I would also say that this is a long game, a game of uncertainty as your child grows and changes (and you as a parent tries to best support him/her,) and not a cheap game - in terms of money, time, and mental bandwidth. My son started early showing an interest in soccer and was in very low key rec. Starting in 2nd grade, he played for fun nearly everyday after school with fellow soccer loving classmates, and whatever parent was around that joined. In 3rd grade joined a serious travel team. He kept showing love and interest and wanting to getting better. I came to learn about him as he grew that he was naturally athletic, agile, balanced, and had a good sense of his body in space. So as a parent, I supported. In middle school there's a bit more balancing to do with HW. But for elementary... there was no HW, so it was all about just seeing where his interest went and supporting him. So don't get too discouraged about the environment. As in all things, it's about YOUR CHILD and your support. And as you enter the world, do lots of chatting with other parents and coaches to learn more.
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