Generally the kids on the Rec and Travel teams live in the county. Not sure why it’s better for the school to arrange an intramural league instead of letting the local rec league or the county rec department do the work. |
They are public buildings. |
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Because private teams attract predominantly middle class family and are run by a volunteer middle class coach who will disproportionately recruit middle class children. A school run league will be free and will be accessible to the working class kids who go there everyday and don’t need a stay and home mom without a full time job to drive them there. Allowing middle class families to displace working class kids from THEIR own school facilities makes me want to vomit. |
| So really think middle class kids do t have two working parents?!?! Not sure where you live but this is not the DMV. |
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The entitlement is outrageous. I want free school. I want free lunch. I want free tutoring. I now want free rec sports.
How about we let the schools take care of academics and academics alone. |
| Schools are paid for through taxes, local taxes , it’s not free. |
Are you familiar with winter? JFC. |
We had to run cross country during the winter. There this great invention called a tracksuit that keeps you warm in cold weather and exercise warms you up. |
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pretty standard everywhere except small schools in small towns.
when my kid tried out for volleyball at a high school of 4000ish, she didn't make it. a few of her friends did. none of those friends made it in 10th grade. |
We’re talking about basketball right now, genius. |
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Rejection is part of life. They’re going to be rejected from colleges, jobs, by people they have crushes on, friends, all kinds of things.
If a kid takes it that hard, I’d wonder why their parents didn’t raise them to be more resilient. Sure, it hurts, but kids shouldn’t be completely devastated by it. They should be able to grieve and then move on. Better for kids to learn the sting of rejection and how to bounce back while they’re young, rather than when they’re older and the consequences are much more severe. |
You have never played pick up in the winter in DC? You are missing out. |
+ a million. This outcry over school sports is just another form of helicopter parenting, attempting to shield kids from any form of upset. Sports are fundamentally about competition. So are many other aspects of life. Giving everyone a trophy, or in this case a spot on the team, doesn’t build resilience. It sucks for the kids who don’t make it but there are many other ways to play sports and get exercise. And lots of other activities for kids who aren’t athletic. |
The mental gymnastics you are engaging in just to avoid having to admit you were simply wrong is truly amazing to behold. |
What difference those that make to my key point ? Dress up properly and you can play basketball outdoors in winter. It’s ok, you will survive and shock horror maybe have fun ! |