Are yoga pants ok?

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Anonymous wrote:Its not every woman's life's goal to look hot for others 24/7/365.

Who said a women needs to look hot 24/7? Make stuff up much? She's out on dates. During dates you should look presentable. Not like a slob. Whoever you are dating has a right to their opinion. But, this really goes back to some women being lazy and thinking yoga pants are just okay for everything. It is if you're hot as hell with a 10/10 body. But, most women are not and overweight. Even a boyfriend doesn't want to see that in public.

Truth hurts.

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Anonymous wrote:LOL Troll OP trying to start the "are yoga pants pants debate" and she's getting relationship advice. Love you DCUM.

Yoga pants should be worn solely for doing yoga. I wouldn't wear my bee keeping gloves and netted hat to the bank. Dress for the occasion, people. and remember that leggings don't look good/appropriate on anyone older than 8. You're welcome!

But lots of people wear boat or tennis shoes around town, skiwear as winter outerwear, golf visors on their heads, barn jackets in the rain….whatever!

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Anonymous wrote:LOL Troll OP trying to start the "are yoga pants pants debate" and she's getting relationship advice. Love you DCUM.

Yoga pants should be worn solely for doing yoga. I wouldn't wear my bee keeping gloves and netted hat to the bank. Dress for the occasion, people. and remember that leggings don't look good/appropriate on anyone older than 8. You're welcome!

But lots of people wear boat or tennis shoes around town, skiwear as winter outerwear, golf visors on their heads, barn jackets in the rain….whatever!

They are tacky af. If dcum is as rich as we claim, we can afford to be stylish and apppropriately dressed.

[Anonymous]

OP here. My body is amazing! I do a lot of yoga ironically. So the issue is not how my pants fit on me. I do not look sloppy when I go out with him . I have on cute outfits that include yoga pants (that I only wear out and not for when I’m actually doing yoga). My last boyfriend loved me in yoga pants. I think I look hot in them too. It’s just a matter of preference.

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Anonymous wrote:My boyfriend is upset because I wore yoga pants around him. We went to a bookstore and to grab a cup of coffee. He says yoga pants are for doing yoga, and that if he puts in real clothes to see me I should do the same.

He is testing your boundaries. Abusive men often do this for a considerable period of time before beginning abuse. It conditions you to ignore your own boundaries. I positions him as entitled to expect you to change what is for most people an entirely personal choice. If makes your relationship transactional - if you love/are interested in me, you will do things the way I like and avoid things that might make me unhappy, irritated or angry.

It's better to end relationships with people like this when they violate boundaries. You are an adult women who can dress herself and probably doesn't need fashion advice from men. You're better off finding a guy who trusts you to dress yourself and likes your choices even when they are not what he expected.

[Anonymous]

Many people do not look “good” in yoga pants. This is due to the pants’ tight-fitting and “form-hugging” nature.

If you think this might be you, do not choose to wear the yoga pant. Make another choice.

Citation:
See statements Lululemon’s former CEO on the matter. He spoke about the limitations of the yoga pant.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. My body is amazing! I do a lot of yoga ironically. So the issue is not how my pants fit on me. I do not look sloppy when I go out with him . I have on cute outfits that include yoga pants (that I only wear out and not for when I’m actually doing yoga). My last boyfriend loved me in yoga pants. I think I look hot in them too. It’s just a matter of preference.

Are you like the women we kept encountering last summer, who were at all kinds of historic sites, house tours, nice/pricier/"going out" restaurants, museums, historic churches, clubs -- who wore yoga pants (leggings, skintight) with tops which were either equally skintight tanks or straight-up workout bra tops? Because those people were clearly wearing very expensive yoga gear, bottom and top, and felt it was just fine to wear...everywhere, all the time. I'm sure they "only wear" those things "out" and not when doing anything like sweating. But to be frank, OP, everyone was trying not to look at them. They were distracting, and yes, they were "amazing" and "hot" just like you. But that is not why they were distracting. They were just inappropriately dressed, as if every possible place "out" was fine for yoga gear if the gear was pricey enough and the women knew they were hot enough. Their unspoken message seemed to be "My body i amazing! I do a lot of yoga. I look hot in this. Look at ME!"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Many people do not look “good” in yoga pants. This is due to the pants’ tight-fitting and “form-hugging” nature.

If you think this might be you, do not choose to wear the yoga pant. Make another choice.

Citation:
See statements Lululemon’s former CEO on the matter. He spoke about the limitations of the yoga pant.

Oh, but OP and the yoga pant brigade do not think this might be them. They are fit! They don't care if we see camel toe and butt crack outlined, because they don't dress for the rest of us!

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Anonymous wrote:My boyfriend is upset because I wore yoga pants around him. We went to a bookstore and to grab a cup of coffee. He says yoga pants are for doing yoga, and that if he puts in real clothes to see me I should do the same.

He is testing your boundaries. Abusive men often do this for a considerable period of time before beginning abuse. It conditions you to ignore your own boundaries. I positions him as entitled to expect you to change what is for most people an entirely personal choice. If makes your relationship transactional - if you love/are interested in me, you will do things the way I like and avoid things that might make me unhappy, irritated or angry.

It's better to end relationships with people like this when they violate boundaries. You are an adult women who can dress herself and probably doesn't need fashion advice from men. You're better off finding a guy who trusts you to dress yourself and likes your choices even when they are not what he expected.

This. It sounds like you could find someone else OP. Don't be like the OP of the thread whose dh is texting her and ordering her how to shovel the deck, or mandating how the dishwasher is loaded.

This is your first red flag, don't ignore it. Yoga pants are perfectly fine to go for coffee and a bookstore.

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Anonymous wrote:Some of these last comments are really disgusting. Just because someone has fat rolls or cellulite doesnt mean they cant wear whatever they want. News alert - a fat person wearing yoga pants or jeans is still fat. You will still see them, you will still notice how fat they are, and if youre one of the people above fat shaming, you'll still judge and degrade them.
Let people wear what they want, and stop ogling people in public if it makes you so uncomfortable!

Anyways OP. Your bf sounds like a red piller/incel. Some of that verbiage is straight up from their playbook. I would not date someone who tried to police my clothing.

A person can wear what they want. But, people around them have a right to their opinion and thought. It works both ways. If you're fat and want to wear tight clothes. Fine. But, it's also fine for people who see you to judge you and think it's gross.

It goes both ways.

I'd rather someone be comfortable and confident than throw shade. YMMV, and if it makes you feel better to degrade and make fun of someone else, that's your own issue.

And your issue is you want everyone to see you through the eyes of your mother and think you are beautiful just as you are. We aren’t mom and you’re not beautiful.

I'm not talking about myself, I'm talking about all women.

Sorry you are such a hateful negative person. I try to treat people with love and kindness instead of disdain and poison. It really costs nothing to be a nice person. It costs nothing to move your eyes away from someone you find so disgusting. Good luck.

NP, I don’t go around telling people they’re ugly, still I can’t help but judge a fat lady in yoga pants. Believe me, I’m not alone. It’s gross to let yourself go that far that you’re obese and it’s even grosser that you wear yoga pants to show it off. And everyone’s supposed to support you for some reason. Personally, I think people like that a huge narcissists are who think the world revolves around them. They have no interest in other people’s comfort or feelings. They are not nice people.

There's a lot to unpack in your post. You seem to think you're powerless and that judging isn't something you can control. You CAN control it. You should reflect on this ugly aspect of your character and work on it.

You are responsible for your own feelings. Your discomfort and emotional response to 'a fat lady in yoga pants' is a YOU issue. No one other than you is responsible for your feelings and reactions. This is another area you need to work on.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. My body is amazing! I do a lot of yoga ironically. So the issue is not how my pants fit on me. I do not look sloppy when I go out with him . I have on cute outfits that include yoga pants (that I only wear out and not for when I’m actually doing yoga). My last boyfriend loved me in yoga pants. I think I look hot in them too. It’s just a matter of preference.

Are you like the women we kept encountering last summer, who were at all kinds of historic sites, house tours, nice/pricier/"going out" restaurants, museums, historic churches, clubs -- who wore yoga pants (leggings, skintight) with tops which were either equally skintight tanks or straight-up workout bra tops? Because those people were clearly wearing very expensive yoga gear, bottom and top, and felt it was just fine to wear...everywhere, all the time. I'm sure they "only wear" those things "out" and not when doing anything like sweating. But to be frank, OP, everyone was trying not to look at them. They were distracting, and yes, they were "amazing" and "hot" just like you. But that is not why they were distracting. They were just inappropriately dressed, as if every possible place "out" was fine for yoga gear if the gear was pricey enough and the women knew they were hot enough. Their unspoken message seemed to be "My body i amazing! I do a lot of yoga. I look hot in this. Look at ME!"

#Iamthemaincharacter #thirsty

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Anonymous wrote:Some of these last comments are really disgusting. Just because someone has fat rolls or cellulite doesnt mean they cant wear whatever they want. News alert - a fat person wearing yoga pants or jeans is still fat. You will still see them, you will still notice how fat they are, and if youre one of the people above fat shaming, you'll still judge and degrade them.
Let people wear what they want, and stop ogling people in public if it makes you so uncomfortable!

Anyways OP. Your bf sounds like a red piller/incel. Some of that verbiage is straight up from their playbook. I would not date someone who tried to police my clothing.

A person can wear what they want. But, people around them have a right to their opinion and thought. It works both ways. If you're fat and want to wear tight clothes. Fine. But, it's also fine for people who see you to judge you and think it's gross.

It goes both ways.

I'd rather someone be comfortable and confident than throw shade. YMMV, and if it makes you feel better to degrade and make fun of someone else, that's your own issue.

And your issue is you want everyone to see you through the eyes of your mother and think you are beautiful just as you are. We aren’t mom and you’re not beautiful.

I'm not talking about myself, I'm talking about all women.

Sorry you are such a hateful negative person. I try to treat people with love and kindness instead of disdain and poison. It really costs nothing to be a nice person. It costs nothing to move your eyes away from someone you find so disgusting. Good luck.

NP, I don’t go around telling people they’re ugly, still I can’t help but judge a fat lady in yoga pants. Believe me, I’m not alone. It’s gross to let yourself go that far that you’re obese and it’s even grosser that you wear yoga pants to show it off. And everyone’s supposed to support you for some reason. Personally, I think people like that a huge narcissists are who think the world revolves around them. They have no interest in other people’s comfort or feelings. They are not nice people.

There's a lot to unpack in your post. You seem to think you're powerless and that judging isn't something you can control. You CAN control it. You should reflect on this ugly aspect of your character and work on it.

You are responsible for your own feelings. Your discomfort and emotional response to 'a fat lady in yoga pants' is a YOU issue. No one other than you is responsible for your feelings and reactions. This is another area you need to work on.

Being disgusted by out of shape people helps some people stay motivated to maintain a good figure/weight/bmi/healthy habits, lest they become a blob in yoga pants.

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Anonymous wrote:Some of these last comments are really disgusting. Just because someone has fat rolls or cellulite doesnt mean they cant wear whatever they want. News alert - a fat person wearing yoga pants or jeans is still fat. You will still see them, you will still notice how fat they are, and if youre one of the people above fat shaming, you'll still judge and degrade them.
Let people wear what they want, and stop ogling people in public if it makes you so uncomfortable!

Anyways OP. Your bf sounds like a red piller/incel. Some of that verbiage is straight up from their playbook. I would not date someone who tried to police my clothing.

A person can wear what they want. But, people around them have a right to their opinion and thought. It works both ways. If you're fat and want to wear tight clothes. Fine. But, it's also fine for people who see you to judge you and think it's gross.

It goes both ways.

I'd rather someone be comfortable and confident than throw shade. YMMV, and if it makes you feel better to degrade and make fun of someone else, that's your own issue.

And your issue is you want everyone to see you through the eyes of your mother and think you are beautiful just as you are. We aren’t mom and you’re not beautiful.

I'm not talking about myself, I'm talking about all women.

Sorry you are such a hateful negative person. I try to treat people with love and kindness instead of disdain and poison. It really costs nothing to be a nice person. It costs nothing to move your eyes away from someone you find so disgusting. Good luck.

NP, I don’t go around telling people they’re ugly, still I can’t help but judge a fat lady in yoga pants. Believe me, I’m not alone. It’s gross to let yourself go that far that you’re obese and it’s even grosser that you wear yoga pants to show it off. And everyone’s supposed to support you for some reason. Personally, I think people like that a huge narcissists are who think the world revolves around them. They have no interest in other people’s comfort or feelings. They are not nice people.

There's a lot to unpack in your post. You seem to think you're powerless and that judging isn't something you can control. You CAN control it. You should reflect on this ugly aspect of your character and work on it.

You are responsible for your own feelings. Your discomfort and emotional response to 'a fat lady in yoga pants' is a YOU issue. No one other than you is responsible for your feelings and reactions. This is another area you need to work on.

No, the issue is you. How dare you tell other people how they are supposed to think and feel and perceive the world around them?Get over yourself and your fat ass.

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Anonymous wrote:LOL Troll OP trying to start the "are yoga pants pants debate" and she's getting relationship advice. Love you DCUM.

Yoga pants should be worn solely for doing yoga. I wouldn't wear my bee keeping gloves and netted hat to the bank. Dress for the occasion, people. and remember that leggings don't look good/appropriate on anyone older than 8. You're welcome!

No one needs protection from bees when going to the bank. Yoga pants and leggings, OTOH, provide the coverage and flexibility I look for in clothing while I'm running errands. I don't care if you approve or find them attractive on me. I'm not dressing for you.

"Coverage" means they're painted on. Everyone still sees everything unless you're also wearing a loooong shirt. Oh, sure, don't dress for anyone else, but also don't act surprised when you get unwanted attention from men, side eye from women, or, to be blunt, aren't taken very seriously at the bank or similar places, because you're showing every line from the waist down. Fume and fuss away at the judgement! Curse and protest at the unfairness of it all! But don't act surprised about it. You show much more than you think your "coverage" covers. And not everyone wants to see it, except maybe the other yoga-pants-wearing errand runners.

What a telling response. I'm sorry that you don't realize change is in the wind. It's no longer acceptable for to hold women responsible for the actions of men. We've long recognized that no matter what a girl/woman wears, creepy men will creep. Women can also be creepers and judgmental bltches. That's a reflection of your poor character not the 'wearer'.

If I think I need to make a certain impression on someone in order to further my goals, I'll dress to get the results I want. When wearing yoga pants, I've had no issues with service from the places I'm running errands. You might provide different service to someone wearing yoga pants but that's a reflection of your poor character not the 'wearer'.

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. My body is amazing! I do a lot of yoga ironically. So the issue is not how my pants fit on me. I do not look sloppy when I go out with him . I have on cute outfits that include yoga pants (that I only wear out and not for when I’m actually doing yoga). My last boyfriend loved me in yoga pants. I think I look hot in them too. It’s just a matter of preference.

Frankly, most women with average bodies think they look very hot in leggings.