Moving to HCOL area for GF

[Anonymous]

Boys shouldn’t follow girls. The relationship will be doomed if he does.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Boys shouldn’t follow girls. The relationship will be doomed if he does.

Why not? Why can't men support women? Why is it a one way street?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think my DD may be dating your son. And she thinks you suck.

Yikes. Are you drinking? Why would you do that to your DD and her potentially future ILs. It's one thing to think these things, and another to have your parent telling the world.

If you are the parent of the DD, MYOB.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would not get involved in my adult child's romantic relationship, finances, or perfectly normal life choices at all. As long as he can still support himself, what's the big deal?

It would set a young person several years back in student debt payments, homeownership and retirement savings.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would not get involved in my adult child's romantic relationship, finances, or perfectly normal life choices at all. As long as he can still support himself, what's the big deal?

It would set a young person several years back in student debt payments, homeownership and retirement savings.

That is the adult child's decision to make. If OP steps in, their son could resent them for the rest of their lives if he stays in place and has a boring life.

[Anonymous]

It may improve their odds and solidify their relationship.

[Anonymous]

*and help their career.