Yeah, my dentist is constantly “popping a little sealant on that groove” every time I go in. I’m not particularly cavity-prone, but if I tell him I’m getting food stuck somewhere, or he notices a deep spot, he’ll fill the groove or divot. Thirty seconds to mix the compound, another fifteen to swipe it on, little UV light on it, done. My question for OP would be, what’s the role of dental hygiene in all this? Why couldn’t her daughter keep a toothbrush and paste in her purse, and duck into the restroom after eating crackers or drinking Starbucks? Colgate, I think, makes tiny pre-pasted brushes that can be used discreetly. Even just a quick swipe of the brush and a swish with water should help clear those problem areas of food before bacteria can grow. Surely 21st century dental practice must have a better solution than never eating another carb again. |
Cavities are also helped along by the particular bacteria population in your mouth. My DH has cavity prone teeth, and he tested high for a certain type of bacteria that our kids and I don't have - we don't get cavities. It's like gut health - your diet affects what populations of beneficial or harmful bacteria predominate. |
I wouldn't police a 16yo at all. I don't really even police my 14yo except to make sure he gets protein at every meal. The fact you have mentioned thinnness more than once makes me think you have other concerns than teeth. |
This |
This is the main thing you hear from all the dentists now. |
You think she has bulimia? |
Give this kid a toothbrush and toothpaste. After she eats or drinks, tell her to brush. It will really help to get the food out of her teeth. And if she can't brush right away, teach her to take a big swig of water to get things off of her teeth. |
sugary/acidic drinks like lemonade, coffees and starbucks refreshers
You probably were the parent that brought Doritos and Gatorade to your six year old's soccer games. You failed her and now she is getting back at you. |
She does this and has for a long time. |
Ask her dental hygienist for an honest report on her home care. Genetics are absolutely a factor, but I suspect hurried brushing and inconsistent flossing contribute to her decay. |
I never got sealants and when I asked my dentist about it as an adult while he was suggesting it for my 6 yr old DD he said when he and I were kids, it was just done for poor kids who only saw a dentist at public school because they didn't think those parents were getting their kids to brush or floss. He said it's too late as an adult. |
I still get sealants as an adult. Why would it be too late - we can still get cavities. |
Right after eating or drinking, the mouth is in an acidic state and the brushing can cause excessive loss of enamel. My dentist said to wait about 30-60 minutes after eating or drinking before brushing. Right after eating she can rinse her mouth well with water and maybe use a toothpick/floss. Foods like carrots or apples or celery can help get crackers out of the grooves, so if it's part of a meal like school lunch when brushing isn't convenient, end with those foods. My dentist agrees that crackers are a culprit, so maybe encourage eating those first, then ending with a veggie. |
Sealants are just a cash money maker for dentists. Honest dentists don’t do them. |
It’s not realistic to think you can successfully police her food anymore. The more of an issue you make now, the more likely she is to totally rebel when she heads to college. She’s heard you, she’s heard the dentist. At some point she’s going to have to deal with the consequences. |