We live in Hollywood and my Dh is convinced Johnny Depp DID abuse Amber Heard

[Anonymous]

They’re both nasty nut jobs who abused one another. No one’s hands are clean in this case.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think it was a toxic relationship and they were both abusive towards one another.

But based on what came out in court, I think it arose from her. I don't think he's innately an abuser; and I think that she is. I think he will go on to have abuse-free relationships. I do not think that she will.

This, plus she clearly has mental problems.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Based on testimonies of his exes, he has never been an abuser. Bed shitter, on the other hand, has been known for it.

gross...I'm trying to imagine why anyone would do that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Based on testimonies of his exes, he has never been an abuser. Bed shitter, on the other hand, has been known for it.

gross...I'm trying to imagine why anyone would do that.

When people are as high on drugs as he frequently was reported to be, they can lose control of their bowels and/ or don't know where they are and discharge anywhere.

[Anonymous]

She pooped in the bed on purpose. Case closed.

[Anonymous]

They both probably hit and shoved each other

[Anonymous]

Does your husband have some intel into it?

[Anonymous]

Of course he abused her and it doesn’t matter if she abused him too. He should have called the police. You can’t beat the crap out of someone because they hit you. You can defend yourself but you can’t retaliate.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:They were both abusive to each other. She however, goaded him into it. I don't think if he were sober he'd abuse anyone.

Everyone is responsible for their own behavior, not the behavior of others. If he abused her, it was because he chose to do so.

[Anonymous]

He was a drunk with anger issues. I am sure he was highly unpleasant to live with at times and threw a few things. I am sure too that their verbal arguments got very heated.

I don't believe her abuse victim stories but he certainly was an angry drunk and drug user (as was she).

The tapes show her to be by far the more manipulative and nasty person but they both would be horrible to live with.

[Anonymous]

You live in Hollywood? I’ve never heard someone who actually lives in LA describe it like that. “Hi, I’m Larla and I’m from Hollywood.”

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They were both abusive to each other. She however, goaded him into it. I don't think if he were sober he'd abuse anyone.

Everyone is responsible for their own behavior, not the behavior of others. If he abused her, it was because he chose to do so.

This. When people say stuff like "she goaded him into it" I find it unsettling. Can you be goaded into hitting your spouse? Your kids? If I was with someone who baited me that way, I would just leave.

Also, while they both seemed to have been terrible to each other generally, when it comes to physical abuse, it matters that he was bigger and much older. It's just a fact that if you are much more physically dominant, it's worse when you hit the other person. People get hit by their kids all the time and that sucks but people who are not abusers understand-- you can't just retaliate, you can hurt them a lot more than they hurt you. You have to walk away.

Also it's nuts that people are using his substance abuse issues as an excuse. No. If you're a mean drunk or beat your wife when you're on drugs, you're still abusive. It absolves you of nothing.

[Anonymous]

I agree with your husband. Depp is the abuser.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:They’re both nasty nut jobs who abused one another. No one’s hands are clean in this case.

+1. Too much drugs and alcohol. Too much drama. They are not a good combo.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sounds to be that they both had issues so it is hard to say which one was more abusive than the other

This. They’re both abusers and Johnny Depp is a disgusting, addict.