Will I cause an eating disorder?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP from the bits of timeline you've provided here it seems like you didn't get to go to college because you were stuck "raising" your brother's kids so that his wife could go to college. So now maybe you're a bit insecure about your lack of formal education and masking for it by being the Absolute Authority Inside The House - not just that you set the rules but that you do it because it's absolutely best to follow your orders, you know right and wrong, and you will not bend. It's a bit sad to think about from this angle, but if your youngest is 3 you're about to have some free time on your hands to maybe take some online courses and pick a career. Once you have something else going on you won't be as unyielding with stuff that parents of older kids are trying to explain is actually really low on the importance totem pole, to the point you're threatening violence to an imaginary teen for eating a snack food.

You're still a good parent if your kids get some refined sugar here and there. You're not a good parent if you're bragging about your husband beating your kids. That's where you've got it backwards.

Nailed it.

OP here. Man you guys must be really white. An “ a** whopping” means a good spanking. That’s not beating or child abuse.

Nobody spanks 15 year olds, not even black people (ask me how I know!). You're not talking about a "spanking" when you threaten to send your husband to whoop a 15 year old's ass. But you win, I'm team obvious troll at this point - Worked sunup to sundown from 18-25 because the adult going to school was never home, but then got a masters in nursing by 27? 'Kay.

If a teenager thinks he can try to wrestle his mom, he deserves a good whooping.

[Anonymous]

Wow this thread is a ROLLERCOASTER. Certainly troll based on the frequency of OP responding and arguing and contradicting themselves.

[Anonymous]

lady, you need to relax. everything in moderation, even moderation

[Anonymous]

Where are your kids right now OP? While you furiously reply to every response you don’t like? Shouldn’t you be on the floor playing with them? Or restricting their food intake in some superior way?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP from the bits of timeline you've provided here it seems like you didn't get to go to college because you were stuck "raising" your brother's kids so that his wife could go to college. So now maybe you're a bit insecure about your lack of formal education and masking for it by being the Absolute Authority Inside The House - not just that you set the rules but that you do it because it's absolutely best to follow your orders, you know right and wrong, and you will not bend. It's a bit sad to think about from this angle, but if your youngest is 3 you're about to have some free time on your hands to maybe take some online courses and pick a career. Once you have something else going on you won't be as unyielding with stuff that parents of older kids are trying to explain is actually really low on the importance totem pole, to the point you're threatening violence to an imaginary teen for eating a snack food.

You're still a good parent if your kids get some refined sugar here and there. You're not a good parent if you're bragging about your husband beating your kids. That's where you've got it backwards.

Nailed it.

OP here. Man you guys must be really white. An “ a** whopping” means a good spanking. That’s not beating or child abuse.

Nobody spanks 15 year olds, not even black people (ask me how I know!). You're not talking about a "spanking" when you threaten to send your husband to whoop a 15 year old's ass. But you win, I'm team obvious troll at this point - Worked sunup to sundown from 18-25 because the adult going to school was never home, but then got a masters in nursing by 27? 'Kay.

If a teenager thinks he can try to wrestle his mom, he deserves a good whooping.

And you’re an idiot if you don’t think that is deserving of serious punishment. Maybe that’s why so many teens are becoming violent criminals with the lack of parenting.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Where are your kids right now OP? While you furiously reply to every response you don’t like? Shouldn’t you be on the floor playing with them? Or restricting their food intake in some superior way?

OP doesn’t restrict their food.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Where are your kids right now OP? While you furiously reply to every response you don’t like? Shouldn’t you be on the floor playing with them? Or restricting their food intake in some superior way?

OP doesn’t restrict their food.

OP here. It’s called doing multiple things at one time.

[Anonymous]

OP here. I’m done. Have fun raising your disrespectful unruly thug children.

[Anonymous]

This is so good with my morning iced brown sugar oatmilk shaken espresso.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Where are your kids right now OP? While you furiously reply to every response you don’t like? Shouldn’t you be on the floor playing with them? Or restricting their food intake in some superior way?

Where are your kids? Probably watching tv or on social media. Running your household and being thugs?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. I’m done. Have fun raising your disrespectful unruly thug children.

Oh you’re not done. You’ll be back. You’re too fired up now. You will NOT let someone tell you you’re wrong! Or batshit crazy! Or a troll!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. I’m done. Have fun raising your disrespectful unruly thug children.

Wow! Remember we weren't the ones who asked for help and yet OUR kids are the disrespectful unruly thug children?

OH honey my kids are grown and they are not thugs but, respectful citizens.

Life is not going to treat you kind but, thanks for the laugh

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Where are your kids right now OP? While you furiously reply to every response you don’t like? Shouldn’t you be on the floor playing with them? Or restricting their food intake in some superior way?

Where are your kids? Probably watching tv or on social media. Running your household and being thugs?

My kids are at school. You didn’t answer where yours are…

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Where are your kids right now OP? While you furiously reply to every response you don’t like? Shouldn’t you be on the floor playing with them? Or restricting their food intake in some superior way?

OP doesn’t restrict their food.

OP here. It’s called doing multiple things at one time.

We all know you can't do multiple things. AT least well. I hope your kids are watching youtube and eating pop-tarts

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Where are your kids right now OP? While you furiously reply to every response you don’t like? Shouldn’t you be on the floor playing with them? Or restricting their food intake in some superior way?

OP doesn’t restrict their food.

OP here. It’s called doing multiple things at one time.

So you’re NOT giving your kids your full undivided attention? Tsk tsk. Most of us are better than that. Perhaps an area you can work on?