I am tired of living in an apartment
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Anonymous
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I am a single woman and I live alone, my children are all grown.
I always complain how I hate living in an apartment which I do. The noisy neighbors, the nosy neighbors, the management, etc. So I went to house-sit in a beautiful and upscale neighborhood for a week in a lovely huge 2-story house and boy I never felt so lonely in my whole darn life. Go figure. |
Anonymous
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It was so quiet I felt like there was no civilization around me.
When I went outside to check the mail, I rarely saw a soul. Or heard one for that matter. |
Anonymous
Maybe look at a townhouse in a nice community setting? We used to live in Fairlington in south Arlington, and there were a fair number of single people there. There's a lot of green space, so you have the feel of a yard, without the responsibility 
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Anonymous
| Move to another apartment complex. |
Anonymous
Yes I remember. The price increase started to slow down at the end of 2006 but that was the peak. Listen you are not the only who overpaid in 2006 but you are the first I hear who think prices were really low. |
Anonymous
| There are non smoking apartments now. That would help. |
Anonymous
+1 It's time to upgrade your apartment. Do you really want to care for all the floor and yard space most SFHs have? Find one with more mature people, no dogs, better bones, a balcony, and hire a decorator. They can do so much to affect how your space feels. |
Anonymous
| OP, I also live in a condo, but our building is concrete. That makes a huge difference, mid or highrise vs. the lower level buildings that are bricks and plywood or converted rowhouses that are now apts. The noise doesn't carry in a concrete structure like it does in the wood and brick builds. |
Anonymous
| I like apartment living, usually. I'm a bit down on it at the moment because my current co-op board is rather obnoxiously cliquish. But I've spent almost all of my life in urban apartments and prioritize location and architecture over space. |
Anonymous
| OP, I feel for you. I'm in my first SFH after twenty years in apartments. Our last apartment was a luxury building in downtown Bethesda and instead of smoking neighbors (which we got occasionally), we had barking frou frou dogs and neighbors whose toddles ran all day and night (and I say this as a parent of a toddler who tried to respect her neighbors). No matter where you live or what you pay, it all comes down to your neighbors. Good luck! |
Anonymous
| Apartments are the worst, renting condos is much better. |
Anonymous
| Look on Craigslist or Zillow, see if someone is renting their condo or townhome. You'll probably have some of the same problems but in a townhouse, you won't have anyone banging around above or below you. |
Anonymous
We bought/built in December 2005 and moved in April 2006. The prices in our area peaked around August 2006 before finally starting down. At the bottom we had lost our 20% downpayment and were about another 30% underwater. Now, prices have come back and although the price of our house is about 20% below what we paid, the between the rising house value and the payments we've made we now have about 10% equity in the house again. A far cry from where we bought, but also much better than the bottom. I know of dozens of cases similar to ours. Additionally, our neighborhood of nearly 450 units had about 70-80 units purchased in 2006. Of those, around 10-15 were foreclosed on and another dozen or so homeowners bailed on the neighborhood (a significant reason for the plummeting value of the neighborhood). In 2012, the final foreclosure was sold off which is when the home prices started to rise again. I'm surprised that anyone thinks that any prices in 2006 were not overly inflated. |
Anonymous
Thanks. Yes, part of the problem is that I dislike my current apartment. Previous ones were better. Any more tips about finding quieter places? How do I know if something is concrete or otherwise good construction for noise etc? |
Anonymous
We had a similar experience, although we purchased in early 2007 when it looked like home prices had fallen about as low as they were going to. It was not until the end of 2012 that we finally owed less on our condo than what units were selling for in our complex. Last fall home prices had finally risen to about $30k less than what we paid, so we decided to try to sell this spring. Luckily we were able to sell a couple months ago, for $15k less than what we paid in 2007 and that doesn't include the $20k in renovations, new appliances and staging to sell the place. You know, I can understand a person being tired of living in an apartment, but OP, from my perspective you've got it made. In the 7 years my husband and I lived in our condo with our 2 cats, we added 2 kids. Talk about cramped. And until you've made the trek to a laundry room in another building at 5am to wash all of your bed sheets because your 2 year old vomited and/or crapped all over every bed linen you own, or you've walked between the parking lot and your unit 5 or 6 times while carrying groceries from Costco with an infant strapped to your chest or any of the other major inconveniences of living in an apartment with young children, well, you really have no idea how good you have it. I count us as lucky that we were finally able to pay down our mortgage enough to sell and move on to a bigger place, but many aren't so lucky. I see families of 4 or even 5 who have lived in our complex for many years now. Can you imagine how cramped they are with 3 teenagers in a 2BR apartment? Maybe you should give gratitude a try. |