We just re-did our wills and POAs (financial and medical). Kids are 20 and 22, and they we were infant/toddler the last time we did these documents.
We are married, and spouse is first POA. Kids when 30. Before then, if something happened and both of us are incapacitated, neither can make decisions for the other, we have a dear friend who will do it (we discussed it with them). There are companies that you can use to do it as well, if you don't have a person/dear friend who is a) capable of handling to your wishes and b) trustworthy. My brother is capable and trustworthy, and, has told us he could never pull the plug on medical care, amd so, we wouldn't name him (neither of us want to live that way).
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