Married women - do you ever fake it?

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Anonymous wrote:No. Never. I don’t understand why anyone would.

Because you love your DH and want him to be happy? 🙄

Pretending to O would only create more problems, not make anybody happy. DH needs to know what actually feels good to you and what it looks/feels like when you O

Depending on the circumstances, something that makes a woman O one day might not make her O the next day. I'm pretty sure men would rather not hear "it's not happening for me today, but you can go ahead and finish."

Are there really only two options? Faking a O or delivering a lecture?

[Anonymous]

Once when we were dating over 20 years ago to see if he knew the difference - and then I just started giggling and thought the whole thing was so ridiculous.

[Anonymous]

Never have. Never will.

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Anonymous wrote:No. Never. I don’t understand why anyone would.

You don’t understand why anyone would with their spouse or why anyone would ever?

[Anonymous]

Um... I think most women have faked it from time to time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I like hugging. It feels good. I tell them nobody can hold me tight enough. Men and women alike agree that our breasts are the real reason. Some of the women are more sensitive about than others. Breast sizes don't really have anything to do with it. Our maturity does. I've had women who are more petite than complain about me or my friends squeezing them too tight.I tell them be glad you don't have large breasts like I do.

Ma'am, this is a Wendy's.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:No. Never. I don’t understand why anyone would.

Because you love your DH and want him to be happy? 🙄

Pretending to O would only create more problems, not make anybody happy. DH needs to know what actually feels good to you and what it looks/feels like when you O

Depending on the circumstances, something that makes a woman O one day might not make her O the next day. I'm pretty sure men would rather not hear "it's not happening for me today, but you can go ahead and finish."

PP you are responding to. Are you a man? My husband is totally ok with hearing that, if it's the truth. I'm happy to focus on him some days, and vice versa. We like to give and receive.

Exactly. but also, neither one of us is shy about just getting the job done ourselves. If he finishes before me, I'm happy to take care of myself.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Um... I think most women have faked it from time to time.

Why? It’s totally not necessary.

[Anonymous]

Yep

Spares him and me

[Anonymous]

In other words, do you lie to your spouse habitually?

No, I do not.

[Anonymous]

Lots of liars on here

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Um... I think most women have faked it from time to time.

Why? It’s totally not necessary.

It is similar to when a man just does it because it is easier vs saying no.

[Anonymous]

No never. He would feel it anyway.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:No. Never. I don’t understand why anyone would.

Because you love your DH and want him to be happy? 🙄

Pretending to O would only create more problems, not make anybody happy. DH needs to know what actually feels good to you and what it looks/feels like when you O

Depending on the circumstances, something that makes a woman O one day might not make her O the next day. I'm pretty sure men would rather not hear "it's not happening for me today, but you can go ahead and finish."

PP you are responding to. Are you a man? My husband is totally ok with hearing that, if it's the truth. I'm happy to focus on him some days, and vice versa. We like to give and receive.

Exactly. but also, neither one of us is shy about just getting the job done ourselves. If he finishes before me, I'm happy to take care of myself.

This makes me really sad. If my guy notices that I'm taking too long or might not get there with P in V. He will stop go down on me until the big O and then go back to the original P in V until he finishes. I'm sad that the expectation is for you to finish yourself.

[Anonymous]

No. But if I know he’s close, I do this hot little moan. It always sends him over the edge. I wouldn’t consider that faking an O though.