Exposing AP?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don’t understand why you all care about the AP. It’s your spouse who broke your vows. I really don’t get it.

This. Blame the spouse. Also, don't endanger yourself or your future financial security.

My son’s coach chasing my wife for two years destroyed my life, safety and financial security. He can’t do anything to me at this point because the selfish, coward isn’t capable of doing anything for anyone else’s benefit. My perimenopausal ex wife and him are both bottom feeding sources of abuse, manipulation and destruction.

Her attempts to save our marriage were unsuccessful, since I have no love left in me. I only have the peace of not being abused anymore and the prospect of a new life that will take years to develop. His wife seemed like a good person, she deserves to make her own decision since he cheated on her as well. They started dating during the affair and it was still going after their marriage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don’t understand why you all care about the AP. It’s your spouse who broke your vows. I really don’t get it.

This. Blame the spouse. Also, don't endanger yourself or your future financial security.

I agree. I had no idea that I was the AP. He was on a dating site, and we developed a relationship. The wife found out about me, and she blew up my work email with my work colleagues with accusations. Her mom did as well. I reported it to my HR, and filed a report with the police. The police contacted the wife and mother with a warning to never contact me again.

Some of you wives are crazy.

Seriously are you that dumb that you didn’t look him up to see that he was married? Did you break it off as soon as you found out he was? Have some morals

[Anonymous]

She didn't say she didn't break it off. She probably did. How would you look this up? Marriage licenses are by jurisdiction. If he was married in North Dakota you think there would be any record here?

[Anonymous]

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Not to discount the trauma, but some women seem to thrive on the competition and chaos. The man becomes secondary and the wife/ap will stalk one another’s social media for years and interrogate the children for info. It is the antithesis of a feminist response. I mean granted, it is not very sisterly to cheat with a married man.

Being a cheating woman is the opposite of being a feminist and champion of women. They should be booted out if the sisterhood immediately.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don’t understand why you all care about the AP. It’s your spouse who broke your vows. I really don’t get it.

This. Blame the spouse. Also, don't endanger yourself or your future financial security.

I agree. I had no idea that I was the AP. He was on a dating site, and we developed a relationship. The wife found out about me, and she blew up my work email with my work colleagues with accusations. Her mom did as well. I reported it to my HR, and filed a report with the police. The police contacted the wife and mother with a warning to never contact me again.

Some of you wives are crazy.

Seriously are you that dumb that you didn’t look him up to see that he was married? Did you break it off as soon as you found out he was? Have some morals

I guess you are one of those crazy wives. Maybe focus on your straying husband rather then blaming on someone else who had no idea your husband was married.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don’t understand why you all care about the AP. It’s your spouse who broke your vows. I really don’t get it.

This. Blame the spouse. Also, don't endanger yourself or your future financial security.

My son’s coach chasing my wife for two years destroyed my life, safety and financial security. He can’t do anything to me at this point because the selfish, coward isn’t capable of doing anything for anyone else’s benefit. My perimenopausal ex wife and him are both bottom feeding sources of abuse, manipulation and destruction.

Her attempts to save our marriage were unsuccessful, since I have no love left in me. I only have the peace of not being abused anymore and the prospect of a new life that will take years to develop. His wife seemed like a good person, she deserves to make her own decision since he cheated on her as well. They started dating during the affair and it was still going after their marriage.

Messy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don’t understand why you all care about the AP. It’s your spouse who broke your vows. I really don’t get it.

I think it's human nature to hate them both. It's why in many jurisdictions, if you murder the AP after discovering infidelity, your sentence might be reduced to voluntary manslaughter.

Which jurisdictions?

Didn’t that woman dentist in Texas get out of jail after running over her cheating husband with her Mecerdes while the AP looked on?

Clara Harris. She is out after serving 20 years.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:
OP just sue the AP. You may just win.

https://www.nbcnews.com/pop-culture/pop-culture-news/tiktok-influencer-ordered-pay-175m-seducing-manager-leading-end-marria-rcna243473

I kind of love this.

Lifetime Movie…true story
https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0210921/