hoping this helps someone
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Anonymous
| My ILs moved into AL a month ago, not really wanting to. My MIL just called to say she's sorry she didn't call yesterday, but they have too many activities. So there is hope! (FIL still hates it, but hating being at home too.) |
Anonymous
| 🥰 glad they seem happy |
Anonymous
 ty!
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Anonymous
| Oh, that makes me happy. Thank you for sharing. |
Anonymous
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Wow. How groundbreaking. Elderly are happy in assisted living for the first couple months.
Call me after a year. |
Anonymous
| Yay that is awesome! It always takes them awhile to adjust. I’m sure you feel so much relief. Enjoy it! |
Anonymous
When I read posts like this I always think of the John Knowles quote from that book we all read somewhere around ninth grade: “It was only long after that I recognized sarcasm as the protest of people who are weak.” |
Anonymous
| OP I’m really happy to hear this. Trying to prepare my mom for similar. I have a hope that she’ll be more engaged than she is in her current home, which no longer works well and where she’s become a bit of a recluse. |
Anonymous
Ha! I'll take what I can get. And I saw the post where someone is considering pulling their mom out after two weeks. |
Anonymous
As someone with a very dry, sarcastic sense of humor, are you ok? Read the room. This person is celebrating. |
Anonymous
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Happy for you and your family, OP.
I will say it’s a pipe dream to get my ILs to move to AL or ever leave their longtime home. Apparently they’ve made a pact - neither will ever “put” the other in an AL community of any sort. Sad because my MIL has a significant cognitive decline and FIL thinks he can DIY her care … and plans to. Our hands are tied. |
Anonymous
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Love that!!
My cousin felt so guilty putting my uncle into Memory Care before he was really far gone. I kept telling her all the reasons it's a great choice and if she waits too long he will only be a candidate for a nursing home. Well one month in she said it was so much fun visiting him. He was joining sing-a-longs. He ate lunch with a nice group the director got him together with and they laughed and told stories. (She said often it's the same stories, but nobody notices  . It was such a relief for her to see him animated and engaging even though the type of interaction was much different than before he declined.
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Anonymous
| My parents love their continuing care home. It took watching my father in law scramble after MIL died unexpectedly -- he had trouble getting in somewhere because of his physical mobility problems. My parents have previously been of the "we're here at home until we die" school. I am SO GLAD they agreed to move. They have friends, a community, activities, easy opportunities for exercise and meals when they want them. It makes me mad when people are close-minded and opinionated about continuing care. |