DH is a superficial ass

[Anonymous]

I really think your DH could have expressed concern about your health (physical and emotional) in a more compassionate way. But honestly, I am really sensitive about my appearance and probably wouldn't take commentary lightly.

But OP, you mentioned a significant amount of stress lately (serious illness in the family). It probably wouldn't hurt to meet with a therapist to discuss some healthy coping methods. If everything else is falling apart around you, it's worthwhile to take care of yourself too so that you don't fall apart. 60lbs is a pretty significant amount of weight, but I don't need to lecture you on the health implications of that. I'm sure you know.

Yes, your DH was incentive. But calling him a superficial ass and criticizing his exercise and health efforts is really the pot calling the kettle black.

Take care of yourself.

[Anonymous]

did you get fat