Ex arranged for a friend to come get her things…

[Anonymous]

We were together many years but it just wasn’t working. She had her best friend come get her things, which admittedly hurt, even though I initiated the end of our relationship. She deleted all traces of us and removed me all of her socials. Her friend sent me the list of items to return per my ex - my ex didn’t even send me list herself; and on that list she requested her s3x toys back….

Having my ex communicate through her friend and getting her things, instead of my ex herself, is pretty telling, isn’t?

[Anonymous]

WTF dude?

[Anonymous]

I'm surprised she didn't leave you. You too clingy.

[Anonymous]

Your ego is hurt but that doesn’t change the fact you decided after many years that it wasn’t working. Let her go. Let yourself move on. Be kind to her, she is hurting more than you are. You really want to keep her sex toys? No, you don’t. The quicker you stop communicating, the faster you’ll both move on.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:WTF dude?

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[Anonymous]

Do I think it's a little strange that she wants you collecting her sex toys and boxing them up for her? Sure. If my ex told me to do that, I would tell them to do it themselves. I doubt her friend wants to pack her sex toys either. In fact, I would suggest that you are under no obligation to pack her things at all. If you want to help her then sure go for it. Otherwise she and her friends can come gather up her possessions and take them.

If my ex told me that I had to pack their things for them, I would just tell them that I'll be home if they want to come get their things this coming Saturday from 8-12 and that they can pack and take their things then. I'm too busy to pack for them during the week.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do I think it's a little strange that she wants you collecting her sex toys and boxing them up for her? Sure. If my ex told me to do that, I would tell them to do it themselves. I doubt her friend wants to pack her sex toys either. In fact, I would suggest that you are under no obligation to pack her things at all. If you want to help her then sure go for it. Otherwise she and her friends can come gather up her possessions and take them.

If my ex told me that I had to pack their things for them, I would just tell them that I'll be home if they want to come get their things this coming Saturday from 8-12 and that they can pack and take their things then. I'm too busy to pack for them during the week.

I think she did it this is way because I told it was over as she leaving to go to the airport for 1.5 week business trip. She said “okay” and told me her friend would be by later that week to collect her things.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do I think it's a little strange that she wants you collecting her sex toys and boxing them up for her? Sure. If my ex told me to do that, I would tell them to do it themselves. I doubt her friend wants to pack her sex toys either. In fact, I would suggest that you are under no obligation to pack her things at all. If you want to help her then sure go for it. Otherwise she and her friends can come gather up her possessions and take them.

If my ex told me that I had to pack their things for them, I would just tell them that I'll be home if they want to come get their things this coming Saturday from 8-12 and that they can pack and take their things then. I'm too busy to pack for them during the week.

GMAFB

You want your ex rummaging through your bedroom.

Yes a girlfriend has no problem touching your sex toys nobody huge a sh@t.

We’ve been dealing with blood coming from our orifices since we were 13.

Grow up, she doesn’t want to see him, it’s over. Give her her stuff and move on,

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:WTF dude?

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Why TF do u want to see her. Giver her her stuff and move on.

[Anonymous]

You ended things with her. That’s all the closure you deserve.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We were together many years but it just wasn’t working. She had her best friend come get her things, which admittedly hurt, even though I initiated the end of our relationship. She deleted all traces of us and removed me all of her socials. Her friend sent me the list of items to return per my ex - my ex didn’t even send me list herself; and on that list she requested her s3x toys back….

Having my ex communicate through her friend and getting her things, instead of my ex herself, is pretty telling, isn’t?

She is moving on and done with drama. You should do the same.

[Anonymous]

You dumped her dude. Get over it.

[Anonymous]

I see absolutely nothing wrong with what she did/is doing. Also, you'd want to keep her sex toys? Why? Are you planning on using them with another girl?????

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We were together many years but it just wasn’t working. She had her best friend come get her things, which admittedly hurt, even though I initiated the end of our relationship. She deleted all traces of us and removed me all of her socials. Her friend sent me the list of items to return per my ex - my ex didn’t even send me list herself; and on that list she requested her s3x toys back….

Having my ex communicate through her friend and getting her things, instead of my ex herself, is pretty telling, isn’t?

Yea, it’s telling that she has the spine to move on, and is protecting herself from you.

And she should have her toys back. You broke up with her - why do you want them?

[Anonymous]

Is this the suitcase boyfriend?