Men, do you talk dirty?

[Anonymous]

I’m pretty vocal and like a lot of dirty talk during sex, but my current partner is almost completely silent. I don’t want to push him to do anything he’s uncomfortable with, but I’m starting to lose interest in sex. It’s just tough for me to get turned on, it just feels impersonal.

Is this just how men are? Is there anyway to get him to be more vocal?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m pretty vocal and like a lot of dirty talk during sex, but my current partner is almost completely silent. I don’t want to push him to do anything he’s uncomfortable with, but I’m starting to lose interest in sex. It’s just tough for me to get turned on, it just feels impersonal.

Is this just how men are? Is there anyway to get him to be more vocal?

I thought most men were into it. He sounds like an outlier.

[Anonymous]

My ex husband didn’t say anything.

My boyfriend is getting more and more comfortable, and it’s makes me more comfortable and it does make things more fun.

Sometimes things are said that are absurd and make no sense in the moment and become fodder for inside jokes.

[Anonymous]

There are billions of men. They vary a lot.

If you want your partner to do something he's not currently doing, you need to actually talk to him about it.

[Anonymous]

It's not my thing but I'll do it if I'm asked. I find it weird.

[Anonymous]

I'd love to but have no idea what to say

[Anonymous]

I do … because I like to keep myself entertained since I am alone. 😂

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m pretty vocal and like a lot of dirty talk during sex, but my current partner is almost completely silent. I don’t want to push him to do anything he’s uncomfortable with, but I’m starting to lose interest in sex. It’s just tough for me to get turned on, it just feels impersonal.

Is this just how men are? Is there anyway to get him to be more vocal?

A lot of guys enjoy dirty talk. You might have chosen the wrong partner.
He might just not be into it, and you can't really change that.
Or maybe he does like it, but he's one of those guys who are afraid to act because they don't want to come off as disrespectful to women.
If that's the case, just let him know that you're into it, and he'll open up and give it to you like a real alpha male.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I do … because I like to keep myself entertained since I am alone. 😂

Sometimes I get more turned on while solo if I actually talk out loud, pretending someone is there. It's not about entertainment. -guy

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m pretty vocal and like a lot of dirty talk during sex, but my current partner is almost completely silent. I don’t want to push him to do anything he’s uncomfortable with, but I’m starting to lose interest in sex. It’s just tough for me to get turned on, it just feels impersonal.

Is this just how men are? Is there anyway to get him to be more vocal?

It's tough for you to get turned on without dirty talk? You watched too much porn. Slow down.

[Anonymous]

I love my DH’s dirty talk - and he loves how I respond to it so that gives him encouragement to do more.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There are billions of men. They vary a lot.

If you want your partner to do something he's not currently doing, you need to actually talk to him about it.

I’ve brought it up a few times, but he still doesn’t.

I guess we’re just not sexually compatible. Sucks, I really liked him otherwise.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There are billions of men. They vary a lot.

If you want your partner to do something he's not currently doing, you need to actually talk to him about it.

I’ve brought it up a few times, but he still doesn’t.

I guess we’re just not sexually compatible. Sucks, I really liked him otherwise.

You’re just bad at explaining yourself clearly.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I love my DH’s dirty talk - and he loves how I respond to it so that gives him encouragement to do more.

+1 I have a degradation kink, and DH is happy to oblige. Completely freeing.

[Anonymous]

She likes me to. It doesn't come naturally to me, but I do it anyway.