Do very attractive women ask men out?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:In my experience, very pretty women do not do the asking. They also don't get asked out as much because guys are intimidated.

Women always make the first move, they give very clear signals of interest.

[Anonymous]

In college my second girlfriend made the first move. She was a knockout and I wasn't sure if she was into me. One night a group of us went out and when we returned she came with me to my bedroom and we chatted for a while. We were laying on the floor with beanbags and she leans over and kisses me. I was shocked. This girl was a 10/10 perfect face, body, everything. Boys drooled over her on campus. We made out all night (no sex). After that night she was always the more "aggressive" one in terms of who was pursing who.

While it's common for attractive girls to always be sought after, sometimes it's their personality. When they want a man, they want that man. Or, they will pursue him so another girl doesn't get him

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:In college my second girlfriend made the first move. She was a knockout and I wasn't sure if she was into me. One night a group of us went out and when we returned she came with me to my bedroom and we chatted for a while. We were laying on the floor with beanbags and she leans over and kisses me. I was shocked. This girl was a 10/10 perfect face, body, everything. Boys drooled over her on campus. We made out all night (no sex). After that night she was always the more "aggressive" one in terms of who was pursing who.

While it's common for attractive girls to always be sought after, sometimes it's their personality. When they want a man, they want that man. Or, they will pursue him so another girl doesn't get him

Yes, it's very typical for attractive women (who know they rarely get rejected) to proactively pursue men. Famous actresses, beautiful women in leadership positions are like that

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:In college my second girlfriend made the first move. She was a knockout and I wasn't sure if she was into me. One night a group of us went out and when we returned she came with me to my bedroom and we chatted for a while. We were laying on the floor with beanbags and she leans over and kisses me. I was shocked. This girl was a 10/10 perfect face, body, everything. Boys drooled over her on campus. We made out all night (no sex). After that night she was always the more "aggressive" one in terms of who was pursing who.

While it's common for attractive girls to always be sought after, sometimes it's their personality. When they want a man, they want that man. Or, they will pursue him so another girl doesn't get him

As a woman, I prefer to pick my men. Somehow if I chose him myself, he seems more attractive/desirable vs guys who go overboard with pursuing me. But I do expect reciprocity, e.g. if the man I "date" is not equally invested, or tries to behave like he's a big D who can get anyone, I bail out.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Some do, some don’t. Being attractive has nothing to do with extroversion.

I agree. There's nothing wrong with a woman asking a man out, and it has nothing to do with how pretty they are.

[Anonymous]

You definitely don’t want to be around a knockout/ten when she gets rejected. I saw it happen firsthand in college. This gorgeous woman made a move on a guy who happened to be with the another woman. He rejected the ten and paid the price. She went batshiat insane…started stalking and harassing the guy. I’m not saying it’s common, but it happens.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You definitely don’t want to be around a knockout/ten when she gets rejected. I saw it happen firsthand in college. This gorgeous woman made a move on a guy who happened to be with the another woman. He rejected the ten and paid the price. She went batshiat insane…started stalking and harassing the guy. I’m not saying it’s common, but it happens.

Normally that happens with 5s men who are rejected by 10s women. In 10/1 ratio

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You definitely don’t want to be around a knockout/ten when she gets rejected. I saw it happen firsthand in college. This gorgeous woman made a move on a guy who happened to be with the another woman. He rejected the ten and paid the price. She went batshiat insane…started stalking and harassing the guy. I’m not saying it’s common, but it happens.

I always ask straightforward if a man is available. If not - not my loss

[Anonymous]

Ask him out to a coffee house.

[Anonymous]

Ask out? Hmm, I guess not. But I had no problem scanning a room and making eye contact/smiling at a guy I found attractive and approaching him to chat and see what he was about.

[Anonymous]

Never. If she is, she's a con. Look out.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Never. If she is, she's a con. Look out.

What women did to you, bro ?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wondering if you're a very attractive woman do you pursue guys, ask them out, text first, call first, etc? A male friend whose attractive told me he hasn't pursued but wondering if that's common? Personally, as an attractive millennial I've never asked a man out on a date.

Never.

[Anonymous]

Attractive, successful, nice personality guy here. I’ve never had attractive women “directly” ask me out but there have been a few instances where it has certainly felt like I was asked out. I’m in my early 50s, happily married now so no one is asking me out now.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:In my experience, very pretty women do not do the asking. They also don't get asked out as much because guys are intimidated.

Women always make the first move, they give very clear signals of interest.

They do? I’m very pretty but don’t know what these signals are. What are they?