Scott Wolf (Party of Five) and wife Kelley are divorcing

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Anonymous wrote:You guys have gone off the rails. You are not psychologists yet are diagnosing someone. You are diagnosing someone you've never met. You are speaking as if your opinions and speculations are facts. You don't know Scott cheated, you don't know if Kelley's bipolar, or in menopause, or been abused by Scott. Get a hold of yourselves!

No, we don't "know" that she is bipolar, bit we know that she posted rants on Instagram and tagged numerous celebrities including Oprah, Trump, and Obama. That hints at grandiose thought and possible mental issues, if not bipolar maybe borderline personality. The abuse is being discussed because she asserted that she was a victim of abuse by Scott.

True. We also “know” that she wrote about significant betrayal by a loved one in March, we also know Scott hadn’t been around during that time period for months and she was primary caregiver and that she briefly went home to visit her parents. We also “know” that up until recently she was coherent even eloquent and future focused as evidenced by her divorce statement versus his in which he painted himself as some kind of martyr who is the one who filed instead of avting like a supportive future ex husband. He was more interested in his image and laying blame on her and destroying her reputation than in successfully partnering with his children’s mother in a amicable divorce. She has a long standing public history of being stable and sane with footage to prove it. We also “know” Scott is controlling her by having his brother in her house and alienating her/even blocking her from home and children. Days before the police finally showed up, we know she called the cops to try to get them to evict the BIL in law who had no custodial rights to the home or kids and they didn’t do it. She told them it was a tricky situation because her husband is famous, they were “the Cleavers” and it had been a “cat and mouse situation” for a year and she wanted the BIL out. Then when they finally showed up because her out of state Dad was concerned because she was breaking, she calmly told the police she was abused and that they were helping him abuse her further and they didn’t listen. This is exactly how abused women are not believed, not supported and end up broken or dead.

Posting from a bar while wearing a hospital bracelet shows abysmal judgement. Bad judgment is considered a sign of mental illness. So assuming she employs such abysmal judgement in her daily life, her definition of abuse is probably not even accurate.

Now you are probably going to tell me that Scott forced her to pose at a bar with alcohol. Did he also force her to tag Obama and Trump on Instagram? She is doing just great, it's just the "abuse" that's the problem.

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Anonymous wrote:A sane person would not act like Kelley, even when provoked by a narc (which may not even be the case. We do NOT know.)

Narc’s just dont provoke, they methodically destroy over a long period of time with many multiple cycles of abuse. Of course it could be something else but his statement gave him away. Victims of long term abuse absolutely look like Kelly. It is a disservice to abuse victims to pretend like they come out of these situations mentally intact. It takes years, sometimes even decades for these victims to recover. She was filmed for six months in the Real World 24 hours a day and she was so sane and calm she was annoyingly boring. She’s not bipolar.

Isnt the definition of bipolar, extreme moods in both directions, highs and lows?

No Bipolar is a genetic chemical imbalance in the brain that can be treated by meds. Kelly probably has thousands of hours if reality TV footage that proves she’s sane. I am fairly confident that what Kelly is suffering is CPTSD also known as Complex PTSD which is often misdiagnosed as and can look like Bipolar disorder on the surface. CPTSD is caused by chronic trauma usually in the form of repeated abuse as is typically seen in victims of narcissistic abuse. Victims of CPTSD and are often stuck in flight or fright mode from walking on eggshells waiting for the next abuse cycle. Idealize (lovebombing) Devalue (abuse) Discard (threats of divorce,etc) then Calm then back to lovebombing. The charming Narcissists victim is co dependent on their abuser and the cycle is so insidious and manipulative the victim begind to lose their sense of reality. This cycle can repeat multiple times a year over decades until the final Discard which is where Kelley is now, leaving the codependent victim devastated often leading to a meltdown. As a result of abuse, CPTSD victims have a destabilized sense of self which causes like depression and anxiety which can be treated with meds but what she really needs is a great therapist and an amazing attorney. She’s not crazy, she’s abused.

So you have seen her medical records to know all her diagnoses?

Will you at least acknowledge that drinking whiskey straight out of the hospital is a bad idea?

I don’t have to see her medical records. It’s playing out like a textbook version of Narcissistic abuse, even the alienating of the children from their mother. Teens are particularly vulnerable to this manipulation because they are already rebellious. The parent in charge will lay down the law, then insteading of supporting them and the rules, the narc will do the exact opposite creating a wedge. Narcs do this to completely isolate and discredit their victim and they are cool and methodical under pressure while they do it. It’s difficult to see or understand unless you’ve experienced it but once you have, you know it when you see it.

I agree she absolutely needs help. One THOUSAND percent!!! I think as a codependent with CPTSD she is melting down for multiple reasons including abandonment, fear of the future and aging, loss of nuclear family unit, loss of identity (he’s a celeb and they falsely portrayed a “perfect family” for years ) and add in perimenopause which in itself is horrific. But she’s NOT chronically mentally ill. She IS however in crisis and making terrible decisions right now because she isn’t thinking correctly. However, she should NOT be in a bar drinking with a hospital band but she’s melting down and trying to reclaim what’s left of her life. She was forced into a mental hospital and that was her eff you to the brother in law who called her Dad and put her there. The BIL who should not even have been in HER house. The BIL was in her house “helping” so Scott could control things from afar and act as a spy. Narcs HAVE to be in control.

Kelley needs rescue meds, intense therapy, immediate help, true friends and support now because she is in crisis, not because she is bipolar but because she is abused.

I agree that Kelley needs all those things. My sense is that she either resists treatment or does it sporadically, which is unfortunately common for mentally ill people. They feel good for a few days and stop taking their meds, and the cycle of bad behavior starts again.

I think her family was attempting to get that kind of help when her dad called the cops. She probably knows the right things to say to get out of the hospital. It usually involved telling the treatment provider that you have no intention of hurting yourself or anyone else. Once you are stabilized and make that declaration, they let you out. So she is essentially stuck in a cycle of dangerous behavior followed by treatment. Her family cannot force her into a treatment program unless she is an ongoing danger to herself or them. Everyone is stuck unless she is willing to enter a serious Inpatient mental health facility.

Sure, she can go to an Inpatient facility for this current momentary crisis but then what? There is no existing treatment that will relieve her of his narcissistic abuse and control except for going No Contact.

She can’t do that because
1) the kids keep them connected who he will continue to weaponize them against her and
2) His celebrity ensures she can’t ever get away from him. No matter where she goes, there he is. She’s connected to her abusive yet charismatic Narc for life and he’s in the power position.

She knows she can’t ever escape him and feels cornered. She’s not mentally ill. There’s too much footage that shows no history. Perimenopause combined with CPTSD and trauma is real. The BIL living in her house refusing to leave and meddling in her parenting on Scott’s behalf is a huge red flag. She definitely needs help. I will die on this hill in her corner.

You are speculating and have no idea. This crisis she’s in goes way beyond perimenopause. Her own dad called 911 on her. You have 0 evidence that Scott was abusive aside when she muttered it when she was being arrested, but she also said the cops were abusive.

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This thread is bananas. There’s a very invested poster (or more than one, who knows) really going off the deep end.

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Her father and her friends have been trying to get her help. She seems very unwell.

https://people.com/kelley-wolf-claims-she-was-held-against-her-will-after-hospitalization-11758150#comments

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Anonymous wrote:Her father and her friends have been trying to get her help. She seems very unwell.

https://people.com/kelley-wolf-claims-she-was-held-against-her-will-after-hospitalization-11758150#comments

She needs a friend or sister to tell her to stop posting. Not everything needs to be broadcast.

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Some more details. What a mess.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-14825347/Scott-Wolf-Kelley-divorce-actor-avoided-jail-time-split-police-reports-911.html

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I'm an RN and I work on an inpatient psychiatric unit. Her posts sound like things I hear our patients say. And going from the psych hospital to a bar (and also posting about it)? Really poor judgment. This woman is obviously in the midst of a mental health crisis. None of us know what happened in their marriage but it's pretty clear that she's unwell.

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Anonymous wrote:Some more details. What a mess.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-14825347/Scott-Wolf-Kelley-divorce-actor-avoided-jail-time-split-police-reports-911.html

Hmmmm….

The news came a month after Scott, 57, was charged with reckless driving, and just days before a string of 911 calls were made from their family home, including reports of trespassing and an individual being choked.

Police were called multiple times this year to attend to reports of altercations involving Kelley, Scott, his brother Michael and their children.

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Anonymous wrote:Some more details. What a mess.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-14825347/Scott-Wolf-Kelley-divorce-actor-avoided-jail-time-split-police-reports-911.html

Hmmmm….

The news came a month after Scott, 57, was charged with reckless driving, and just days before a string of 911 calls were made from their family home, including reports of trespassing and an individual being choked.

Police were called multiple times this year to attend to reports of altercations involving Kelley, Scott, his brother Michael and their children.

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She said she did not feel safe in her home and claimed that her brother-in-law had convinced her children that she is a 'cheater' and 'adulterer.'

Kelley can also be heard accusing Scott of being 'controlling' and 'insane' during their marriage, which in recent weeks had forced her to repeatedly leave the family home.

Also included in the June 13 police report was information about an alleged assault on March 6, 2025 that took place at Scott and Kelley's home. Although the names are redacted it appears it is between the now-estranged couple, given terms 'their son' and other clues in the police report, such as a 'past-occurred assault.'

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Anonymous wrote:Some more details. What a mess.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-14825347/Scott-Wolf-Kelley-divorce-actor-avoided-jail-time-split-police-reports-911.html

Hmmmm….

The news came a month after Scott, 57, was charged with reckless driving, and just days before a string of 911 calls were made from their family home, including reports of trespassing and an individual being choked.

Police were called multiple times this year to attend to reports of altercations involving Kelley, Scott, his brother Michael and their children.

wtf??!!! He was going 128 mph with kids in the car!!

“The actor was driving at 128 miles per hour in a 65 miles per hour zone, according to a police citation exclusively obtained by DailyMail.com.

In a statement, the trooper who cited Scott claimed 'he was in a hurry because his child needed to use the bathroom.' They said there was 'no indication of impairment.'

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Some more details. What a mess.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-14825347/Scott-Wolf-Kelley-divorce-actor-avoided-jail-time-split-police-reports-911.html

Hmmmm….

The news came a month after Scott, 57, was charged with reckless driving, and just days before a string of 911 calls were made from their family home, including reports of trespassing and an individual being choked.

Police were called multiple times this year to attend to reports of altercations involving Kelley, Scott, his brother Michael and their children.

wtf??!!! He was going 128 mph with kids in the car!!

“The actor was driving at 128 miles per hour in a 65 miles per hour zone, according to a police citation exclusively obtained by DailyMail.com.

In a statement, the trooper who cited Scott claimed 'he was in a hurry because his child needed to use the bathroom.' They said there was 'no indication of impairment.'

Five days later, a judge found him convicted of Reckless Driving, a Class B Misdemeanor, and sentenced him to a term of five days in jail. However, the judge stated that if he paid a fine of $690, his jail term would be suspended

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Anonymous wrote:A sane person would not act like Kelley, even when provoked by a narc (which may not even be the case. We do NOT know.)

Narc’s just dont provoke, they methodically destroy over a long period of time with many multiple cycles of abuse. Of course it could be something else but his statement gave him away. Victims of long term abuse absolutely look like Kelly. It is a disservice to abuse victims to pretend like they come out of these situations mentally intact. It takes years, sometimes even decades for these victims to recover. She was filmed for six months in the Real World 24 hours a day and she was so sane and calm she was annoyingly boring. She’s not bipolar.

Isnt the definition of bipolar, extreme moods in both directions, highs and lows?

No Bipolar is a genetic chemical imbalance in the brain that can be treated by meds. Kelly probably has thousands of hours if reality TV footage that proves she’s sane. I am fairly confident that what Kelly is suffering is CPTSD also known as Complex PTSD which is often misdiagnosed as and can look like Bipolar disorder on the surface. CPTSD is caused by chronic trauma usually in the form of repeated abuse as is typically seen in victims of narcissistic abuse. Victims of CPTSD and are often stuck in flight or fright mode from walking on eggshells waiting for the next abuse cycle. Idealize (lovebombing) Devalue (abuse) Discard (threats of divorce,etc) then Calm then back to lovebombing. The charming Narcissists victim is co dependent on their abuser and the cycle is so insidious and manipulative the victim begind to lose their sense of reality. This cycle can repeat multiple times a year over decades until the final Discard which is where Kelley is now, leaving the codependent victim devastated often leading to a meltdown. As a result of abuse, CPTSD victims have a destabilized sense of self which causes like depression and anxiety which can be treated with meds but what she really needs is a great therapist and an amazing attorney. She’s not crazy, she’s abused.

So you have seen her medical records to know all her diagnoses?

Will you at least acknowledge that drinking whiskey straight out of the hospital is a bad idea?

I don’t have to see her medical records. It’s playing out like a textbook version of Narcissistic abuse, even the alienating of the children from their mother. Teens are particularly vulnerable to this manipulation because they are already rebellious. The parent in charge will lay down the law, then insteading of supporting them and the rules, the narc will do the exact opposite creating a wedge. Narcs do this to completely isolate and discredit their victim and they are cool and methodical under pressure while they do it. It’s difficult to see or understand unless you’ve experienced it but once you have, you know it when you see it.

I agree she absolutely needs help. One THOUSAND percent!!! I think as a codependent with CPTSD she is melting down for multiple reasons including abandonment, fear of the future and aging, loss of nuclear family unit, loss of identity (he’s a celeb and they falsely portrayed a “perfect family” for years ) and add in perimenopause which in itself is horrific. But she’s NOT chronically mentally ill. She IS however in crisis and making terrible decisions right now because she isn’t thinking correctly. However, she should NOT be in a bar drinking with a hospital band but she’s melting down and trying to reclaim what’s left of her life. She was forced into a mental hospital and that was her eff you to the brother in law who called her Dad and put her there. The BIL who should not even have been in HER house. The BIL was in her house “helping” so Scott could control things from afar and act as a spy. Narcs HAVE to be in control.

Kelley needs rescue meds, intense therapy, immediate help, true friends and support now because she is in crisis, not because she is bipolar but because she is abused.

I agree that Kelley needs all those things. My sense is that she either resists treatment or does it sporadically, which is unfortunately common for mentally ill people. They feel good for a few days and stop taking their meds, and the cycle of bad behavior starts again.

I think her family was attempting to get that kind of help when her dad called the cops. She probably knows the right things to say to get out of the hospital. It usually involved telling the treatment provider that you have no intention of hurting yourself or anyone else. Once you are stabilized and make that declaration, they let you out. So she is essentially stuck in a cycle of dangerous behavior followed by treatment. Her family cannot force her into a treatment program unless she is an ongoing danger to herself or them. Everyone is stuck unless she is willing to enter a serious Inpatient mental health facility.

Sure, she can go to an Inpatient facility for this current momentary crisis but then what? There is no existing treatment that will relieve her of his narcissistic abuse and control except for going No Contact.

She can’t do that because
1) the kids keep them connected who he will continue to weaponize them against her and
2) His celebrity ensures she can’t ever get away from him. No matter where she goes, there he is. She’s connected to her abusive yet charismatic Narc for life and he’s in the power position.

She knows she can’t ever escape him and feels cornered. She’s not mentally ill. There’s too much footage that shows no history. Perimenopause combined with CPTSD and trauma is real. The BIL living in her house refusing to leave and meddling in her parenting on Scott’s behalf is a huge red flag. She definitely needs help. I will die on this hill in her corner.

You are speculating and have no idea. This crisis she’s in goes way beyond perimenopause. Her own dad called 911 on her. You have 0 evidence that Scott was abusive aside when she muttered it when she was being arrested, but she also said the cops were abusive.

Plus 1 !!

+1
This thread is bananas. There’s a very invested poster (or more than one, who knows) really going off the deep end.

Agree. It’s pointless to discuss at this point.

[Anonymous]

I can see why her social media is sparking some speculation. She posted a picture of Leonardo DiCaprio and Brad Pitt on her Insta stories with a caption saying “call me” and “come visit” because she's single now.

Maybe it's a joke, and I just don’t get her humor, but there are also details about how both of them turned her down years ago and details about where she met Brad.

It’s weird. Honestly, I wish someone would tell her to take a break from social media for awhile.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Some more details. What a mess.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-14825347/Scott-Wolf-Kelley-divorce-actor-avoided-jail-time-split-police-reports-911.html

Hmmmm….

The news came a month after Scott, 57, was charged with reckless driving, and just days before a string of 911 calls were made from their family home, including reports of trespassing and an individual being choked.

Police were called multiple times this year to attend to reports of altercations involving Kelley, Scott, his brother Michael and their children.

More:
She said she did not feel safe in her home and claimed that her brother-in-law had convinced her children that she is a 'cheater' and 'adulterer.'

Kelley can also be heard accusing Scott of being 'controlling' and 'insane' during their marriage, which in recent weeks had forced her to repeatedly leave the family home.

Also included in the June 13 police report was information about an alleged assault on March 6, 2025 that took place at Scott and Kelley's home. Although the names are redacted it appears it is between the now-estranged couple, given terms 'their son' and other clues in the police report, such as a 'past-occurred assault.'

Don't forget how he forced her to go to a bar and throw back whiskey after being let out of the hospital.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I can see why her social media is sparking some speculation. She posted a picture of Leonardo DiCaprio and Brad Pitt on her Insta stories with a caption saying “call me” and “come visit” because she's single now.

Maybe it's a joke, and I just don’t get her humor, but there are also details about how both of them turned her down years ago and details about where she met Brad.

It’s weird. Honestly, I wish someone would tell her to take a break from social media for awhile.

I just see it as ages hypersexual and grandiose (two components of mania) and just very interested in men. Reliving her prime when she thought she could get a man like Brad Pitt. It’s becoming a little akin to Britney Spears instagram

[Anonymous]

Scott driving 130mph in a 65mph zone because a kid needed to go to the bathroom is just as fking crazy and he’s lucky he didn’t kill somebody.