(Moreover - there is nothing “ableist” or whatever about suggesting that parents should focus on their kid’s strengths and not spend all their time and money on their weaknesses. My kid will never get more than Bs and maybe some Cs in math and I am OK with that and am not going to force him into tutoring all summer.) |
op - 100% agree; this is primarily to shore things up so he can pass math / or it doesn't sink his gpa. |
OP - wow, what did it take to get him there? |
OP here --- wow, thank you for this detailed response! Appreciate the tips about iXl settings and other helpful ideas. |
Spoiler: he didn’t actually have a math disability. |
What is the main issue you think? Is he missing assignments, getting low scores, or something else? For filling in gaps I think Mathnasium is good albeit expensive. For actually keeping up with the curriculum he may need extra repetition which is easier to do with a tutor. There is definitely a wealth of resources out there like Khan and IXL but the hard part is coordination with the curriculum he is learning at the time. Not sure what class he is taking now but you can also consider repeating. (we are repeating algebra in 9th.) |
I'm the IXL commenter. It's actually not too hard to line up current schoolwork with IXL or Khan. You just have to have titled lessons, chapters, headers from your kid's lesson plan, digital textbook, or real book. You must know math vocabulary words. However, IXL has a complete index of topics (with modules) for every grade level. Many of them repeat and get harder at the next level. So if your kid can't handle a 7th grade module, you can look for the same header in the 5th grade area. It isn't hard for a person who is college-educated. If you can't figure it out, send printouts or pictures of the lesson list to your kid's teacher and ask them to identify the matching titles. |
You’re assuming that the teacher actually has a coherent syllabus that can tell you what the kids are supposed to be learning when, that you can access in legible form. Sometimes this isn’t possible. But asking the teacher to match up the lesson with IXL isn’t a bad idea. |
Oohhhhhh. Neurotypical. Yeah this would not work with my kids. Also, good for you. |
lol good catch. BUT - I will say - it actually is helpful to know that a LOT of parents (even of NT kids) are befuddled and upset at the way math is being taught. It has been helpful for me to compare notes with them because it helps me better understand what the teachers are doing. |
OP here -- not missing assignments, hw and the extras are the saving areas. One of the biggest challenges is his teacher; inconsistent homework, no real text book or guided notes. I think for many kids this would be ok, but has added a huge layer of complexity (not really being able to get into a good work pattern). Sometimes they seem well prepared for the test, and then they take the test and the content/presentation is disimilar to the study materials/ Retaking the same math next year, amazingly would not need to (likely ending up with a C, despite Ds/Fs on many tests), but we decided it's best. I've often heard that the Mathnasium and similar are good to help a B- student become an A student but are not great for those with real LDs but am open to that as an idea too. |
iXL PP --you are hanging out on this board because ___________? |
PP. I understand. That's why I gave a last ditch idea. Another is using Google Lens or maybe AI and asking it to identify the problem types in the kid's homework. Which brings me to another suggestion. Kids are using AI to create extra practice problems "like" an example. So they can get more practice sheets made through generative AI. I also miss logically structured, printed textbooks with lessons ordered and studied sequentially. |
Because my sucking at math in middle school and my kids struggling with math cost me a lot of confidence in myself and money spent on tutoring and training. So I will share anything I can with anyone who asks for help. Assessment of math skills is a pretty neutral topic since everyone is trying to help their kid master the same skills. The above commenter is correct about NT kids having difficulties with loosely-structured curriculums, widely varying teaching methods, learning loss, etc. Not to mention difficulties with using learning management systems like Canvas. I read the Recent Topics list and am open to any subject that I find interesting. I have posted about math tutoring on several other forums on here. Someone mentioned above that Mathnasium may not be suitable for kids with learning disabilities. They are owner-operated franchises so the vibe can be location-specific. The one near us has a pretty calm, pleasant environment. And they are patient. However, it would be unlikely to have a tutor who is professionally trained like a public school teacher or a resource specialist would be to recognize certain types of learning blocks. They don't pay enough for that from what I have read. |
I think the issue is that you don’t know if he has “dyscalculia” or just has suffered disproportionately from the bad new instructional methods due to other factors. I wasn’t completely sure about my kid but sending him to Mathnasium really helped understand how he learns better because I got great feedback. I am not sure who is handing out dyscalculia diagnoses but it seems hard to distinguish to me from either just being relatively worse at math compared to other subjects, or more vulnerable to bad instruction (maybe due to adhd or autism) or a combo of the two. |