DH’s former AP killed herself

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Would you have mixed feelings if your DH, who vowed to love and honor you, killed himself?

I’m not sure what you’re getting at here.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Would you have mixed feelings if your DH, who vowed to love and honor you, killed himself?

I’m not sure what you’re getting at here.

He’s the one who cheated on you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Would you have mixed feelings if your DH, who vowed to love and honor you, killed himself?

I’m not sure what you’re getting at here.

He’s the one who cheated on you.

And?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:=DCUM’s recent obsession with affairs.

Oh honey, you think that is recent? Did you not read DCUM in 2019?

[Anonymous]

Is suicide contagious?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think it's messed up you're partly celebrating her death.

I'm sorry, I missed where OP said she was 'celebrating'. All I saw was that she had mixed feelings - which is entirely reasonable.

Mixed feelings implies happiness . Celebratory feelings. Don't waste both our time playing semantics

I also think it's messed up to have mixed feelings, again don't bother quoting me because I won't change my mind

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:=DCUM’s recent obsession with affairs.

Oh honey, you think that is recent? Did you not read DCUM in 2019?

I’ve read DCUM since 2012! I think there’s an uptick in affair posts recently.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We need more information. How is dh acting/feeling? Is he hysterically crying? How did you find out.

If he is, it’s not around me. The affair ended years ago.

How did you find out?

She's probably been stalking her

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Would you have mixed feelings if your DH, who vowed to love and honor you, killed himself?

I’m not sure what you’re getting at here.

He’s the one who cheated on you.

That's okay though because op stayed with him and it's not really his fault because he had trauma and she took advantage of him. but he/ they have done therapy and she has all his passwords and they have great sex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My feelings would not be mixed. Flame away.

Jesus. My feelings wouldn’t be mixed either but in the sense that I would be horrified and incredibly sad.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Would you have mixed feelings if your DH, who vowed to love and honor you, killed himself?

I’m not sure what you’re getting at here.

He’s the one who cheated on you.

And?

Why do you have mixed feelings about this person killing herself?

[Anonymous]

You are not on the list of people who need to mourn, honor and celebrate her. You’re released from obligation.

But you should try not to revel in her apparent suffering because it’s bad for your soul.

[Anonymous]

If by “mixed feelings” you mean that you are feeling happiness at the untimely death of a human being which resulted in sadness, confusion and pain for her family, then I 100% understand why your husband cheated on you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My feelings would not be mixed. Flame away.

Same.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He won’t be cheating with her again…

Sure, he’ll just cheat with someone new. Isn’t that how it always goes?