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Hello,
I desperately need advice please! I am in a drawn out and difficult negotiation with a person over an important matter. I have an upper hand if in the financial aspect, but he has influence over something I hold near and dear and therefore my emotional state too. Should I compromise on money but hopefully keep something I treasure untouched, or should I try to get the max and be confident I get to keep what I cherish too? |
It is very important that you do not suppress anything right now. Know that all is well. This sacrifice of attachment, painful as it is, this devastating loss of someone who brought you much security, is part of your purpose in this life. Acceptance may come sooner than you think and know that all of the places that you called yours, that you walked with your loved one still hold the presence of your union. When you feel unable to cope, do your best to be present, stay patient and wait. In the times of silence, feel your husband holding your hands and listening to your eyes. There are no longer walls to confine the love he had for you. Sending you much care and love and encouragement to go as deep into your emotions as you can. - the spirit reader |
Thank you. He was the best part of my life. |
You hold the key to obtaining security in both matters. You must look forward. If you cannot trust this person to play fair (and my sense is you can't), relinquishing the financial situation can have a negative effect on your ability to obtain the other outcome. It is often not so simple as to give what they want when dealing with manipulative or abusive individuals, though in some cases it does work. Any time we allow the actions of another to determine our emotional state, we are giving our power away. This is exactly why this person behaves as they do. Take your power back, tend to your emotions inwardly and all that you desire will be yours. You know what you want and what is right for you to do, bring loving kindness to the parts of you that are scared or feeling insecure and trust that though it may take some time, everything will unfold exactly as it needs to. If you do not have a lawyer I would suggest consulting with one, and if you do, consulting with another may also be of help in solidifying your resolve to do what is best for yourself, trusting that any needed outcomes will fall into place. - the spirit reader |
Truly; I can see that. Lots of love. - the spirit reader |
Thank you, spirit reader, for reading me! You are spot on—dh and I do have a very strong relationship and you described him to a T. I’m glad that you said he had a journey of change coming, he’s felt stuck for a long time (the able to maintain controlled action part has kept him there). You have also seen that something about my job has changed recently and I have to decide if that’s the route I want to continue. This was helpful. Thank you for your time and energy! |
| What a beautiful gift to discern and share what you do - thank you Sr. |
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Hi Spirit Reader,
I don’t know if you are still on this thread. Thank you for your time and gifts. What do you see for my two children? They have both been struggling mightily (though differently) for a couple of years, and are incredibly discouraged. There is a lot of suffering in our family as a result. Will things change? Improve? For one/both? I don’t know what kind of future this means for me, either. |
Dear Spirit Reader, I am the poster to whom you responded with this insight. Thank you so much for sharing your gift. I'm so happy to hear your reading of my family situation, and you are right on about the job. I have been reflecting on the first part of what you wrote (in bold) and trying to understand, but admit that it eludes me. Is there anything more about this feeling inside that you could share? Does it have to do with an approach to life/philosophy, an intuition, a way of relating to others, etc.? Sorry to bother you again, but this is intriguing to me, and I'd love to work more with the idea. Thank you. |
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Dear Spirit Reader,
Lots of unknowns in my life right now. Any insight? Thank you! |
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Dear Spirit Reader,
I too have a lot of unknowns right now and anxiety regarding two separate legal issues. As a mom I worry about my kids and letting them go and my dealing with letting them go. Thank you so much for your insight here at DCUM. |
| Just watch a tarot reading for your astrological sign on youtube. A lot of what has been predicted in June resonates with me. |
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Dear Tarot Reader,
Will you please do a reading for me? I posted above about difficulty dealing with having an "empty nest" and significant stress regarding two legal issues. I feel stuck and sad too. Thank you |
12:37 here. 6 cards for you. Card 1: Temperance You feel a need for harmony and balance in your life and indeed are starting to feel that some peace has already been restored. You have been through some tough times, though it seems peace will be restored. This is a time for calm, careful control and patience and you will soon have a sense of normality again. Card 2: The Moon At this time you desire clarity and less of those confused emotions that leave you fearful and vulnerable. You want to know the outcome because you are so unsure about how you feel. Use your intuition to guide you away from deception and ride this out - it will turn out alright in the end. Card 3: The Sun You are afraid that things seem too good to be true, so much pleasure and joy - well enjoy it, sometimes we can be pleasantly surprised! If you have been unwell this is a time of rejuvenation and good health. Perhaps you are afraid that things won't actually get better - have faith you are about to enter a happy and pleasurable time. This card heralds an ending to difficulties and a time to celebrate with friends and loved ones, a time of pleasure and good news around children. Card 4: The Fool This is an exciting time with lots of potential for fun and wonderful experiences. Your confidence should be high, it's a great time for new possibilities. If you are considering leaving your job, home or relationship, at some point you will. Card 5: Wheel of Fortune A run of bad luck here, perhaps already evident or there are certainly signs that things are not going your way. The responsibility of important decisions weighs heavy with you where there are choices to make. Trust your intuition, and even if you have to make the painful decision to give up something in order to move on, then have the courage to do it. Card 6: Strength Courage and self-belief is what you need to succeed. You may already feel overflowing with these, and if so there's no doubt you will achieve what you want with your career, finances and love life. If you are feeling negative, look inward for that strength and courage, you know you are capable of having self-belief and you'll reap great rewards. |