If that’s the case, she can stay at the current job. |
I think the lack of fulfillment comes from employers overselling the vision they have for myself and the company. I've turned down a few jobs because the question 'how do you see me fitting into both the company and what does my day-to-do role look like in your eyes?' I left the last company because my project wrapped up & I got put on a project that wasn't in my area of expertise to 'figure it out'. That just doesn't sit well for me professionally to be whipped around like that. Secondarily, I find companies interview as if it's a sales pitch of 'look at what we have, it's so beautiful and you can be a part of it' and then next thing I know the job is much different. I.e. for my current role I was brought on to be the 'outward face of the company' but i'm spending 20+ hours a week doing back office stuff off the cuff because last minute a client decides they want something and since i'm at the senior manager level the execs just pass it off to me to figure out. It seems like they brought me on and don't know how to utilize me, so I'm stuck 'floating' and plugging holes as they arise in a very reactive manner, not proactively pushing towards a collective goal of the company. My first two jobs I LOVED, I just couldn't realistically live in DC comfortably for under the 100k mark. Im fully confident that I'd receive great references from those people at the VP & senior director level. The last one and this one have seemed to be a slight bait and switch or at the very least, a wilful admission of what the job was like. I appreciate you sharing your input, you are exactly who I'd like to hear from. I'm not *miserable* here, I just know under a year this isn't a place I'll be long term. |
I’m the exec PP and you come across with a very junior mindset in this post. Senior manager titles are not going to be “the outward face of the company.” And ability to figure out things that aren’t exactly in your wheelhouse is exactly what separates a director from a manager. One person’s “whipped around” is another person’s opportunity for growth. Again the thing I’d be thinking about is what you’ve actually accomplished in these roles. Your career story should be a balance of what you’ve achieved and how you’ve grown in every role. I don’t see how you could have much of that story for these last two. Personally my advice would be to use this place you know you don’t want to be forever to practice some mindset and people skills that will serve you better in the next role. Get some real accomplishments before you hop. |
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What about people who can’t ever get promoted at current jobs hopping?
Often at companies you see a CEO and Heads of Risk, Audit, Legal, HR report in to CEO. None are qualified to be CEO so no promotion opportunity. Plus with Reorgs, mergers, new CEOs or layoffs as they are highly paid they are in firing line. Pretty much only way up start small company and work your way to big companies. It is pretty common. Plus stay too long also looks bad. In this job market I say hop as next recession no hopping to be done. |
The problem is that the hit would be down to zero as no one will hire you during a recession at $100 if you were making $150 - especially since you already demonstrated money is your driver. There are good and bad forces at work when you hit $150 with little experience and are unlucky enough not to have any tenure beyond a year. |
Yes, everyone goes through that but your are either really unlucky or appear not to be able to weather adversity for a relatively longer period of time. More than likely, since you had such large increases, you are chasing the dollar. Works great now. Very painful when the market is tight. There is an art to managing a career and seldom does short tenure to chase dollars work. Otherwise, why wouldn’t everyone be doing that? But, savy planners know that isn’t the best path for a career path (especially when things get tight). |
| Am I reading correctly that you intend for your working life to be about 13 years in total? Good luck with that. |
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Change jobs to increase salary. Companies will hire a new person into a position for more money than the people already there. This shows no appreciation for the people already in the job.
By changing jobs, I increased my income by tens of thousands. That helped my retirement accounts a lot. During recessions, I was laid off. After all that, I decided I’m basically a free agent. Save as much as you can and you can have financial freedoms in 10-15 years. |
| Its pretty normal in some fields, especially IT. My spouse did that before being at a job for 4-6 years. |
I would not want to work for a close minded person who would not give a chance. Sounds old fashioned to me. I agree that all the jobs give you a wide range of experience. You see what is done with competitors, different industries and so on. I see it no differently than a business with their constant laying off of people, merges, acquisitions, retirement buyouts. Well, an employee can “lay off” an employer. Why not? I worked for a place that laid people off in 2-3 rounds. I was round 2. Then they hired a bunch back. They fired all those people to make their reports look better to a buyer. Where is the loyalty to the humans they employed? You’ll be fine, OP. Those who fear a recession probably live above their means or paycheck to paycheck. Save for a rainy say. Make hay while the sun shines. |
That’s a farce, as I’m assuming you are not properly calculating 3.2 percent inflation on average each year on your current spend levels nor assuming reasonable and sustainable market gains. If you save 15 years of salary, you can spend 60-70 percent of that after taxes. And then a portion Ian needed to sustain your expenses for this 15 years. Even if you could magically save 40% of the gross, you could only sustain your current living for no more than 15 years, without any surprise expenses, etc. FIRE is a dangerous game and it’s called that because most will get burnt. If you don’t have at least $5M in invested assets, you can’t retire before age 40. It’s simple math and historical analysis. |
It doesn’t matter what you want unless it’s your business…those who don’t color between the lines have to face more risk (and sometimes more reward). But when the rest comes (recession) will the plan hold. Convention says no |
Some jobs are switch and bait. My precious job was supposed to be a business role, but every 6 month, my managers will change my goals - sometimes a project manager, later on he wanted me to be a python engineer. There is no one anyone can deliver in this environment - poor job fit, skill misalignment, and the only thing you will get at end of your “tenaure” is battered self esteem. You will be surprised how many teams out there that does this. |
You have stayed anywhere long enough to get promoted in house. Do you really think companies give out promotions as prizes just because you stuck around for three months? |
| What industry? |