Online dating for mid/high income

[Anonymous]

I'm a 56 year old professional female worth 2.5 million dollars. This does not include real estate I'm leaving to my adult children. What web site should I look for online dating?

[Anonymous]

This is a strange question. You don’t have enough money to be a sugar mama - you basically have enough to have a normal but not luxurious retirement. Is there something special you are looking for? If not, it should be on the same sites as everyone else (bumble, hinge), just say that you are financially independent (if you are hoping for someone who will give you credit for that/is trying to avoid gold diggers).

FWIW, I’m 52 and worth many multiples of that, and I keep it quiet. I don’t think it’s a draw for men: In my experience wealthy men often prefer to be economically superior and pay for everything, it gives them power and maybe a free pass on some other bad behavior. I typically find men with good but not 7 figure incomes who are happy to date someone who has her financial act together and isn’t a financial drain. I pay for dates about half the time, but they have no idea my actual net worth.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is a strange question. You don’t have enough money to be a sugar mama - you basically have enough to have a normal but not luxurious retirement. Is there something special you are looking for? If not, it should be on the same sites as everyone else (bumble, hinge), just say that you are financially independent (if you are hoping for someone who will give you credit for that/is trying to avoid gold diggers).

FWIW, I’m 52 and worth many multiples of that, and I keep it quiet. I don’t think it’s a draw for men: In my experience wealthy men often prefer to be economically superior and pay for everything, it gives them power and maybe a free pass on some other bad behavior. I typically find men with good but not 7 figure incomes who are happy to date someone who has her financial act together and isn’t a financial drain. I pay for dates about half the time, but they have no idea my actual net worth.

Queen 🔥

[Anonymous]

As a man, I agree with that response. I've met doctors, lawyers, management consultants, software engineers, CFOs, and a CEO on Bumble and Hinge (and once or twice on Tinder). The League tends to skew high net worth, but the same people are usually on Bumble and Hinge.

[Anonymous]

19.20's advice is excellent. I have a divorced, successful male friend in that age group, and the approach recommended there works well to attract people like him.

[Anonymous]

This is ridiculous. Just be normal.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is a strange question. You don’t have enough money to be a sugar mama - you basically have enough to have a normal but not luxurious retirement. Is there something special you are looking for? If not, it should be on the same sites as everyone else (bumble, hinge), just say that you are financially independent (if you are hoping for someone who will give you credit for that/is trying to avoid gold diggers).

FWIW, I’m 52 and worth many multiples of that, and I keep it quiet. I don’t think it’s a draw for men: In my experience wealthy men often prefer to be economically superior and pay for everything, it gives them power and maybe a free pass on some other bad behavior. I typically find men with good but not 7 figure incomes who are happy to date someone who has her financial act together and isn’t a financial drain. I pay for dates about half the time, but they have no idea my actual net worth.

Yeah. I’m 55 and have $2.7 million in my own retirement work TSP/401k, but also own multiple properties ($1-2 mill each) and I have many other investments, IRAs, etc.

No plans to divorce. If I did, I’d never remarry. I don’t even think I’d date at this point. lol

[Anonymous]

Luxy

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:As a man, I agree with that response. I've met doctors, lawyers, management consultants, software engineers, CFOs, and a CEO on Bumble and Hinge (and once or twice on Tinder). The League tends to skew high net worth, but the same people are usually on Bumble and Hinge.

These women are ugly as f..k. Teaches, nurses, artsy and yoga women are the most attractive on Hinge

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm a 56 year old professional female worth 2.5 million dollars. This does not include real estate I'm leaving to my adult children. What web site should I look for online dating?

You are the same by NW as an average military retiree at 35 with a 80k pension and a house
Why do you think you are wealthy ? I have 3 times of that and think I’m very average. I accumulated $7m while raising a SN child working part time and investing wisely

[Anonymous]

The claws are out.
Yikes!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
The claws are out.
Yikes!

Hah ? OP is very average by the NW - like a teacher with good pension. She thinks she “deserves” an elite SES man and an elite dating site.
She can join Raya I suppose

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:As a man, I agree with that response. I've met doctors, lawyers, management consultants, software engineers, CFOs, and a CEO on Bumble and Hinge (and once or twice on Tinder). The League tends to skew high net worth, but the same people are usually on Bumble and Hinge.

These women are ugly as f..k. Teaches, nurses, artsy and yoga women are the most attractive on Hinge

They were mixed in terms of physical attractiveness. Some were super hot. Some didn't do much for me. On the whole, they were better looking than average.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is a strange question. You don’t have enough money to be a sugar mama - you basically have enough to have a normal but not luxurious retirement. Is there something special you are looking for? If not, it should be on the same sites as everyone else (bumble, hinge), just say that you are financially independent (if you are hoping for someone who will give you credit for that/is trying to avoid gold diggers).

FWIW, I’m 52 and worth many multiples of that, and I keep it quiet. I don’t think it’s a draw for men: In my experience wealthy men often prefer to be economically superior and pay for everything, it gives them power and maybe a free pass on some other bad behavior. I typically find men with good but not 7 figure incomes who are happy to date someone who has her financial act together and isn’t a financial drain. I pay for dates about half the time, but they have no idea my actual net worth.

Yeah. I’m 55 and have $2.7 million in my own retirement work TSP/401k, but also own multiple properties ($1-2 mill each) and I have many other investments, IRAs, etc.

No plans to divorce. If I did, I’d never remarry. I don’t even think I’d date at this point. lol

That’s joint eg yours is half

[Anonymous]

This seems like a normal net worth for your age. Nothing crazy. Just go on normal dating sites.