Did you feel strongly about what you thought the gender would be and then it was different?

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Anonymous wrote:I find out next week if I’m having a boy or a girl. Ever since I found out, I have strongly felt like it is a girl and I know I’ll be really sad for a minute if it’s not. Of course I do just want the baby to be perfectly healthy, either way I’ll be happy. I just really feel that it’s a girl!!

You are talking about sex. Not gender.

Gender is a social construct.

Yep. My kid is trans, and fluid in gender, so the sex of my kid remains the same but the gender changed. Good luck, OP, if you are fixed on gender heteronormative styles and you get a kid like mine. It is hard, heart opening, and a challenge to navigate society that is so binary. I love my kid, society has not yet caught up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Gender-reveal parties are heteronormative and should be phased out.

OP here and no way! I will be having a big extravagant one. It’ll be like a second baby shower. Not sure how we’ll do the reveal but it’ll be very fun and exciting. If the baby is boy I will be buying him only all blue things and trucks and dinosaurs. If it’s a girl she will only wear pink and love ballet and dresses. And no I’m not joking!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Gender is a social construct.

Sure. But sex isn’t.

[Anonymous]

I had a hunch three times and was right three times. boy/girl/boy

[Anonymous]

My DC are 25/22/20. Much to my MIL’s annoyance/agitation/bewilderment,
DH and I did NOT want to find out the sex of our babies, ever! I loved being surprised!

Was absolutely convinced out last was male - a minor urogenital issue was detected at a sonogram and both the radiologist (at a follow up) and obgyn knowing we didn’t want to know the sex of the baby led with stats about how this is common/easily fixed with infant boys. 🤔 Imagine my shock then when I delivered a girl - with perfectly healthy urogenital system!

[Anonymous]

If we can't call them gender reveal parties can we call them sex parties? Lol

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Gender-reveal parties are heteronormative and should be phased out.

OP here and no way! I will be having a big extravagant one. It’ll be like a second baby shower. Not sure how we’ll do the reveal but it’ll be very fun and exciting. If the baby is boy I will be buying him only all blue things and trucks and dinosaurs. If it’s a girl she will only wear pink and love ballet and dresses. And no I’m not joking!

I feel sorry for your baby.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Gender-reveal parties are heteronormative and should be phased out.

OP here and no way! I will be having a big extravagant one. It’ll be like a second baby shower. Not sure how we’ll do the reveal but it’ll be very fun and exciting. If the baby is boy I will be buying him only all blue things and trucks and dinosaurs. If it’s a girl she will only wear pink and love ballet and dresses. And no I’m not joking!

A baby is a human being, not a doll.

And no, I’m not joking.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I find out next week if I’m having a boy or a girl. Ever since I found out, I have strongly felt like it is a girl and I know I’ll be really sad for a minute if it’s not. Of course I do just want the baby to be perfectly healthy, either way I’ll be happy. I just really feel that it’s a girl!!

You are talking about sex. Not gender.

Gender is a social construct.

Yep. My kid is trans, and fluid in gender, so the sex of my kid remains the same but the gender changed. Good luck, OP, if you are fixed on gender heteronormative styles and you get a kid like mine. It is hard, heart opening, and a challenge to navigate society that is so binary. I love my kid, society has not yet caught up.

Your poor kid, yikes. Sounds like you or their school peers brainwashed them

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The stats say if you already have a bot your second will be a boy too, so my guess is that you are wrong

My firstborn is a boy and my next two are girls…