DD is friendly with girls who have been mean to her in the past, why can't I let it go?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:YOU put her in a small school
Your fault. She's just trying to survive

+1 op, pray on it.

[Anonymous]

Let it go. There may come a time when she has relationships, they have terrible breakups and they get back together too. You need to learn to let her live her life. People change.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:YOU put her in a small school
Your fault. She's just trying to survive

This. I was your daughter OP. If you are in a small private school like this, you have to do whatever you can to fit in.

If you want her to me more true to herself, think about a public school. I still blame my parents for the situation they *paid* to put me in.

[Anonymous]

Let it go - As in let your child navigate or
Put her in a public or diff school

[Anonymous]

Let’s also not forget that they’re the good times are as legitimate as the bad ones. I had a good friend in elementary school. I had a falling out with her in fifth grade over something I don’t even remember, then became good friends with her seventh and eighth and then she pulled out of our friend group midway through eighth.

It was too bad, and maybe she felt iced out, but we really good times when we were close, and as an adult, I connected with her a few times over social media and then chat and seen lots of great stuff about her. The bad part isn’t the only true part.