Wife's Phone Bill

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Well Desi, let us know when you let Lucy sing at the Tropicana and well get back to you after that.

Ha! Excellent!

Seriously OP - maybe your wife is fooling around or maybe she's just chafing at your invasive controls. Can't say I care much beyond being glad I'm not married to you!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Well Desi, let us know when you let Lucy sing at the Tropicana and well get back to you after that.

Ha! Excellent!

Seriously OP - maybe your wife is fooling around or maybe she's just chafing at your invasive controls. Can't say I care much beyond being glad I'm not married to you!

And every man reading this is glad hes not married to you.

Wow.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Well Desi, let us know when you let Lucy sing at the Tropicana and well get back to you after that.

Ha! Excellent!

Seriously OP - maybe your wife is fooling around or maybe she's just chafing at your invasive controls. Can't say I care much beyond being glad I'm not married to you!

And every man reading this is glad hes not married to you.

Wow.

[Anonymous]

I couldn't agree w/you more on this OP.

It is suspicious to me that suddenly she doesn't want you "snooping" into her phone records. The only plausible explanation to me is that she must be hiding something.

For that, I say let her pay her own damn phone bill.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If she doesn't want you paying the bill she can pay it herself.

I wouldn't be surprised if she were texting/phoning another guy.

OTOH ... Have you hassled her in the past about numbers you didn't recognize?

This is the first thing I thought of when I read this post.

DH and I have been married for 22 years. In that time, I have never cheated, or even been attracted to other people. He is a great catch, smart, funny, successful, good looking, generous. BUT, he has a jealous streak a mile wide. We have always had joint accounts, and our computer saves all the passwords to email, fb, you name it. A couple years ago, he started hassling me about messages in my fb and email. There was nothing there to be upset about and he quickly realized, on each account, that he overreacted, especially when I showed him the preceeding message or emails that filled in the context of the conversation. Great...

ONLY, now I'm PISSED! 22 years of fidelity and loyalty and THIS is how I get treated. So, fuck you - I changed my passwords and locked him out of my accounts. I have access to his shit and never looked unless I need something (invoice that got emailed to him that I need to pay) I don't troll his accounts and read his correspondance, looking for transgressions. IDK, maybe I should - they say the reason most people are suspicious is because they are guilty.

Either way, if she locked you out, she's either cheating or you gave her a reason.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If she doesn't want you paying the bill she can pay it herself.

I wouldn't be surprised if she were texting/phoning another guy.

OTOH ... Have you hassled her in the past about numbers you didn't recognize?

This is the first thing I thought of when I read this post.

DH and I have been married for 22 years. In that time, I have never cheated, or even been attracted to other people. He is a great catch, smart, funny, successful, good looking, generous. BUT, he has a jealous streak a mile wide. We have always had joint accounts, and our computer saves all the passwords to email, fb, you name it. A couple years ago, he started hassling me about messages in my fb and email. There was nothing there to be upset about and he quickly realized, on each account, that he overreacted, especially when I showed him the preceeding message or emails that filled in the context of the conversation. Great...

ONLY, now I'm PISSED! 22 years of fidelity and loyalty and THIS is how I get treated. So, fuck you - I changed my passwords and locked him out of my accounts. I have access to his shit and never looked unless I need something (invoice that got emailed to him that I need to pay) I don't troll his accounts and read his correspondance, looking for transgressions. IDK, maybe I should - they say the reason most people are suspicious is because they are guilty.

Either way, if she locked you out, she's either cheating or you gave her a reason.

Did you hyphen or not take his last name?

[Anonymous]

That's how it started with my ex-wife.
Since the account was in my name I was able to log on. She had another guy. We're divorced now.

I hope it's different for you, but it sounds suspicious.

[Anonymous]

Wife of a good friend of mine was having a hot and heavy relationship and emailed back and forth. Get this - she thought that if she deleted the emails, that they were gone. She didn't know about the trash can. Of course, my friend was looking for something he had deleted by mistake, and found all these emails.

He's married to someone much nicer now.

[Anonymous]

Yup, she's either fooling around or you're a PITA who gets irrationally jealous and she doesn't want to have to explain herself to you.

Only you know the truth, OP.

[Anonymous]

Never asked her about numbers. Did ask her why she was significantly over her text limit 3 months in a row,