BROTHER-INLAW WITH NEW GIRLFRIENDS

[Sanjana]

it's not about being nosy,this person has written off two vehicles which belonged to my husband,his brother and the lady in question is a tramp.what do you say to this? now do you think my concerns r futile/nosy?

[Anonymous]

what do you mean the girl has written off two vehicles? confused.

& unfortunately even if your brother in law is a fool and the girl is a tramp, there's nothing you can do about it if they are adults. yes, your concerns are futile. if they're driving drunk, why not tell your husband not to allow his brother to use his car. let the brother find his own car to drink and drive with.

[Anonymous]

I still can't understand the 1st post.

[Anonymous]

Sanjana: Mind your own business. Do not allow your brother-in-law to use your car. Put whatever has happened in the past behind you, start fresh, and try to grow up a little.

And never yell at us for no reason again (by using all caps).

[Anonymous]

I have no idea what the hell is going on.

[Anonymous]

Here is the DCUM transation of Sanjana's post:

BIL met a woman at DH's work and started dating her, which I had no problem with at first. But at a staff party, I saw some bitchy behavior and I started asking her friends at which point I was inundated with stories as well as told that she currently has a BF, who indeed was looking for her as apparently she hadn't told him about the party. I decided to ask her and I was told by her that yes, she's engaged to a guy. That confirmed my doubts that she was no good.

After the party, BIL wanted to drop her off as she had too much to drink. I disagreed and asked her to leave the same way she came, as if anything happens we are too far to help him. My logic -- drinking/driving girl, with you, sex intimacy -- I did not want any trouble as he was also using DH's van and he had just obtained it after a write-off with another and financially it would be hard to get another as it is DH's bread and butter.

Now the whole thing has been blown out of proportion as MIL says she is tooo good to be lying and we should not interfere. Well, I understand that but I am disturbed by what picture everyone has portrayed about me. Please help with advice!

[Anonymous]

OP, 4:44 here.

I don't understand "what picture" this portrays about you? Do people think you are lying?

I think you should just forget the whole thing. In a few days it will be forgotten.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Here is the DCUM transation of Sanjana's post:

BIL met a woman at DH's work and started dating her, which I had no problem with at first. But at a staff party, I saw some bitchy behavior and I started asking her friends at which point I was inundated with stories as well as told that she currently has a BF, who indeed was looking for her as apparently she hadn't told him about the party. I decided to ask her and I was told by her that yes, she's engaged to a guy. That confirmed my doubts that she was no good.

After the party, BIL wanted to drop her off as she had too much to drink. I disagreed and asked her to leave the same way she came, as if anything happens we are too far to help him. My logic -- drinking/driving girl, with you, sex intimacy -- I did not want any trouble as he was also using DH's van and he had just obtained it after a write-off with another and financially it would be hard to get another as it is DH's bread and butter.

Now the whole thing has been blown out of proportion as MIL says she is tooo good to be lying and we should not interfere. Well, I understand that but I am disturbed by what picture everyone has portrayed about me. Please help with advice!

PP--are you a U.N. translator? You should be paid a lot of money for your services. Excellent work!!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Here is the DCUM transation of Sanjana's post:

BIL met a woman at DH's work and started dating her, which I had no problem with at first. But at a staff party, I saw some bitchy behavior and I started asking her friends at which point I was inundated with stories as well as told that she currently has a BF, who indeed was looking for her as apparently she hadn't told him about the party. I decided to ask her and I was told by her that yes, she's engaged to a guy. That confirmed my doubts that she was no good.

After the party, BIL wanted to drop her off as she had too much to drink. I disagreed and asked her to leave the same way she came, as if anything happens we are too far to help him. My logic -- drinking/driving girl, with you, sex intimacy -- I did not want any trouble as he was also using DH's van and he had just obtained it after a write-off with another and financially it would be hard to get another as it is DH's bread and butter.

Now the whole thing has been blown out of proportion as MIL says she is tooo good to be lying and we should not interfere. Well, I understand that but I am disturbed by what picture everyone has portrayed about me. Please help with advice!

PP--are you a U.N. translator? You should be paid a lot of money for your services. Excellent work!!!

Seriously? PP lower caps-ed the paragraph and added punctuation. Hardly a translation. "drinking/driving girl, with you, sex intimacy" ?? wtf is that?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have no idea what the hell is going on.

Bahahahaha I am laughing my ass off right now at work!