We all need to read this WaPo piece about atypical marriages

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I mean, who cares. If it works for them, that’s fine. Although some of these relationships do not seem like the best but that’s true of traditional relationships as well.

If my kid came to me and said they were doing this, I think I would likely discourage. But I don’t really care what other people do so long as no one is getting hurt. It’s much better than marrying someone without being honest about your sexuality!

Except it doesn’t work. Someone is not getting what they want and just pretending.

But they are getting what they wanted.

[Anonymous]

Can’t wait to read the article about broken families resulting from mom and dad joining a polycule.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I mean, who cares. If it works for them, that’s fine. Although some of these relationships do not seem like the best but that’s true of traditional relationships as well.

If my kid came to me and said they were doing this, I think I would likely discourage. But I don’t really care what other people do so long as no one is getting hurt. It’s much better than marrying someone without being honest about your sexuality!

Except it doesn’t work. Someone is not getting what they want and just pretending.

But they are getting what they wanted.

Did you not read that one partner is gay?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ha, there’s a gay Influencer I watch who, because the US is threatening to ban gay marriage, has taken it upon himself to date the hottest women out there and ruin things for straight men.

Would not surprised me at all if Lavender marriages become more popular, especially with the most attractive straight women. They get an equal partner who treats them well and looks fantastic.

As if women don’t have enough straight weirdos to worry about.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I mean, who cares. If it works for them, that’s fine. Although some of these relationships do not seem like the best but that’s true of traditional relationships as well.

If my kid came to me and said they were doing this, I think I would likely discourage. But I don’t really care what other people do so long as no one is getting hurt. It’s much better than marrying someone without being honest about your sexuality!

Except it doesn’t work. Someone is not getting what they want and just pretending.

But they are getting what they wanted.

Did you not read that one partner is gay?

Yes, so. It's a Lavendar marriage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Can’t wait to read the article about broken families resulting from mom and dad joining a polycule.

You mean more often than you read a spiritual leader is caught with child p*rn.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I mean, who cares. If it works for them, that’s fine. Although some of these relationships do not seem like the best but that’s true of traditional relationships as well.

If my kid came to me and said they were doing this, I think I would likely discourage. But I don’t really care what other people do so long as no one is getting hurt. It’s much better than marrying someone without being honest about your sexuality!

Except it doesn’t work. Someone is not getting what they want and just pretending.

But they are getting what they wanted.

Did you not read that one partner is gay?

Yes, so. It's a Lavendar marriage.

What don’t you understand?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I mean, who cares. If it works for them, that’s fine. Although some of these relationships do not seem like the best but that’s true of traditional relationships as well.

If my kid came to me and said they were doing this, I think I would likely discourage. But I don’t really care what other people do so long as no one is getting hurt. It’s much better than marrying someone without being honest about your sexuality!

Except it doesn’t work. Someone is not getting what they want and just pretending.

But they are getting what they wanted.

Did you not read that one partner is gay?

Yes, so. It's a Lavendar marriage.

So, one isn’t getting what they want. Actually, neither are.

[Anonymous]

I'm in a relationship that could show up in a piece like this, which I've talked about before on this site. It has downsides, but it has upsides, like any marriage. My main takeaway, both of the article and my life, is that Tolstoy was wrong. Happy families aren't all alike. A lot of these arrangements wouldn't work for a lot of people, but they do for some people and that's good.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I mean, who cares. If it works for them, that’s fine. Although some of these relationships do not seem like the best but that’s true of traditional relationships as well.

If my kid came to me and said they were doing this, I think I would likely discourage. But I don’t really care what other people do so long as no one is getting hurt. It’s much better than marrying someone without being honest about your sexuality!

Except it doesn’t work. Someone is not getting what they want and just pretending.

But they are getting what they wanted.

Did you not read that one partner is gay?

Yes, so. It's a Lavendar marriage.

So, one isn’t getting what they want. Actually, neither are.

Actually they both are. You do not get the dynamics. But please continue to argue things you have no clue about.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I mean, who cares. If it works for them, that’s fine. Although some of these relationships do not seem like the best but that’s true of traditional relationships as well.

If my kid came to me and said they were doing this, I think I would likely discourage. But I don’t really care what other people do so long as no one is getting hurt. It’s much better than marrying someone without being honest about your sexuality!

Except it doesn’t work. Someone is not getting what they want and just pretending.

But they are getting what they wanted.

Did you not read that one partner is gay?

Yes, so. It's a Lavendar marriage.

So, one isn’t getting what they want. Actually, neither are.

Actually they both are. You do not get the dynamics. But please continue to argue things you have no clue about.

Neither are getting what they want but please continue to argue to make yourself feel better.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I mean, who cares. If it works for them, that’s fine. Although some of these relationships do not seem like the best but that’s true of traditional relationships as well.

If my kid came to me and said they were doing this, I think I would likely discourage. But I don’t really care what other people do so long as no one is getting hurt. It’s much better than marrying someone without being honest about your sexuality!

Except it doesn’t work. Someone is not getting what they want and just pretending.

But they are getting what they wanted.

Did you not read that one partner is gay?

Yes, so. It's a Lavendar marriage.

So, one isn’t getting what they want. Actually, neither are.

Actually they both are. You do not get the dynamics. But please continue to argue things you have no clue about.

k

The gay person married same sex?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:https://wapo.st/4o44pjK

This is an article about people with different sexual orientations entering into legal marriage in the full knowledge of each other's orientation or asexuality. Essentially, it's about love that transcends gender.

What a beautiful piece, and honest people living honestly.
I know it's probably not easy, but it should open our eyes to all the possibilities out there.

Sounds great. Can we also do this for heterosexual marriages so that when someone lies to you about who they are to use you for your fertility there is a consequence?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I mean, who cares. If it works for them, that’s fine. Although some of these relationships do not seem like the best but that’s true of traditional relationships as well.

If my kid came to me and said they were doing this, I think I would likely discourage. But I don’t really care what other people do so long as no one is getting hurt. It’s much better than marrying someone without being honest about your sexuality!

Except it doesn’t work. Someone is not getting what they want and just pretending.

But they are getting what they wanted.

Did you not read that one partner is gay?

Yes, so. It's a Lavendar marriage.

What don’t you understand?

I don't understand how this is different than most marriages.

I'm married, my H is a mess I want to be in a clean house. I'm not getting everything I want but I get most of what I want.

Yall need to stop thinking of peoples private parts so much.

They care more about the person's soul and their loving connection than their genitals. Welcome to being evolved.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:https://wapo.st/4o44pjK

This is an article about people with different sexual orientations entering into legal marriage in the full knowledge of each other's orientation or asexuality. Essentially, it's about love that transcends gender.

What a beautiful piece, and honest people living honestly.
I know it's probably not easy, but it should open our eyes to all the possibilities out there.

Sounds great. Can we also do this for heterosexual marriages so that when someone lies to you about who they are to use you for your fertility there is a consequence?

Nobody is lying in the article.