DCUM Psychic, Spirit Reader?

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Anonymous wrote:Spirit Reader, I lost my dear husband weeks ago. Is he ok? Will I be ok? Thank you.

It is very important that you do not suppress anything right now. Know that all is well. This sacrifice of attachment, painful as it is, this devastating loss of someone who brought you much security, is part of your purpose in this life.

Acceptance may come sooner than you think and know that all of the places that you called yours, that you walked with your loved one still hold the presence of your union. When you feel unable to cope, do your best to be present, stay patient and wait. In the times of silence, feel your husband holding your hands and listening to your eyes. There are no longer walls to confine the love he had for you. Sending you much care and love and encouragement to go as deep into your emotions as you can.

- the spirit reader

Thank you. He was the best part of my life.

Truly; I can see that. Lots of love.

- the spirit reader

I wanted to thank you again. You are right, he brought me love and security. You are spot on.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Hello,
I desperately need advice please!
I am in a drawn out and difficult negotiation with a person over an important matter. I have an upper hand if in the financial aspect, but he has influence over something I hold near and dear and therefore my emotional state too.
Should I compromise on money but hopefully keep something I treasure untouched, or should I try to get the max and be confident I get to keep what I cherish too?

You hold the key to obtaining security in both matters. You must look forward. If you cannot trust this person to play fair (and my sense is you can't), relinquishing the financial situation can have a negative effect on your ability to obtain the other outcome. It is often not so simple as to give what they want when dealing with manipulative or abusive individuals, though in some cases it does work.

Any time we allow the actions of another to determine our emotional state, we are giving our power away. This is exactly why this person behaves as they do. Take your power back, tend to your emotions inwardly and all that you desire will be yours. You know what you want and what is right for you to do, bring loving kindness to the parts of you that are scared or feeling insecure and trust that though it may take some time, everything will unfold exactly as it needs to. If you do not have a lawyer I would suggest consulting with one, and if you do, consulting with another may also be of help in solidifying your resolve to do what is best for yourself, trusting that any needed outcomes will fall into place.

- the spirit reader

Thank you!

[Anonymous]

Hi Spirit Reader. I wrote a post about my current situation but asked Jeff delete it. I recently left my abusive husband and then found out I'm pregnant. We have other children together as well. I also have a parent that is extremely ill. Do you have any guidance for me?

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Good Morning - posting from the West Coast.

Will my DS find his way after high school? I'm completely unsure of what direction he might be going in. Is college in the picture for him at all?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Hi Spirit Reader. I wrote a post about my current situation but asked Jeff delete it. I recently left my abusive husband and then found out I'm pregnant. We have other children together as well. I also have a parent that is extremely ill. Do you have any guidance for me?

I am going to respond to you and will come back to where I left off shortly. I say this out of respect for those who take the time to share part of their souls in reaching out but waiting upthread <3

I just feel for your situation and would like to reach out.

I'm not sure how old you are but from my experience in helping others there are many women in the 30-45 age group that have had abortions during or from relationships with narcissistic men. This of course creates a complete other area that needs healing, but I share this to help to recognize that this is a highly overwhelming situation you are in and many many people choose not to walk it. Much strength to you.

My guidance for you is this. Do not be afraid. You will need to be very courageous. There are some relationships around you coming to an end (the husband but others too). Their time and purpose has passed and you have reached a new level of your journey. You are being guided into new connections with new people who will feel much more like family than what you have experienced. You will be okay and you have many guardian angels looking over you.

Don't be scared to open up and allow yourself to connect to others. There are others who can see you right now and they will be able to help. Things will be hard but nurture and hold yourself as if you were softly tucked in the shell of an oyster, visibly changing and transforming into a pearl. It won't happen overnight and you won't even realize it is happening until you are transformed. For now it will be gritty but this will pass and you will come into fullness in your gifts of perception and intelligence. Take care and pay mind to offer of help from people you feel safe with.

I see your parent facing a release of pressure. They crave balance but a lot has built up to this tipping point and the pain of their choices will be felt. It has become quite dark and their past ways are complicated and no longer useful. Their time has not gone to waste though and they are leaving you a legacy of light to share for the betterment of your children and all future generations. This is best seen as a gift though carrying what is happening with the weight of everything else feels like a tremendous burden at the moment. It is important that you do not place yourself as the balance or the tipping point, that is not your journey.

Continue seeking spiritual guidance where it resonates, and trust. Trust in feeling your emotions. Your future holds amazing abundance and nourishment in all forms.

- the spirit reader

[Anonymous]

Hi, spirit reader. This is a silly question compared to everyone else's. But will I be able to get a puppy in the next six months or so?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Hi Spirit Reader. I wrote a post about my current situation but asked Jeff delete it. I recently left my abusive husband and then found out I'm pregnant. We have other children together as well. I also have a parent that is extremely ill. Do you have any guidance for me?

I am going to respond to you and will come back to where I left off shortly. I say this out of respect for those who take the time to share part of their souls in reaching out but waiting upthread <3

I just feel for your situation and would like to reach out.

I'm not sure how old you are but from my experience in helping others there are many women in the 30-45 age group that have had abortions during or from relationships with narcissistic men. This of course creates a complete other area that needs healing, but I share this to help to recognize that this is a highly overwhelming situation you are in and many many people choose not to walk it. Much strength to you.

My guidance for you is this. Do not be afraid. You will need to be very courageous. There are some relationships around you coming to an end (the husband but others too). Their time and purpose has passed and you have reached a new level of your journey. You are being guided into new connections with new people who will feel much more like family than what you have experienced. You will be okay and you have many guardian angels looking over you.

Don't be scared to open up and allow yourself to connect to others. There are others who can see you right now and they will be able to help. Things will be hard but nurture and hold yourself as if you were softly tucked in the shell of an oyster, visibly changing and transforming into a pearl. It won't happen overnight and you won't even realize it is happening until you are transformed. For now it will be gritty but this will pass and you will come into fullness in your gifts of perception and intelligence. Take care and pay mind to offer of help from people you feel safe with.

I see your parent facing a release of pressure. They crave balance but a lot has built up to this tipping point and the pain of their choices will be felt. It has become quite dark and their past ways are complicated and no longer useful. Their time has not gone to waste though and they are leaving you a legacy of light to share for the betterment of your children and all future generations. This is best seen as a gift though carrying what is happening with the weight of everything else feels like a tremendous burden at the moment. It is important that you do not place yourself as the balance or the tipping point, that is not your journey.

Continue seeking spiritual guidance where it resonates, and trust. Trust in feeling your emotions. Your future holds amazing abundance and nourishment in all forms.

- the spirit reader

Thank you so very much. Message received 🙏🏻

[Anonymous]

Dear Spirit Reader,
Thank you for your guidance. I am at a turning point in my career and unsure of my next steps. My husband lost his job 2x during a 6 month period and suffers from terrible anxiety. I can't let go of the negative emotions that he will lose it again. Any guidance for us? Also feeling very unsure of my friend group / social standing. Trivial problems, appreciate your insight.

[Anonymous]

I'd love to know whats going to happen with children, job/finance and marriage.

Also, do you ever see things with respect to your own life? How do you feel about that?

[Anonymous]

Spirit reader: if you are still out there, I’d like to know if you foresee me getting pregnant in the next few months. I hope you are able to reply

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Hi Spirit Reader,

I don’t know if you are still on this thread. Thank you for your time and gifts.

What do you see for my two children? They have both been struggling mightily (though differently) for a couple of years, and are incredibly discouraged. There is a lot of suffering in our family as a result.

Will things change? Improve? For one/both?

I don’t know what kind of future this means for me, either.

Your one child looks to the past and wishes things would go back to how they used to be. It would be helpful for them to spend more time reconnecting with the memories, both in thoughts and stories as well as more closely if possible. They hold on and holding this keeps it as an illusion of sorts and it begins to look brighter than it actually was. Embracing it into their heart space will help them settle more into the now. There is a promising future but for now relief will seem more temporary. Keep going with as many simple pleasures as possible.

Your other child - I again see some idealism but this child is more unreliable and seeming thoughtless. This child is very creative but will take many risks. Have them look at their ideas - is it practical, thoughtful and well-planned. Help them to guide what seems like careless or impulsive energy into determination and bravery. This child has a lot of might and is capable of many things.

I smile looking at your kids. I see a future with a lot of joy, shared achievements and new opportunities when I look at them and your family together. There will be challenges and phases along the way but celebrate whenever and whatever you can. You are capable of building many things.

For you I see forgiveness, it is something you must repeatedly give and accept for yourself when you question if you are enough. You are loved. You are love. Forgive yourself and release yourself from things you did not know or could not see. We are all always trying our best.

[Anonymous]

1:54 is me - the spirit reader xo

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Anonymous wrote:Hi Spirit Reader, thank you so much for your time and sharing of your gift.

Do you see anything related to my job and/or family? Thank you in advance for anything you can share.

You have a feeling inside you that is difficult to express. It is hard to put into words, yet it is a knowing about something, a heart felt sense. This will guide you through the new doors that are opening to you now. New relationships have starting coming to you and will continue to do so.

I see further healing coming to relationships in your family and clearer goals and shared visions of the future.

For your job, I see a part of it that is not satisfying to you, this is consuming your attention and your focus is becoming or at risk of becoming over directed to this matter. Pay more attention to what possibilities are presenting themselves and those cups of yours that are full. You have set them aside, but if you bring more of your attention back to those, you will feel a stronger sense of satisfaction.

-the spirit reader

Dear Spirit Reader, I am the poster to whom you responded with this insight. Thank you so much for sharing your gift. I'm so happy to hear your reading of my family situation, and you are right on about the job.

I have been reflecting on the first part of what you wrote (in bold) and trying to understand, but admit that it eludes me. Is there anything more about this feeling inside that you could share? Does it have to do with an approach to life/philosophy, an intuition, a way of relating to others, etc.? Sorry to bother you again, but this is intriguing to me, and I'd love to work more with the idea.

Thank you.

My sense was that it is something building in you that you don't knowingly feel now, but it is there nonetheless. Approach this with grace, trust it will come more into your felt sense when it is ready. The new relationships come up again when I look now.

I would suggest practicing openness through any spiritual practices that resonate or interest you, and maintain that lovely sense of curiosity and intrigue with all parts of yourself. the more we listen, the more we will hear and everything we feel holds a message, all we need to do is learn to listen without evaluating ourselves or dismissing our uncomfortable parts.

- the spirit reader

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Dear Spirit Reader,

Lots of unknowns in my life right now. Any insight?

Thank you!

Celebrate the feminine. It is important to nurture and care for yourself right now, to find stillness and peace, and unconditional love for yourself and others. My sense is that a strong feminine presence is growing in your life and these feminine energies will be available from a woman who will bring divine blessing in your life. I see many waves around you yet you are calm and reaching out toward what life holds next.

What you want is much closer than you think and the changes coming will be for the better. I see the instability, be mindful of where your pride has been residing, reassess what is truly important and learn what this moment would like to teach you.

- the spirit reader

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Dear Spirit Reader,

I too have a lot of unknowns right now and anxiety regarding two separate legal issues. As a mom I worry about my kids and letting them go and my dealing with letting them go.

Thank you so much for your insight here at DCUM.

I see fairness. Your need for balance is causing everything to feel as if it is a burden and this has crept up slowly, but now you must deal with it. You are expending a great deal of energy right now and this cannot continue. What is the cost, you must realign with your motives and intentions for your life. You must find balance. This doesn't mean jumping ship from what is happening right now. It means finding balance in your spirit, in your walk in this life and tasks you complete and your Self as a beautiful soul journeying through earth.

Everything that comes to you has a purpose. I see you awakening to a beautiful future. Love what is. Love what hurts, love what consumes, love what worries.

Relinquish all illusions of control. There is no need to control anything. You are mother, but this is a role. It is not who you are. Remain quiet, unfocused on what isn't or what may be. Focus on what is, right now, in this moment. Observe. Breathe. You exist to just be and as you find balance, you will find space in all the cycles of life. There is much beauty in your life, soon you will see it.

- the spirit reader