If my husband doesn’t get a new cpap

Anonymous
I may stab him in the eye. 3 months it’s been broken. He’s either a sawmill with a megaphone or choking in his sleep. My eardrums feel bruised.


Thank goodness he’s cute. It’s keeping this man alive!

That’s what the machine is for too.
Anonymous
Mine is currently sleeping in a different room. F that.
Anonymous
Don’t get one from Philips..
Anonymous
Cuteness can only take you so far, especially when it interferes with precious sleep. What’s going on with the old one? I assume he feels terrible being off of it?
Anonymous
Every single night that he sleeps with a broken CPAP not fully functioning, his organs are being starved for oxygen and weakened by that. It's one thing for a person in their 20s or 30s to refuse CPAP therapy, but for somebody at midlife it's just dumb.

Midlife men are already at very high cardiac risk, even if they screen fine the stories of such cases in my experience are plentiful. He should be doing whatever he can to take care of his heart and that means making sure it has full oxygenation 24/7. M

Maybe you need to stay up one night and take pulse oximeter readings from him in his sleep every hour so you can show him why he needs to get his butt in gear and get his machine replaced.
Anonymous


A stubborn man who won’t prioritize his health all while disturbing his wife at night.

Ugh.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Mine is currently sleeping in a different room. F that.


+1 Sleep divorce was the best thing I ever did for my health. DH refuses to get a cpap. He’s welcome back when he does!
Anonymous
Lofta, you can have it by Tuesday
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Every single night that he sleeps with a broken CPAP not fully functioning, his organs are being starved for oxygen and weakened by that. It's one thing for a person in their 20s or 30s to refuse CPAP therapy, but for somebody at midlife it's just dumb.

Midlife men are already at very high cardiac risk, even if they screen fine the stories of such cases in my experience are plentiful. He should be doing whatever he can to take care of his heart and that means making sure it has full oxygenation 24/7. M

Maybe you need to stay up one night and take pulse oximeter readings from him in his sleep every hour so you can show him why he needs to get his butt in gear and get his machine replaced.


Oh yes. He’s been made aware.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Every single night that he sleeps with a broken CPAP not fully functioning, his organs are being starved for oxygen and weakened by that. It's one thing for a person in their 20s or 30s to refuse CPAP therapy, but for somebody at midlife it's just dumb.

Midlife men are already at very high cardiac risk, even if they screen fine the stories of such cases in my experience are plentiful. He should be doing whatever he can to take care of his heart and that means making sure it has full oxygenation 24/7. M

Maybe you need to stay up one night and take pulse oximeter readings from him in his sleep every hour so you can show him why he needs to get his butt in gear and get his machine replaced.


Oh yes. He’s been made aware.


By myself AND his doc
Anonymous
Why hasn’t he replaced it or gotten it fixed? Inertia? Cost?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I may stab him in the eye. 3 months it’s been broken. He’s either a sawmill with a megaphone or choking in his sleep. My eardrums feel bruised.


Thank goodness he’s cute. It’s keeping this man alive!

That’s what the machine is for too.


What a sick thing to write. Just sleep in separate bedrooms.
Anonymous
Sleep in separate rooms. It’s not rocket science.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I may stab him in the eye. 3 months it’s been broken. He’s either a sawmill with a megaphone or choking in his sleep. My eardrums feel bruised.


Thank goodness he’s cute. It’s keeping this man alive!

That’s what the machine is for too.


What a sick thing to write. Just sleep in separate bedrooms.


Oh my goodness, gracious. Why so serious?

Obviously, I’m not going to harm him. And not everyone has a separate bedroom.
Anonymous
You can get a recording pulseox for fairly cheap. A piece is taped to this finger/thumb and the body of it is strapped like a watch on the wrist. It will record all night so he can see how bad it is. I recommend this all the time for people who are worried they may have sa but don't want to go through the sleep test.
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