Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My DH is a partner at a law firm. (I don't know if this is comparable to your DH's position.) He gives his assistant $250. The partners got together last year and decided on an amount so that everyone gave the same and no assistant felt slighted. He gives the lawyers who report to him nice bottles of wine/alcohol. I don't think he would want to give direct reports gift cards since they already get bonuses, but this seems the best idea for support staff. You can get Visa cards so they can spend the money where they want.
Let me guess. You don't work either (like OP). There is something so offputting about these women picking out gifts fr their husbsnd's "staff." *shudder*