The idea of having sex with someone else is disgusting

[Anonymous]

Separated from serial cheater husband who was the love of my life and my first and only. Now that he moved out I feel so sad and lonely and I desperately miss hugs kisses and cuddles.

However the idea of being with someone else makes me want to vomit.

What to do?

[Anonymous]

Give it some time.

[Anonymous]

You're not even divorced yet. Give it time.

[Anonymous]

I’m so sorry. Being cheated on sucks.

Give yourself time to heal. Therapy might help.

[Anonymous]

Therapy and time heals all that

[Anonymous]

Your circuits are fried, it will take time but desire will return. While you’re healing make sure you keep the lights on (buy some toys but switch up a lot) at least a few times a week.
I’m sorry, been there and it’s crushing but soon enough your being will feel 1000x lighter and the world seem different and so much better.

[Anonymous]

Grow up

[Anonymous]

It will take some time OP, but eventually you will be open to meeting someone new and…..?

You were just in your comfort zone for awhile and for many, escaping a comfort zone can be impossible.

[Anonymous]

It is normal to feel that way. I would argue that many or most of us who are mature and intelligent find the idea of promiscuity to be disgusting. You are SUPPOSED to reach a time in your life where you are with your forever partner.

Through no fault of your own that has been taken away. Just proceed very slowly when the time is right and see if you can rebuild that emotional connection and trust with someone. Don’t rush it!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It is normal to feel that way. I would argue that many or most of us who are mature and intelligent find the idea of promiscuity to be disgusting. You are SUPPOSED to reach a time in your life where you are with your forever partner.

Through no fault of your own that has been taken away. Just proceed very slowly when the time is right and see if you can rebuild that emotional connection and trust with someone. Don’t rush it!

Yes. Emotionally intelligent, stable, healthy people feel this way.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It is normal to feel that way. I would argue that many or most of us who are mature and intelligent find the idea of promiscuity to be disgusting. You are SUPPOSED to reach a time in your life where you are with your forever partner.

Through no fault of your own that has been taken away. Just proceed very slowly when the time is right and see if you can rebuild that emotional connection and trust with someone. Don’t rush it!

Yes. Emotionally intelligent, stable, healthy people feel this way.

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[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Separated from serial cheater husband who was the love of my life and my first and only. Now that he moved out I feel so sad and lonely and I desperately miss hugs kisses and cuddles.

However the idea of being with someone else makes me want to vomit.

What to do?

I would worry less about future sexual partners and more about what led you to a serial cheater in the first place. Work out ( possibly in therapy) your foo dynamics to avoid a repeat.