Married women - do you ever fake it?
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Anonymous
| Do you ever fake orgasm with your DH? |
Anonymous
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No. I did with a previous boyfriend, and it got into a really bad cycle where he didn’t actually know what I liked. Honestly, I would fake it when I was bored or it hurt and I just wanted to be done, so he thought I liked things that I actively did not like.
After that relationship ended, I promised myself that I wouldn’t do it ever again. |
Anonymous
| No. Never. I don’t understand why anyone would. |
Anonymous
| No. |
Anonymous
| No. He would know because he can feel it and there is a lot of liquid afterwards. |
Anonymous
| No, I don't always need to finish in order for sex/foreplay to be good. Some of the best sex we've had was fun/ good but I didn't orgasm. |
Anonymous
| No, but I have o'd 99% of the times we have done it. In the rare time I can't seem to finish I tell him it looks like I won't be able to and I make him happy and it's no big deal. |
Anonymous
| No. We decentered orgasms from our sex life. If it happens great if it doesn't it doesn't matter because it's still great though I will say it seldom never happens. Just don't see the point in faking |
Anonymous
Because you love your DH and want him to be happy? 🙄 |
Anonymous
Pretending to O would only create more problems, not make anybody happy. DH needs to know what actually feels good to you and what it looks/feels like when you O |
Anonymous
Yikes. If you can't be honest with your spouse about not having an orgasm you don't have a great relationship. Are you worried he'll feel emasculated and leave you? |
Anonymous
Depending on the circumstances, something that makes a woman O one day might not make her O the next day. I'm pretty sure men would rather not hear "it's not happening for me today, but you can go ahead and finish." |
Anonymous
PP you are responding to. Are you a man? My husband is totally ok with hearing that, if it's the truth. I'm happy to focus on him some days, and vice versa. We like to give and receive. |
Anonymous
| When it’s enough already and I just want to get some sleep…😉 |
Anonymous
| I enjoy sex but rarely O and am ok with that. |