you for this one day, just stop. You either trust your husband or your don't, that is the real problem here, not his friend.

She can't help being his momager.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If only there were things a woman could do to divert a man from his plan to leave the house... but what could they be?

I can't do that in front of my toddler. We already have a very active sex life.

Go in bedroom. Lock door for 5 minutes. BJ. Done.

[Anonymous]

I dislike planning, it's so annoying, I lose all the interest. I go out on a short notice 90% of the time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't think I'm mad that he's going out. It's just this friend is so sleazy and he doesn't even like him. He talks shit about him a lot. I'm going to be out of town for a few weeks soon. I thought he would rather spend time with me because I am leaving. He mentioned his friend was coming to visit a few days ago. I didn't know it was this loser. He also emptied the wine and took the car! I've got nothing and I don't watch TV usually. I'll try to find something to watch.

Any nice champagne then?

Nope. I'm sipping on a kids protein shake. I've got nothing. We were talking about getting more wine when his friend called. I told to have fun with the stripper's.

Jesus Christ. No wonder he wanted to get away from you. I couldn't stand to be with someone so needy and controlling.

[Anonymous]

He's obviously banging those strippers. Duh!

[Anonymous]

Wow, I gotta say you are getting some bizarre feedback here.

I do think you need to think about what is really bothering you- there is a lot tangled up here. You want to figure out exactly what is bothering you and address that - and only that.

Is it the friend? The friend sounds awful, so that might be worth pursuing. DH, you don't even seem to like this friend much and he seems like bad news. I get seeing friends and want you to spend time with your friends, but it hurt a little when you dropped everything for him. Can you tell me what you were thinking?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We were chilling out drinking wine on the sofa. He gets a call from a friend whose visiting from out of town. He tells me he's going out. I'm upset because it wasn't planned. I also don't care for this friend. This friend created lot's of drama. His friend hosted a stripper party at his house a while back. His friends wife found out and they moved away shortly after that. We have a toddler now. I always plan things in advanced because I think it's the right thing to do. Am I overreacting?

No you're not. This is the kind of friend that wouldn't be in our circle. I would have promptly gone with him and then had the talk the next day. People like that are toxic and bad for your family.