Husband rejecting sex

[Anonymous]

My husband has always been up for sex. I only remember one time he rejected my advances. He has been working out of town all week and has been rejecting my advances often. This has happened two weeks in a row. We do have sex but he comes home tired and takes a naps or goes to bed and doesn’t want sex until the next night. I know he wouldn’t cheat on me but I am a little worried that he is rejecting sex.

[Anonymous]

He is allowed to say no to sex.

[Anonymous]

How fat are you?

[Anonymous]

If this is a sudden change then it warrants a conversation. Pick a time when you’re both relaxed and broach the topic gently.

[Anonymous]

Counseling, stat.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I know he wouldn’t cheat on me but I am a little worried that he is rejecting sex.

There’s always a first time for everything.

[Anonymous]

So he's been busier at work than normal and is tired and not in the mood? You all are insane for reacting this way.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How fat are you?

I’m not fat. I’m normal weight for my height and workout multiple times a week to maintain my figure. I’ve had two kids so it changed a little but still pretty good.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So he's been busier at work than normal and is tired and not in the mood? You all are insane for reacting this way.

Well I would think a week without sex would be a lot since it’s always been that way in the past. More than two days without sex and he would be begging for it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So he's been busier at work than normal and is tired and not in the mood? You all are insane for reacting this way.

Well I would think a week without sex would be a lot since it’s always been that way in the past. More than two days without sex and he would be begging for it.

Sure normally. But right now he's tired and probably a little stressed. I bet he normally doesn't come home from work and take a nap or go to bed either. I still think this overreaction is absolutely insane. He's allowed to be tired and not be in the mood without you being mad at him or worrying he's cheating or something nefarious is going on.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Counseling, stat.

Why are people so nuts?

The guy is tired and rests for a day.

It's like every thread when a woman says her husband drinks 3 beers on the weekend and people are like "GO TO AL ANON"

[Anonymous]

Have you tried doing more chores around the house?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Have you tried doing more chores around the house?

I do almost all the chores around the house and most of the childcare.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Have you tried doing more chores around the house?

I do almost all the chores around the house and most of the childcare.

Well, DCUM says more chores is always the answer to get your partner more interested in sex.

[Anonymous]

Trust your gut.