Do you wish you had picked JR? Or perhaps a different school? |
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Are you for real? This is no one’s business. Also a terrible idea amidst high levels of depression and anxiety amongst teens right now. |
+1 Why do you feel entitled to know the post-HS choices of every kid that attends JR? It’s not your business. And some kids are really struggling to decide, still sad about not getting in to top choices, etc. |
It is not a big deal. Everyone posts this kind of stuff. It is an exciting life transition. A time to celebrate all the kids no matter where they are heading off to after high school. There are many on-ramps to a successful life |
No, not everyone. You have just come to expect the information and perhaps like the PP, feel entitled to it. |
You may feel that way, but a lot of kids, teachers, parents & neighbors can be shockingly & openly judgemental about a teen’s postsecondary choices. |
+1 And some kids are really stressed about the schools they are deciding between and I think really disappointed. It’s a hard lesson to be told to get straight As, study, work hard, and then not get into any top schools. I know they will do well at whichever school they choose but the reality is sinking in for some. Have some compassion and empathy that this isn’t a celebratory time for every student. |
Oh BS. When the dust settles in June, this school never does as well as the top privates when comparing like to like. Same with SWW. The public parents like to state as fact that results are “the same” and, starting in 2023 “better” but they are relying on the same 5 individuals who got recruited to an Ivy for crew or track. None of these parents ever does a head-to-head for the kids ranked, say, #30 to #80 in their public compared to the same cohort at GDS or Sidwell. THAT is where the significant difference is most obvious. |
I have a high schooler at both JR and GDS/Sidwell. The later had about 100% more work throughout high school. Frankly, GDS/Sidwell college admissions should be miles better. The kids are much better prepared and have worked much, much harder. |
So basically in your mind one child was worth an investment and the other wasn’t and your investment hasn’t paid off. I hope you don’t share this attitude with your kids. |
I'm the parent with high school kids in both JR and private. The follow-up post (saying "I'm pissed off") was not me. My kids are both still in high school. |
Stop trolling. Your children do not attend either of the aforementioned private schools. However, it sounds like your child is a mediocre student (surprise surprise!). |
So, if both the JR kid and the Sidwell kid are scoring 1500+ SATs, why does it matter how much more work one kid did vs. the other? If the excessive work is not producing superior 3rd party results...sounds like it was just more work. If the additional work resulted in less time for a kid to pursue an interesting EC, clearly the extra work was detrimental. For the most part, the JR kids getting accepted to top schools are Presidential Scholars, are captain of debate/robotics/model UN/Beacon, etc. Also, many are actually taking college classes through DE and usually are some of the top performers in those classes. So, hard to say what the value might be of being "better prepared" for college. |
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Found these links pretty informative. Placements this and last year look very decent.
https://instagram.com/jacksonreed2023?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= https://instagram.com/wilsonclassof22?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= |