Have you ever hooked up with someone much younger or older?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yup, It was during the end of my sophomore year of high school so I had just turned it 16. He was in his late 30s and we met at a party. My parents were always gone and didn’t care what I did once I was a teenager and I could basically do what I wanted so that led to me making a lot of bad decisions in high school (drank a lot, got a DUI, smoked and tried drugs, had friendships with unsafe older people, etc) even though I was a great student. I didn’t give his age a second thought and really thought that I was mature but looking back I was very immature even for a 16 year old. I’ve learnt a lot from my mistakes as a teen though and am happily married with kids now.

That’s not good at all. You were a sophomore and did all that with careless parents? I’m sorry.

Yeah it wasn’t great. But I grew, matured, and my parents apologized. You don’t have to be sorry.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yup, It was during the end of my sophomore year of high school so I had just turned it 16. He was in his late 30s and we met at a party. My parents were always gone and didn’t care what I did once I was a teenager and I could basically do what I wanted so that led to me making a lot of bad decisions in high school (drank a lot, got a DUI, smoked and tried drugs, had friendships with unsafe older people, etc) even though I was a great student. I didn’t give his age a second thought and really thought that I was mature but looking back I was very immature even for a 16 year old. I’ve learnt a lot from my mistakes as a teen though and am happily married with kids now.

Ew, what kind of fu**ing loser 30 year old is at a party with HS kids? That should have been the first (and definitely not only) red flag. I'm 35 and if one of my friends told me he was Fing a child I would lose any and all respect for that person.

Yeah I should’ve realized, I was clueless.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yup, It was during the end of my sophomore year of high school so I had just turned it 16. He was in his late 30s and we met at a party. My parents were always gone and didn’t care what I did once I was a teenager and I could basically do what I wanted so that led to me making a lot of bad decisions in high school (drank a lot, got a DUI, smoked and tried drugs, had friendships with unsafe older people, etc) even though I was a great student. I didn’t give his age a second thought and really thought that I was mature but looking back I was very immature even for a 16 year old. I’ve learnt a lot from my mistakes as a teen though and am happily married with kids now.

Ew, what kind of fu**ing loser 30 year old is at a party with HS kids? That should have been the first (and definitely not only) red flag. I'm 35 and if one of my friends told me he was Fing a child I would lose any and all respect for that person.

Yeah I should’ve realized, I was clueless.

That's what they count on, unfortunately. Predators and pedos.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yup, It was during the end of my sophomore year of high school so I had just turned it 16. He was in his late 30s and we met at a party. My parents were always gone and didn’t care what I did once I was a teenager and I could basically do what I wanted so that led to me making a lot of bad decisions in high school (drank a lot, got a DUI, smoked and tried drugs, had friendships with unsafe older people, etc) even though I was a great student. I didn’t give his age a second thought and really thought that I was mature but looking back I was very immature even for a 16 year old. I’ve learnt a lot from my mistakes as a teen though and am happily married with kids now.

Ew, what kind of fu**ing loser 30 year old is at a party with HS kids? That should have been the first (and definitely not only) red flag. I'm 35 and if one of my friends told me he was Fing a child I would lose any and all respect for that person.

Yeah I should’ve realized, I was clueless.

You were a child that wasn't your responsibility.