OP here: Thank you! This is hugely helpful. |
NP who has seen psychiatrists for most of her life here.
By all means ask the doctor about it. But I would encourage you to understand that diagnoses are for insurance companies. They truly don't matter much outside of that. They are just labels from the DSM that potentially inform what meds the insurance company is willing to pay for. A good psychiatrist evaluates and treats symptoms. There is a huge amount of symptom overlap in psychiatric conditions. And your DS's symptoms are what they are whatever you (or the doctor or the psychologist or whomever) call them. |
LCSW from above. I completely disagree with the above, particularly the bolded. This kid came in with a previously established ADHD/anxiety diagnosis. DMDD is a completely new class of mental health issue her son has been labeled with that will absolutely affect the care he gets going forward. |
You should definitely ask. WHen I have in the past I was told that the physician or staff picks the codes most likely to be paid by your insurance company |
OP here: This is what I feared. I also don’t know anything about DMDD other than what I’m now reading on the internet which seems quite severe. And doesn’t particularly describe my son. The diagnosis at 14 is also concerning as based on my brief look it seems to be diagnosed between 6-10 and is only something that applies to those under 18 and then falls under an anxiety/depression diagnosis. I’m only spinning my wheels here because there was no conversation at all. |
Meanwhile, OP, I’m over here assuming it was a coding because insurance policies changed and this got you the most coverage 🙃 |
My DS has a diagnosis of ADHD and DMDD. He was 10 when we received it, along with the ADHD diagnosis.
Here is my extreme laymen's opinion on it generally. Whoever puts together the DSM wrongly eliminated the emotional dysregulation component of ADHD. To account for it separately, this DMDD diagnosis is tacked on. For us, I don't think it helps insurance-wise but maybe it does. |
NP but fwiw, DS has SEVERE adhd. All hyperactivity symptoms, evident from infancy, diagnosed at age 3, required medication at age 4. Still very severe at age 12. Just a physically very intense, unable to slow down or stop his body moving kind of kid. I've had many teachers over the years make comments like "we see a lot of kids with ADHD diagnoses and 504s and special accommodations, and a lot of them seem like a stretch, but then you see a kid like Larlo and realize that ADHD does actually exist." DS has zero emotional dysregulation. Never has. Is the opposite, in fact. Extremely emotionally even keel. So emotional liability is not a part of DS's ADHD. Ultimately, what this mostly points to is the fact that the DSM and insurance codes are NOT science and not gospel. Just a roomful of people trying to categorize stuff that probably shouldn't be categorized. |
I'm not saying that everyone with ADHD has emotional dysregulation. It is a frequent feature, though. My other kid has dyslexia and he can do several things very well that people with dyslexia aren't supposed to be good at...yet he still has dyslexia. I agree that the DSM is not gospel. Some people do like to take it as such, including some posters on this forum. DMDD can be a very serious diagnosis. For us, it's inappropriate and should be included under the ADHD umbrella. |
Yes this, ask what this new dx is based on. |
What's the difference between DMDD and what you see as classic ADHD emotional liability? |
. I don’t know what people are telling you to expect to be charged for asking about the code or to not expect it to be removed. That’s not my experience at all. Psychiatric diagnosis codes are incredibly subjective. When a new one pops up, if I disagree with it, I always ask, and they have always removed it if I had a problem with it. |