Unpopular opinion: if you can't tell your spouse the truth about it, it's cheating. Emotional affairs are cheating. Porn is cheating. Spending money and hiding it is financially cheating.
Dishonesty in general is a form of cheating or damaging to the trust dynamic.
Unpopular opinion: if you can't tell your spouse the truth about it, it's cheating. Emotional affairs are cheating. Porn is cheating. Spending money and hiding it is financially cheating.
Dishonesty in general is a form of cheating or damaging to the trust dynamic.
Exactly, but the DCUM set isn't ready for that conversation.