the admissions landscape for girls is much harder. |
Well, 11 of the 18 Sidwell students going to Ivies this year are young women. |
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I know a few NCS girls that always intended to study abroad. Cathedral schools have several international families - many parents that are not US born. Studying in a different country for some is a first option. |
There are plenty of reasons a student might not choose an ivy. A student who is offered a Jefferson scholarship at UVA or a Morehead-Cain fellowship at UNC would have a post that this group viewed as a less-than-stellar college result when, in reality, those scholarships are amazing and probably harder to get than admission into HYPS. I believe at least one NCS student received one of these fellowships this year. |
For my kids studying abroad will be a top choice bc they are citizens elsewhere so school there will cost a fraction of even a state school in the states |
Grandparent donors are the welfare queens of college admissions. |
Studying abroad is different than choosing to attend/graduate from a foreign university. My children will study abroad in high school and college. I just can’t imagine turning down an Ivy or top college to earn a degree from a foreign university. However, I would consider Oxford or Cambridge, depending on the U.S. colleges in question. |
Listen, people make poor or unpopular decisions all the time. Here’s where I personally draw the line: If I feel compelled to tell everyone that I’m a Jefferson Scholar or a Morehead-Cain Fellow (and then explain what that means to the uninitiated), then I’m better off choosing HYPS. Those colleges require no explanation. |
Those who intended to study abroad are not turning down Ivies. They're turning down other US options. |
well except for the fact HYPS will cost you $350K more than UVA or UNC. : |
1. Not every family needs to take out loans/go into debt in order to pay for their children’s education; but 2. If you have to take out loans, after they’re paid off, which college do you prefer to be an alum of (and pass along legacy status)? |
Within each school, not all "legacy status" is created equal. I'm quite sure that the kids of my fellow HYP alums who donate tons of money are much more likely to benefit in needle-moving ways for college admissions than someone like me donating five figures total over the past two decades. Anyone taking out loans to pay for HYP usually won't be in the financial state to donate meaningful amounts of money later on. |
What does that mean? Seriously. |
Convenient scapegoat that's not nearly as prevalent as those relying on the trope claim. |