Intimacy with an ex-spouse - is it weird?

[Anonymous]

Nothing weird about it. Hard to find a good fit.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Curious why you're divorced if you get along well enough to continue having sex with some regularity. Or is it that given neither of you are in other relationships, you serve as placeholders for sex in each other's lives?

He had an affair, dated her, and then ended things because of her issues. We already had a major conflict before the affair, so that was just the breaking point. After that, we were both done. He’s said he wants to be remarried.

Remarried to you?

Yes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You do you.

This.
Girlllllll

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Curious why you're divorced if you get along well enough to continue having sex with some regularity. Or is it that given neither of you are in other relationships, you serve as placeholders for sex in each other's lives?

He had an affair, dated her, and then ended things because of her issues. We already had a major conflict before the affair, so that was just the breaking point. After that, we were both done. He’s said he wants to be remarried.

Remarried to you?

Yes.

NP. Do you feel the same?

[Anonymous]

This is messed up. There is a reason you divorced.

You haven't moved on and it is unhealthy.

[Anonymous]

Nope 🚩

[Anonymous]

Yes, it's weird.

[Anonymous]

Disgusting.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is messed up. There is a reason you divorced.

You haven't moved on and it is unhealthy.

Some people divorce due to reasons other than sexual chemistry. Actually it can be a sign of healthy people, who can share chemistry but not be married anymore.

[Anonymous]

Do you have kids?

[Anonymous]

Yes it is weird 🚩🚩🚩

[Anonymous]

If you’re going to sleep with your ex husband, why bother getting divorced?

Honestly, not having to sleep my husband is one of the biggest benefits of getting divorced. I can’t imagine giving up half my assets, and dealing with custody of the kids only to still have to have sex with an ex. Like WHY?

You have the worst of all worlds.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Curious why you're divorced if you get along well enough to continue having sex with some regularity. Or is it that given neither of you are in other relationships, you serve as placeholders for sex in each other's lives?

He had an affair, dated her, and then ended things because of her issues. We already had a major conflict before the affair, so that was just the breaking point. After that, we were both done. He’s said he wants to be remarried.

Remarried to you?

Yes.

NP. Do you feel the same?

Yes, I’ll consider it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do you have kids?

A son.

[Anonymous]

That is often!

Something is definitely off.