Is not allowing my husband to cook scrambled eggs in the morning an unreasonable request?

[Anonymous]

Get an air purifier for your kitchen. A small one will work fine. Crack 2 windows on either side of the house for 10 minutes. After that, make a spray bottle with white vinegar and water and spray the air a bit. Vinegar absorbs smells really well and the strong vinegar small dissipates after it's dry.

I am sensitive to smells but this feels a bit too nitpicky to me. You can be working harder to manage resoling the smell instead of not allowing him to eat a very common food he likes.

[Anonymous]

Put a dab of vicks vapor rub under your nose until it's gone.

[Anonymous]

Every day, since it bothers you, would be excessive. But one day per week I think you have to live with.

[Anonymous]

It’s unreasonable. He is doing a normal kitchen thing in a kitchen.

When my DH started working from home he set up shop at the kitchen table. Then proceeded to complain if any normal kitchen activities or sounds happened during the work day. Even the dog drinking from its water bowl. We quickly encouraged him to either adjust expectations or find a better location in the house to work.

[Anonymous]

Not reasonable. Ask him to rinse the dirty pan and plates and leave the vent running after he cooks until you start work - there shouldn't be any "lingering" smell at that point. If there is you have a vent problem, not a husband problem.

[Anonymous]

Only if you’re pregnant.

[Anonymous]

My coworker microwaves shrimp everyday and stinks up the whole office. I don't want to complain about it though so I just leave for a half hour.

[Anonymous]

Of course it's unreasonable. Open the window and go on about your day.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What if a spouse said the smell of coffee bothers them? Would it be reasonable for the other spouse to go without?

I think so. You can easily get coffee at work or down the street for a $1 to $4.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Only if you’re pregnant.

My aversion to the smell of cooked eggs certainly got worse and permanent after having kids.

[Anonymous]

If the house is so nice, find another place in it to work when he fixes breakfast. This is completely unreasonable. Poor guy’s not allowed to have scrambled eggs in the morning, lol…

[Anonymous]

I would be upset if my spouse asked me not to cook a totally normal breakfast food in my own house. It’s not like he’s frying tuna. 🤣

[Anonymous]

Unreasonable. Fix your ventilation issues and stop being so prissy. Refusing to eat fish is not very healthy or mature either.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s unreasonable. Buy a better kitchen hood vent.

Does a vent exist to have no cooking smells? I find that a little hard to believe. I don't think our vent is bad. We live in a nice home.

Does he run it? You really shouldn’t have a lot of smells if you do.

He does run it and he tries to quickly clean the stove, pan and his plate. But each time I can still smell the eggs. I am very sensitive to the cooked egg smell.

[Anonymous]

Open the windows while cooking and get a better exhaust hood. I can’t imagine policing my spouse’s food choices like this.