Exposing AP?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Have you exposed AP if they happened to be someone from work? Not because of wanting your DH back, but because you ante angry over disrupting your life and beautiful family? I just can’t get over the fact that I will have to share my kid for holidays and breaks, and have them go through this trauma. It sounds like a low road, but curious of you did it. Of course, there is the risk that your spouse will lose their job and the highly stellar reputation..

It’s a tale as old as time. The vengeful wronged spouse blaming the other party. Your life was a beautiful mirage that your spouse destroyed.

Do whatever makes you feel good. That’s what they did, right?

The greatest risk now is that your children will see you in as bad a light as they see their father.

GL to your kids.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If it could in any way endanger the financial stream that flows to your children, I would not do this. If their relationship becomes public, which she probably wants, everyone will know. Just leave it alone.

Exactly.
He could lose his job too which impacts your children financially.
Even if he is working somewhere else if it becomes a scandal like she claims sexual harassment and bullying from you.
Also she's not the reason you're divorced.
Your husband is. If it wasn't her it would be something or someone else.
That wonderful husband you're imagining never existed.
Focus your energy on healing and living your best life your kids don't need a mother who falls apart and becomes some pathetic being who is miserable.

[Anonymous]

Didn’t you already post about this?

https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/1295866.page#30925489

[Anonymous]

There’s always someone posting about this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I exposed my AP’s wife for being a terrible mother and wife.

Poor woman got abused by him and a mate poaching hoe! Hope she wins the court case.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I exposed her to her husband.

Same. No need to go any further than that.

[Anonymous]

In my career, I've seen/heard about 3 male execs fired for affairs with subordinates.

If the person is annoying or underperforming in any way it's a super easy reason to fire someone.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:In my career, I've seen/heard about 3 male execs fired for affairs with subordinates.

If the person is annoying or underperforming in any way it's a super easy reason to fire someone.

Yeah except it doesn't happen like that in the real world just DCUM fantasy land

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If it could in any way endanger the financial stream that flows to your children, I would not do this. If their relationship becomes public, which she probably wants, everyone will know. Just leave it alone.

100%.

But I did use it as leverage in the divorce negotiations.

[Anonymous]

I probably would, beause I'm emotional and reactive like that and it would help me cope.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:As soon as I learned of my husband's workplace affair, I texted then called the AP's husband. He absolutely deserved to know of his wife's adultery and get tested for STD's. My husband and I went to their wedding several years ago, it was the least I could do.

I've also selectively told some of his co-workers. I'm sure he's posing it as a brand new relationship instead of the 6 year long, f**king in their office adulterous debauchery that it is.

I would probably tell the AP’s husband but come on. It wasn’t the least you could do. It was vindictive, even though I admit I would do the same. You didn’t do a good dead.

Her husband had the AUDACITY to have sex with someone whose wedding they attended!!! Come on!! It’s not vindictive because…. How could he not expect his wife to let the husband know!! She was AT HIS WEDDING! Some of these stories are so wild, what a horrible violation.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:After it was all over and known about he dumped the AP (after dumping me, of course) and she told a mutual friend she was considering writing me a letter.
I told the mutual friend if I got a letter I'd find her, grab her by the hair and smash her face into my knee.
I never got the goddamn letter.

No guts to do that to your husband? Or were you an abusive witch all along? You deserved to be dumped

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:After it was all over and known about he dumped the AP (after dumping me, of course) and she told a mutual friend she was considering writing me a letter.
I told the mutual friend if I got a letter I'd find her, grab her by the hair and smash her face into my knee.
I never got the goddamn letter.

No guts to do that to your husband? Or were you an abusive witch all along? You deserved to be dumped

Who says she didn’t ??? lol. Mine had a black eye. Never have I touched another soul prior.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:After it was all over and known about he dumped the AP (after dumping me, of course) and she told a mutual friend she was considering writing me a letter.
I told the mutual friend if I got a letter I'd find her, grab her by the hair and smash her face into my knee.
I never got the goddamn letter.

No guts to do that to your husband? Or were you an abusive witch all along? You deserved to be dumped

Who says she didn’t ??? lol. Mine had a black eye. Never have I touched another soul prior.

I would have golf clubbed like Elin, only no golf clubs. He didn’t golf

[Anonymous]

I don’t understand why you all care about the AP. It’s your spouse who broke your vows. I really don’t get it.