How much did you sleep around in college?

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1. I married my first at 20. But by our mid-twenties, we were miserable together. Looking back, we were a terrible match. I've left my religion, the one that made me believe that sex outside of marriage is a sin second only to murder, and I hope my kids "sleep around" in college while they are figuring themselves out, and that they wait to get married.

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The educational system you attended failed you. You have absolutely no idea what you are talking about. You think she has some std that she has been harboring for years and that her husband needs layers of skin removed to “cure” it? This might be one of the more hilarious comments I have read on dcum. I’m very curious how old you are pp-i’m 43 and sex education was a required class in middle school and it was very extensive. maybe enroll in an online class to educate yourself before spewing your nonsense.

Sadly, you may be the densest poster on DCUM. And that is saying a lot.

You note the humor in my post ("This might be one of the more hilarious comments I have read on dcum(sic)") (thank you, BTW), but then attempt to blast me for being uneducated. Your tone reflects the fact that either the humor went right over your head (which is likely) or that you meant to imply that my post was unintentionally humorous (in which case, you did a poor job writing your post).

Bragging that you took a sex education course over 30 years ago does not make you an expert on current STD treatments, even treatments mentioned in jest.

And, just so you are aware, ablation therapy (i.e., removing layers of skin) is often used to treat certain types of STDs, such as HPV. And HPV can remain dormant for years and may require "layers of skin removed" to cure it. For more information, visit the Mayo Clinic's website at https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/hpv-infection/diagnosis-treatment/drc-20351602. So, yes, a person can have an STD (i.e., HPV) that they have harbored for years and that requires the removal of layers of skin to cure it.

Please follow your own advice and educate yourself before posting, so that you don't appear so foolish.

HPV washes away on its own within 6 months if the woman is healthy. And most women who sleep around use condoms which protect 100% from this. Layes of skin??? It's easily removable with laser and can appear in women who don't have multiple sex partners as there are literally 200 types that live in everyone's body.
There is a good vaccine since early 2000s that protects against cancerous types and many other types. I'm vaccinated and never had this infection even though I had 20+ partners.

Not the pp or the other pp discussing this but FYI condoms do not protect against HPV.

Previous pp-you are describing gentian warts that may or may not be caused by HPV. Most people with HPV never have genital warts. And you don’t need to be “run through” to get HPV as literally almost the entire population has it at least once in their lifetime. And if a married guy all the sudden needs ablation from genital warts and he has only been with his wife tat is obviously a different kind of problem he needs to look into. A urologist cannot tell how many people you or your partner has slept with by an std you have. People have gotten stds from their one and only partner (obviously the other person not so much).

Condoms provide a very good protection against HPV. Maybe not 100% but for me (I used condoms religiously and asked men for vaccination proof) it worked. Of course, condoms are not entirely protection from many STDs the best way is regular testing, vaccinations and avoiding fluid/skin contact with unknown partners. I did the combination of all of it

condoms only protect between 60-77% for HPV. and how are you asking for HPV vaccination proof when the vaccine only came out fairly recently and isn’t routinely offered to adults?-in fact you couldn’t even get it over a certain age until a couple of years ago. And still men are typically not even offered it (boys up to a certain age are given the vaccine now). It’s too recent for you to have been asking and getting this information with any kind of success unless you are like 25. also HPV is not included in standard std batteries. I am a woman and they test for it when I have my annual pap smear but that was also only in the last 5 years or so that they began testing for that yearly.

I disagree with your statements. I got vaccinated first in 2008. The vaccine is available for almost 20 years. I also was tested for HPV routinely in Europe in 1990s (for cancerous types). Men can ask for vaccine and pay out of pocket. There are men I would sleep with. Those who are not using condoms/anti vaxxes can pass by.

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Oh man your DH got you after you had already been ran through....poor guy

The sad part is that she likely does not respect him for picking her, knowing she had very high mileage.

How did all of you desperate incels find DCUM? It used to me so much more fun when only the smart people were here.

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The educational system you attended failed you. You have absolutely no idea what you are talking about. You think she has some std that she has been harboring for years and that her husband needs layers of skin removed to “cure” it? This might be one of the more hilarious comments I have read on dcum. I’m very curious how old you are pp-i’m 43 and sex education was a required class in middle school and it was very extensive. maybe enroll in an online class to educate yourself before spewing your nonsense.

Sadly, you may be the densest poster on DCUM. And that is saying a lot.

You note the humor in my post ("This might be one of the more hilarious comments I have read on dcum(sic)") (thank you, BTW), but then attempt to blast me for being uneducated. Your tone reflects the fact that either the humor went right over your head (which is likely) or that you meant to imply that my post was unintentionally humorous (in which case, you did a poor job writing your post).

Bragging that you took a sex education course over 30 years ago does not make you an expert on current STD treatments, even treatments mentioned in jest.

And, just so you are aware, ablation therapy (i.e., removing layers of skin) is often used to treat certain types of STDs, such as HPV. And HPV can remain dormant for years and may require "layers of skin removed" to cure it. For more information, visit the Mayo Clinic's website at https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/hpv-infection/diagnosis-treatment/drc-20351602. So, yes, a person can have an STD (i.e., HPV) that they have harbored for years and that requires the removal of layers of skin to cure it.

Please follow your own advice and educate yourself before posting, so that you don't appear so foolish.

HPV washes away on its own within 6 months if the woman is healthy. And most women who sleep around use condoms which protect 100% from this. Layes of skin??? It's easily removable with laser and can appear in women who don't have multiple sex partners as there are literally 200 types that live in everyone's body.
There is a good vaccine since early 2000s that protects against cancerous types and many other types. I'm vaccinated and never had this infection even though I had 20+ partners.

Not the pp or the other pp discussing this but FYI condoms do not protect against HPV.

Previous pp-you are describing gentian warts that may or may not be caused by HPV. Most people with HPV never have genital warts. And you don’t need to be “run through” to get HPV as literally almost the entire population has it at least once in their lifetime. And if a married guy all the sudden needs ablation from genital warts and he has only been with his wife tat is obviously a different kind of problem he needs to look into. A urologist cannot tell how many people you or your partner has slept with by an std you have. People have gotten stds from their one and only partner (obviously the other person not so much).

Condoms provide a very good protection against HPV. Maybe not 100% but for me (I used condoms religiously and asked men for vaccination proof) it worked. Of course, condoms are not entirely protection from many STDs the best way is regular testing, vaccinations and avoiding fluid/skin contact with unknown partners. I did the combination of all of it

condoms only protect between 60-77% for HPV. and how are you asking for HPV vaccination proof when the vaccine only came out fairly recently and isn’t routinely offered to adults?-in fact you couldn’t even get it over a certain age until a couple of years ago. And still men are typically not even offered it (boys up to a certain age are given the vaccine now). It’s too recent for you to have been asking and getting this information with any kind of success unless you are like 25. also HPV is not included in standard std batteries. I am a woman and they test for it when I have my annual pap smear but that was also only in the last 5 years or so that they began testing for that yearly.

I disagree with your statements. I got vaccinated first in 2008. The vaccine is available for almost 20 years. I also was tested for HPV routinely in Europe in 1990s (for cancerous types). Men can ask for vaccine and pay out of pocket. There are men I would sleep with. Those who are not using condoms/anti vaxxes can pass by.

You disagree with the scientific statistic of how effective condom use is for HPV? ok then. Also-did you only date very rich guys in college? That they were all willing to go pay out of pocket for an HPV test that actually doesn’t work and exist? If you use your friend google-you will see that there is no clinically approved HPV test for men. And the only way they are diagnosed is with symptoms. Are there “tests” for it sure-but they are not considered reliable.

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The educational system you attended failed you. You have absolutely no idea what you are talking about. You think she has some std that she has been harboring for years and that her husband needs layers of skin removed to “cure” it? This might be one of the more hilarious comments I have read on dcum. I’m very curious how old you are pp-i’m 43 and sex education was a required class in middle school and it was very extensive. maybe enroll in an online class to educate yourself before spewing your nonsense.

Sadly, you may be the densest poster on DCUM. And that is saying a lot.

You note the humor in my post ("This might be one of the more hilarious comments I have read on dcum(sic)") (thank you, BTW), but then attempt to blast me for being uneducated. Your tone reflects the fact that either the humor went right over your head (which is likely) or that you meant to imply that my post was unintentionally humorous (in which case, you did a poor job writing your post).

Bragging that you took a sex education course over 30 years ago does not make you an expert on current STD treatments, even treatments mentioned in jest.

And, just so you are aware, ablation therapy (i.e., removing layers of skin) is often used to treat certain types of STDs, such as HPV. And HPV can remain dormant for years and may require "layers of skin removed" to cure it. For more information, visit the Mayo Clinic's website at https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/hpv-infection/diagnosis-treatment/drc-20351602. So, yes, a person can have an STD (i.e., HPV) that they have harbored for years and that requires the removal of layers of skin to cure it.

Please follow your own advice and educate yourself before posting, so that you don't appear so foolish.

HPV washes away on its own within 6 months if the woman is healthy. And most women who sleep around use condoms which protect 100% from this. Layes of skin??? It's easily removable with laser and can appear in women who don't have multiple sex partners as there are literally 200 types that live in everyone's body.
There is a good vaccine since early 2000s that protects against cancerous types and many other types. I'm vaccinated and never had this infection even though I had 20+ partners.

Not the pp or the other pp discussing this but FYI condoms do not protect against HPV.

Previous pp-you are describing gentian warts that may or may not be caused by HPV. Most people with HPV never have genital warts. And you don’t need to be “run through” to get HPV as literally almost the entire population has it at least once in their lifetime. And if a married guy all the sudden needs ablation from genital warts and he has only been with his wife tat is obviously a different kind of problem he needs to look into. A urologist cannot tell how many people you or your partner has slept with by an std you have. People have gotten stds from their one and only partner (obviously the other person not so much).

Condoms provide a very good protection against HPV. Maybe not 100% but for me (I used condoms religiously and asked men for vaccination proof) it worked. Of course, condoms are not entirely protection from many STDs the best way is regular testing, vaccinations and avoiding fluid/skin contact with unknown partners. I did the combination of all of it

condoms only protect between 60-77% for HPV. and how are you asking for HPV vaccination proof when the vaccine only came out fairly recently and isn’t routinely offered to adults?-in fact you couldn’t even get it over a certain age until a couple of years ago. And still men are typically not even offered it (boys up to a certain age are given the vaccine now). It’s too recent for you to have been asking and getting this information with any kind of success unless you are like 25. also HPV is not included in standard std batteries. I am a woman and they test for it when I have my annual pap smear but that was also only in the last 5 years or so that they began testing for that yearly.

I disagree with your statements. I got vaccinated first in 2008. The vaccine is available for almost 20 years. I also was tested for HPV routinely in Europe in 1990s (for cancerous types). Men can ask for vaccine and pay out of pocket. There are men I would sleep with. Those who are not using condoms/anti vaxxes can pass by.

You disagree with the scientific statistic of how effective condom use is for HPV? ok then. Also-did you only date very rich guys in college? That they were all willing to go pay out of pocket for an HPV test that actually doesn’t work and exist? If you use your friend google-you will see that there is no clinically approved HPV test for men. And the only way they are diagnosed is with symptoms. Are there “tests” for it sure-but they are not considered reliable.

No, I disagreed with your statements that women only began being screened regularly 5 years ago because I clearly was able to ask for that testing annually in (a not very wealthy) European country in late 1990s. They screened me for cancerous HPV 16, 18 and 44 types, I believe. Vaccination is available from 2006. I used condoms with men I slept with and yes, I only slept with men of certain SES even back in college. And condoms do protect pretty well (70% is good enough if you are selective who you sleep with and inspect his equipment for warts).
You just threw in a couple of new well known facts in your last message ( that men are not tested for HPV and only treated for symptoms- that is correct).

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Anonymous wrote:I had a gf all through college and was faithful. That said, I had a LOT of sex. Multiple times every day. She was very sexually minded and we were each other’s firsts.

We got married and ended up divorced after 1.5 years because she had multiple affairs. In hindsight, we both should dated other people and sown our oats. I think she loved sex and it drove her crazy having only been with one person and not knowing what else is out there.

I’m happily remarried over 20 years now and my wife definitely got to sow her oats when she was young. I don’t have a problem with that. In fact, I’m jealous that I wasn’t smart enough to do the same.

I could write almost the same thing, except that I wasn’t her first. I was faithful to her all through college, but she was never faithful to me. I really regret not having had a richer set of sexual experiences in college, and now that I’m old and long married that ship has very much sailed. Youth is wasted on the young.

After we split, I learned about like 5-6 other scenarios where she was unfaithful during our relationship. I really was pretty naive and trusting. And, I passed up some really hot girls along the way.

I’m not complaining, my current wife is wonderful and I couldn’t have done better for myself. Its just that I missed a lot of great opportunities to be faithful to someone who was never faithful to me.

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A lot. More than my husband did. But been faithful for over 30 years.

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The educational system you attended failed you. You have absolutely no idea what you are talking about. You think she has some std that she has been harboring for years and that her husband needs layers of skin removed to “cure” it? This might be one of the more hilarious comments I have read on dcum. I’m very curious how old you are pp-i’m 43 and sex education was a required class in middle school and it was very extensive. maybe enroll in an online class to educate yourself before spewing your nonsense.

Sadly, you may be the densest poster on DCUM. And that is saying a lot.

You note the humor in my post ("This might be one of the more hilarious comments I have read on dcum(sic)") (thank you, BTW), but then attempt to blast me for being uneducated. Your tone reflects the fact that either the humor went right over your head (which is likely) or that you meant to imply that my post was unintentionally humorous (in which case, you did a poor job writing your post).

Bragging that you took a sex education course over 30 years ago does not make you an expert on current STD treatments, even treatments mentioned in jest.

And, just so you are aware, ablation therapy (i.e., removing layers of skin) is often used to treat certain types of STDs, such as HPV. And HPV can remain dormant for years and may require "layers of skin removed" to cure it. For more information, visit the Mayo Clinic's website at https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/hpv-infection/diagnosis-treatment/drc-20351602. So, yes, a person can have an STD (i.e., HPV) that they have harbored for years and that requires the removal of layers of skin to cure it.

Please follow your own advice and educate yourself before posting, so that you don't appear so foolish.

HPV washes away on its own within 6 months if the woman is healthy. And most women who sleep around use condoms which protect 100% from this. Layes of skin??? It's easily removable with laser and can appear in women who don't have multiple sex partners as there are literally 200 types that live in everyone's body.
There is a good vaccine since early 2000s that protects against cancerous types and many other types. I'm vaccinated and never had this infection even though I had 20+ partners.

Not the pp or the other pp discussing this but FYI condoms do not protect against HPV.

Previous pp-you are describing gentian warts that may or may not be caused by HPV. Most people with HPV never have genital warts. And you don’t need to be “run through” to get HPV as literally almost the entire population has it at least once in their lifetime. And if a married guy all the sudden needs ablation from genital warts and he has only been with his wife tat is obviously a different kind of problem he needs to look into. A urologist cannot tell how many people you or your partner has slept with by an std you have. People have gotten stds from their one and only partner (obviously the other person not so much).

Condoms provide a very good protection against HPV. Maybe not 100% but for me (I used condoms religiously and asked men for vaccination proof) it worked. Of course, condoms are not entirely protection from many STDs the best way is regular testing, vaccinations and avoiding fluid/skin contact with unknown partners. I did the combination of all of it

condoms only protect between 60-77% for HPV. and how are you asking for HPV vaccination proof when the vaccine only came out fairly recently and isn’t routinely offered to adults?-in fact you couldn’t even get it over a certain age until a couple of years ago. And still men are typically not even offered it (boys up to a certain age are given the vaccine now). It’s too recent for you to have been asking and getting this information with any kind of success unless you are like 25. also HPV is not included in standard std batteries. I am a woman and they test for it when I have my annual pap smear but that was also only in the last 5 years or so that they began testing for that yearly.

I disagree with your statements. I got vaccinated first in 2008. The vaccine is available for almost 20 years. I also was tested for HPV routinely in Europe in 1990s (for cancerous types). Men can ask for vaccine and pay out of pocket. There are men I would sleep with. Those who are not using condoms/anti vaxxes can pass by.

You disagree with the scientific statistic of how effective condom use is for HPV? ok then. Also-did you only date very rich guys in college? That they were all willing to go pay out of pocket for an HPV test that actually doesn’t work and exist? If you use your friend google-you will see that there is no clinically approved HPV test for men. And the only way they are diagnosed is with symptoms. Are there “tests” for it sure-but they are not considered reliable.

No, I disagreed with your statements that women only began being screened regularly 5 years ago because I clearly was able to ask for that testing annually in (a not very wealthy) European country in late 1990s. They screened me for cancerous HPV 16, 18 and 44 types, I believe. Vaccination is available from 2006. I used condoms with men I slept with and yes, I only slept with men of certain SES even back in college. And condoms do protect pretty well (70% is good enough if you are selective who you sleep with and inspect his equipment for warts).
You just threw in a couple of new well known facts in your last message ( that men are not tested for HPV and only treated for symptoms- that is correct).

You said you required an HPV test from men that you slept well and they paid out of pocket for it. But that test is not a thing-so you made that part up.

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The educational system you attended failed you. You have absolutely no idea what you are talking about. You think she has some std that she has been harboring for years and that her husband needs layers of skin removed to “cure” it? This might be one of the more hilarious comments I have read on dcum. I’m very curious how old you are pp-i’m 43 and sex education was a required class in middle school and it was very extensive. maybe enroll in an online class to educate yourself before spewing your nonsense.

Sadly, you may be the densest poster on DCUM. And that is saying a lot.

You note the humor in my post ("This might be one of the more hilarious comments I have read on dcum(sic)") (thank you, BTW), but then attempt to blast me for being uneducated. Your tone reflects the fact that either the humor went right over your head (which is likely) or that you meant to imply that my post was unintentionally humorous (in which case, you did a poor job writing your post).

Bragging that you took a sex education course over 30 years ago does not make you an expert on current STD treatments, even treatments mentioned in jest.

And, just so you are aware, ablation therapy (i.e., removing layers of skin) is often used to treat certain types of STDs, such as HPV. And HPV can remain dormant for years and may require "layers of skin removed" to cure it. For more information, visit the Mayo Clinic's website at https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/hpv-infection/diagnosis-treatment/drc-20351602. So, yes, a person can have an STD (i.e., HPV) that they have harbored for years and that requires the removal of layers of skin to cure it.

Please follow your own advice and educate yourself before posting, so that you don't appear so foolish.

HPV washes away on its own within 6 months if the woman is healthy. And most women who sleep around use condoms which protect 100% from this. Layes of skin??? It's easily removable with laser and can appear in women who don't have multiple sex partners as there are literally 200 types that live in everyone's body.
There is a good vaccine since early 2000s that protects against cancerous types and many other types. I'm vaccinated and never had this infection even though I had 20+ partners.

Not the pp or the other pp discussing this but FYI condoms do not protect against HPV.

Previous pp-you are describing gentian warts that may or may not be caused by HPV. Most people with HPV never have genital warts. And you don’t need to be “run through” to get HPV as literally almost the entire population has it at least once in their lifetime. And if a married guy all the sudden needs ablation from genital warts and he has only been with his wife tat is obviously a different kind of problem he needs to look into. A urologist cannot tell how many people you or your partner has slept with by an std you have. People have gotten stds from their one and only partner (obviously the other person not so much).

Condoms provide a very good protection against HPV. Maybe not 100% but for me (I used condoms religiously and asked men for vaccination proof) it worked. Of course, condoms are not entirely protection from many STDs the best way is regular testing, vaccinations and avoiding fluid/skin contact with unknown partners. I did the combination of all of it

condoms only protect between 60-77% for HPV. and how are you asking for HPV vaccination proof when the vaccine only came out fairly recently and isn’t routinely offered to adults?-in fact you couldn’t even get it over a certain age until a couple of years ago. And still men are typically not even offered it (boys up to a certain age are given the vaccine now). It’s too recent for you to have been asking and getting this information with any kind of success unless you are like 25. also HPV is not included in standard std batteries. I am a woman and they test for it when I have my annual pap smear but that was also only in the last 5 years or so that they began testing for that yearly.

I disagree with your statements. I got vaccinated first in 2008. The vaccine is available for almost 20 years. I also was tested for HPV routinely in Europe in 1990s (for cancerous types). Men can ask for vaccine and pay out of pocket. There are men I would sleep with. Those who are not using condoms/anti vaxxes can pass by.

You disagree with the scientific statistic of how effective condom use is for HPV? ok then. Also-did you only date very rich guys in college? That they were all willing to go pay out of pocket for an HPV test that actually doesn’t work and exist? If you use your friend google-you will see that there is no clinically approved HPV test for men. And the only way they are diagnosed is with symptoms. Are there “tests” for it sure-but they are not considered reliable.

No, I disagreed with your statements that women only began being screened regularly 5 years ago because I clearly was able to ask for that testing annually in (a not very wealthy) European country in late 1990s. They screened me for cancerous HPV 16, 18 and 44 types, I believe. Vaccination is available from 2006. I used condoms with men I slept with and yes, I only slept with men of certain SES even back in college. And condoms do protect pretty well (70% is good enough if you are selective who you sleep with and inspect his equipment for warts).
You just threw in a couple of new well known facts in your last message ( that men are not tested for HPV and only treated for symptoms- that is correct).

You said you required an HPV test from men that you slept well and they paid out of pocket for it. But that test is not a thing-so you made that part up.

Where did I say I required HpV test from men? I required vaccination

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The educational system you attended failed you. You have absolutely no idea what you are talking about. You think she has some std that she has been harboring for years and that her husband needs layers of skin removed to “cure” it? This might be one of the more hilarious comments I have read on dcum. I’m very curious how old you are pp-i’m 43 and sex education was a required class in middle school and it was very extensive. maybe enroll in an online class to educate yourself before spewing your nonsense.

Sadly, you may be the densest poster on DCUM. And that is saying a lot.

You note the humor in my post ("This might be one of the more hilarious comments I have read on dcum(sic)") (thank you, BTW), but then attempt to blast me for being uneducated. Your tone reflects the fact that either the humor went right over your head (which is likely) or that you meant to imply that my post was unintentionally humorous (in which case, you did a poor job writing your post).

Bragging that you took a sex education course over 30 years ago does not make you an expert on current STD treatments, even treatments mentioned in jest.

And, just so you are aware, ablation therapy (i.e., removing layers of skin) is often used to treat certain types of STDs, such as HPV. And HPV can remain dormant for years and may require "layers of skin removed" to cure it. For more information, visit the Mayo Clinic's website at https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/hpv-infection/diagnosis-treatment/drc-20351602. So, yes, a person can have an STD (i.e., HPV) that they have harbored for years and that requires the removal of layers of skin to cure it.

Please follow your own advice and educate yourself before posting, so that you don't appear so foolish.

HPV washes away on its own within 6 months if the woman is healthy. And most women who sleep around use condoms which protect 100% from this. Layes of skin??? It's easily removable with laser and can appear in women who don't have multiple sex partners as there are literally 200 types that live in everyone's body.
There is a good vaccine since early 2000s that protects against cancerous types and many other types. I'm vaccinated and never had this infection even though I had 20+ partners.

Not the pp or the other pp discussing this but FYI condoms do not protect against HPV.

Previous pp-you are describing gentian warts that may or may not be caused by HPV. Most people with HPV never have genital warts. And you don’t need to be “run through” to get HPV as literally almost the entire population has it at least once in their lifetime. And if a married guy all the sudden needs ablation from genital warts and he has only been with his wife tat is obviously a different kind of problem he needs to look into. A urologist cannot tell how many people you or your partner has slept with by an std you have. People have gotten stds from their one and only partner (obviously the other person not so much).

Condoms provide a very good protection against HPV. Maybe not 100% but for me (I used condoms religiously and asked men for vaccination proof) it worked. Of course, condoms are not entirely protection from many STDs the best way is regular testing, vaccinations and avoiding fluid/skin contact with unknown partners. I did the combination of all of it

condoms only protect between 60-77% for HPV. and how are you asking for HPV vaccination proof when the vaccine only came out fairly recently and isn’t routinely offered to adults?-in fact you couldn’t even get it over a certain age until a couple of years ago. And still men are typically not even offered it (boys up to a certain age are given the vaccine now). It’s too recent for you to have been asking and getting this information with any kind of success unless you are like 25. also HPV is not included in standard std batteries. I am a woman and they test for it when I have my annual pap smear but that was also only in the last 5 years or so that they began testing for that yearly.

I disagree with your statements. I got vaccinated first in 2008. The vaccine is available for almost 20 years. I also was tested for HPV routinely in Europe in 1990s (for cancerous types). Men can ask for vaccine and pay out of pocket. There are men I would sleep with. Those who are not using condoms/anti vaxxes can pass by.

You disagree with the scientific statistic of how effective condom use is for HPV? ok then. Also-did you only date very rich guys in college? That they were all willing to go pay out of pocket for an HPV test that actually doesn’t work and exist? If you use your friend google-you will see that there is no clinically approved HPV test for men. And the only way they are diagnosed is with symptoms. Are there “tests” for it sure-but they are not considered reliable.

No, I disagreed with your statements that women only began being screened regularly 5 years ago because I clearly was able to ask for that testing annually in (a not very wealthy) European country in late 1990s. They screened me for cancerous HPV 16, 18 and 44 types, I believe. Vaccination is available from 2006. I used condoms with men I slept with and yes, I only slept with men of certain SES even back in college. And condoms do protect pretty well (70% is good enough if you are selective who you sleep with and inspect his equipment for warts).
You just threw in a couple of new well known facts in your last message ( that men are not tested for HPV and only treated for symptoms- that is correct).

You said you required an HPV test from men that you slept well and they paid out of pocket for it. But that test is not a thing-so you made that part up.

Where did I say I required HpV test from men? I required vaccination

So let me get this straight. You required men who you were going to sleep with to go pay out of pocket for a vaccine (which doesn’t tell you if they already have HPV) and you think that vaccine goes into effect immediately upon them receiving it? Got it. So glad it worked out for you.

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The educational system you attended failed you. You have absolutely no idea what you are talking about. You think she has some std that she has been harboring for years and that her husband needs layers of skin removed to “cure” it? This might be one of the more hilarious comments I have read on dcum. I’m very curious how old you are pp-i’m 43 and sex education was a required class in middle school and it was very extensive. maybe enroll in an online class to educate yourself before spewing your nonsense.

Sadly, you may be the densest poster on DCUM. And that is saying a lot.

You note the humor in my post ("This might be one of the more hilarious comments I have read on dcum(sic)") (thank you, BTW), but then attempt to blast me for being uneducated. Your tone reflects the fact that either the humor went right over your head (which is likely) or that you meant to imply that my post was unintentionally humorous (in which case, you did a poor job writing your post).

Bragging that you took a sex education course over 30 years ago does not make you an expert on current STD treatments, even treatments mentioned in jest.

And, just so you are aware, ablation therapy (i.e., removing layers of skin) is often used to treat certain types of STDs, such as HPV. And HPV can remain dormant for years and may require "layers of skin removed" to cure it. For more information, visit the Mayo Clinic's website at https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/hpv-infection/diagnosis-treatment/drc-20351602. So, yes, a person can have an STD (i.e., HPV) that they have harbored for years and that requires the removal of layers of skin to cure it.

Please follow your own advice and educate yourself before posting, so that you don't appear so foolish.

HPV washes away on its own within 6 months if the woman is healthy. And most women who sleep around use condoms which protect 100% from this. Layes of skin??? It's easily removable with laser and can appear in women who don't have multiple sex partners as there are literally 200 types that live in everyone's body.
There is a good vaccine since early 2000s that protects against cancerous types and many other types. I'm vaccinated and never had this infection even though I had 20+ partners.

Not the pp or the other pp discussing this but FYI condoms do not protect against HPV.

Previous pp-you are describing gentian warts that may or may not be caused by HPV. Most people with HPV never have genital warts. And you don’t need to be “run through” to get HPV as literally almost the entire population has it at least once in their lifetime. And if a married guy all the sudden needs ablation from genital warts and he has only been with his wife tat is obviously a different kind of problem he needs to look into. A urologist cannot tell how many people you or your partner has slept with by an std you have. People have gotten stds from their one and only partner (obviously the other person not so much).

Condoms provide a very good protection against HPV. Maybe not 100% but for me (I used condoms religiously and asked men for vaccination proof) it worked. Of course, condoms are not entirely protection from many STDs the best way is regular testing, vaccinations and avoiding fluid/skin contact with unknown partners. I did the combination of all of it

condoms only protect between 60-77% for HPV. and how are you asking for HPV vaccination proof when the vaccine only came out fairly recently and isn’t routinely offered to adults?-in fact you couldn’t even get it over a certain age until a couple of years ago. And still men are typically not even offered it (boys up to a certain age are given the vaccine now). It’s too recent for you to have been asking and getting this information with any kind of success unless you are like 25. also HPV is not included in standard std batteries. I am a woman and they test for it when I have my annual pap smear but that was also only in the last 5 years or so that they began testing for that yearly.

I disagree with your statements. I got vaccinated first in 2008. The vaccine is available for almost 20 years. I also was tested for HPV routinely in Europe in 1990s (for cancerous types). Men can ask for vaccine and pay out of pocket. There are men I would sleep with. Those who are not using condoms/anti vaxxes can pass by.

You disagree with the scientific statistic of how effective condom use is for HPV? ok then. Also-did you only date very rich guys in college? That they were all willing to go pay out of pocket for an HPV test that actually doesn’t work and exist? If you use your friend google-you will see that there is no clinically approved HPV test for men. And the only way they are diagnosed is with symptoms. Are there “tests” for it sure-but they are not considered reliable.

No, I disagreed with your statements that women only began being screened regularly 5 years ago because I clearly was able to ask for that testing annually in (a not very wealthy) European country in late 1990s. They screened me for cancerous HPV 16, 18 and 44 types, I believe. Vaccination is available from 2006. I used condoms with men I slept with and yes, I only slept with men of certain SES even back in college. And condoms do protect pretty well (70% is good enough if you are selective who you sleep with and inspect his equipment for warts).
You just threw in a couple of new well known facts in your last message ( that men are not tested for HPV and only treated for symptoms- that is correct).

You said you required an HPV test from men that you slept well and they paid out of pocket for it. But that test is not a thing-so you made that part up.

Where did I say I required HpV test from men? I required vaccination

So let me get this straight. You required men who you were going to sleep with to go pay out of pocket for a vaccine (which doesn’t tell you if they already have HPV) and you think that vaccine goes into effect immediately upon them receiving it? Got it. So glad it worked out for you.

No, again, you added new information or facts that only come from you. I require vaccination, condoms use for a few months even when exclusive I don't mix fluids for a while. It is a pretty damn good protection that worked for me

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The educational system you attended failed you. You have absolutely no idea what you are talking about. You think she has some std that she has been harboring for years and that her husband needs layers of skin removed to “cure” it? This might be one of the more hilarious comments I have read on dcum. I’m very curious how old you are pp-i’m 43 and sex education was a required class in middle school and it was very extensive. maybe enroll in an online class to educate yourself before spewing your nonsense.

Sadly, you may be the densest poster on DCUM. And that is saying a lot.

You note the humor in my post ("This might be one of the more hilarious comments I have read on dcum(sic)") (thank you, BTW), but then attempt to blast me for being uneducated. Your tone reflects the fact that either the humor went right over your head (which is likely) or that you meant to imply that my post was unintentionally humorous (in which case, you did a poor job writing your post).

Bragging that you took a sex education course over 30 years ago does not make you an expert on current STD treatments, even treatments mentioned in jest.

And, just so you are aware, ablation therapy (i.e., removing layers of skin) is often used to treat certain types of STDs, such as HPV. And HPV can remain dormant for years and may require "layers of skin removed" to cure it. For more information, visit the Mayo Clinic's website at https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/hpv-infection/diagnosis-treatment/drc-20351602. So, yes, a person can have an STD (i.e., HPV) that they have harbored for years and that requires the removal of layers of skin to cure it.

Please follow your own advice and educate yourself before posting, so that you don't appear so foolish.

HPV washes away on its own within 6 months if the woman is healthy. And most women who sleep around use condoms which protect 100% from this. Layes of skin??? It's easily removable with laser and can appear in women who don't have multiple sex partners as there are literally 200 types that live in everyone's body.
There is a good vaccine since early 2000s that protects against cancerous types and many other types. I'm vaccinated and never had this infection even though I had 20+ partners.

Not the pp or the other pp discussing this but FYI condoms do not protect against HPV.

Previous pp-you are describing gentian warts that may or may not be caused by HPV. Most people with HPV never have genital warts. And you don’t need to be “run through” to get HPV as literally almost the entire population has it at least once in their lifetime. And if a married guy all the sudden needs ablation from genital warts and he has only been with his wife tat is obviously a different kind of problem he needs to look into. A urologist cannot tell how many people you or your partner has slept with by an std you have. People have gotten stds from their one and only partner (obviously the other person not so much).

Condoms provide a very good protection against HPV. Maybe not 100% but for me (I used condoms religiously and asked men for vaccination proof) it worked. Of course, condoms are not entirely protection from many STDs the best way is regular testing, vaccinations and avoiding fluid/skin contact with unknown partners. I did the combination of all of it

condoms only protect between 60-77% for HPV. and how are you asking for HPV vaccination proof when the vaccine only came out fairly recently and isn’t routinely offered to adults?-in fact you couldn’t even get it over a certain age until a couple of years ago. And still men are typically not even offered it (boys up to a certain age are given the vaccine now). It’s too recent for you to have been asking and getting this information with any kind of success unless you are like 25. also HPV is not included in standard std batteries. I am a woman and they test for it when I have my annual pap smear but that was also only in the last 5 years or so that they began testing for that yearly.

I disagree with your statements. I got vaccinated first in 2008. The vaccine is available for almost 20 years. I also was tested for HPV routinely in Europe in 1990s (for cancerous types). Men can ask for vaccine and pay out of pocket. There are men I would sleep with. Those who are not using condoms/anti vaxxes can pass by.

You disagree with the scientific statistic of how effective condom use is for HPV? ok then. Also-did you only date very rich guys in college? That they were all willing to go pay out of pocket for an HPV test that actually doesn’t work and exist? If you use your friend google-you will see that there is no clinically approved HPV test for men. And the only way they are diagnosed is with symptoms. Are there “tests” for it sure-but they are not considered reliable.

No, I disagreed with your statements that women only began being screened regularly 5 years ago because I clearly was able to ask for that testing annually in (a not very wealthy) European country in late 1990s. They screened me for cancerous HPV 16, 18 and 44 types, I believe. Vaccination is available from 2006. I used condoms with men I slept with and yes, I only slept with men of certain SES even back in college. And condoms do protect pretty well (70% is good enough if you are selective who you sleep with and inspect his equipment for warts).
You just threw in a couple of new well known facts in your last message ( that men are not tested for HPV and only treated for symptoms- that is correct).

You said you required an HPV test from men that you slept well and they paid out of pocket for it. But that test is not a thing-so you made that part up.

Where did I say I required HpV test from men? I required vaccination

So let me get this straight. You required men who you were going to sleep with to go pay out of pocket for a vaccine (which doesn’t tell you if they already have HPV) and you think that vaccine goes into effect immediately upon them receiving it? Got it. So glad it worked out for you.

No, again, you added new information or facts that only come from you. I require vaccination, condoms use for a few months even when exclusive I don't mix fluids for a while. It is a pretty damn good protection that worked for me

For someone who seems to think they know everything about this-you clearly have no idea how the hpv vaccine works. Because you are responding as if it is one shot. It is not. It’s 3 for adults and over the course of about 7 months.

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The educational system you attended failed you. You have absolutely no idea what you are talking about. You think she has some std that she has been harboring for years and that her husband needs layers of skin removed to “cure” it? This might be one of the more hilarious comments I have read on dcum. I’m very curious how old you are pp-i’m 43 and sex education was a required class in middle school and it was very extensive. maybe enroll in an online class to educate yourself before spewing your nonsense.

Sadly, you may be the densest poster on DCUM. And that is saying a lot.

You note the humor in my post ("This might be one of the more hilarious comments I have read on dcum(sic)") (thank you, BTW), but then attempt to blast me for being uneducated. Your tone reflects the fact that either the humor went right over your head (which is likely) or that you meant to imply that my post was unintentionally humorous (in which case, you did a poor job writing your post).

Bragging that you took a sex education course over 30 years ago does not make you an expert on current STD treatments, even treatments mentioned in jest.

And, just so you are aware, ablation therapy (i.e., removing layers of skin) is often used to treat certain types of STDs, such as HPV. And HPV can remain dormant for years and may require "layers of skin removed" to cure it. For more information, visit the Mayo Clinic's website at https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/hpv-infection/diagnosis-treatment/drc-20351602. So, yes, a person can have an STD (i.e., HPV) that they have harbored for years and that requires the removal of layers of skin to cure it.

Please follow your own advice and educate yourself before posting, so that you don't appear so foolish.

HPV washes away on its own within 6 months if the woman is healthy. And most women who sleep around use condoms which protect 100% from this. Layes of skin??? It's easily removable with laser and can appear in women who don't have multiple sex partners as there are literally 200 types that live in everyone's body.
There is a good vaccine since early 2000s that protects against cancerous types and many other types. I'm vaccinated and never had this infection even though I had 20+ partners.

Not the pp or the other pp discussing this but FYI condoms do not protect against HPV.

Previous pp-you are describing gentian warts that may or may not be caused by HPV. Most people with HPV never have genital warts. And you don’t need to be “run through” to get HPV as literally almost the entire population has it at least once in their lifetime. And if a married guy all the sudden needs ablation from genital warts and he has only been with his wife tat is obviously a different kind of problem he needs to look into. A urologist cannot tell how many people you or your partner has slept with by an std you have. People have gotten stds from their one and only partner (obviously the other person not so much).

Condoms provide a very good protection against HPV. Maybe not 100% but for me (I used condoms religiously and asked men for vaccination proof) it worked. Of course, condoms are not entirely protection from many STDs the best way is regular testing, vaccinations and avoiding fluid/skin contact with unknown partners. I did the combination of all of it

condoms only protect between 60-77% for HPV. and how are you asking for HPV vaccination proof when the vaccine only came out fairly recently and isn’t routinely offered to adults?-in fact you couldn’t even get it over a certain age until a couple of years ago. And still men are typically not even offered it (boys up to a certain age are given the vaccine now). It’s too recent for you to have been asking and getting this information with any kind of success unless you are like 25. also HPV is not included in standard std batteries. I am a woman and they test for it when I have my annual pap smear but that was also only in the last 5 years or so that they began testing for that yearly.

I disagree with your statements. I got vaccinated first in 2008. The vaccine is available for almost 20 years. I also was tested for HPV routinely in Europe in 1990s (for cancerous types). Men can ask for vaccine and pay out of pocket. There are men I would sleep with. Those who are not using condoms/anti vaxxes can pass by.

You disagree with the scientific statistic of how effective condom use is for HPV? ok then. Also-did you only date very rich guys in college? That they were all willing to go pay out of pocket for an HPV test that actually doesn’t work and exist? If you use your friend google-you will see that there is no clinically approved HPV test for men. And the only way they are diagnosed is with symptoms. Are there “tests” for it sure-but they are not considered reliable.

No, I disagreed with your statements that women only began being screened regularly 5 years ago because I clearly was able to ask for that testing annually in (a not very wealthy) European country in late 1990s. They screened me for cancerous HPV 16, 18 and 44 types, I believe. Vaccination is available from 2006. I used condoms with men I slept with and yes, I only slept with men of certain SES even back in college. And condoms do protect pretty well (70% is good enough if you are selective who you sleep with and inspect his equipment for warts).
You just threw in a couple of new well known facts in your last message ( that men are not tested for HPV and only treated for symptoms- that is correct).

You said you required an HPV test from men that you slept well and they paid out of pocket for it. But that test is not a thing-so you made that part up.

Where did I say I required HpV test from men? I required vaccination

So let me get this straight. You required men who you were going to sleep with to go pay out of pocket for a vaccine (which doesn’t tell you if they already have HPV) and you think that vaccine goes into effect immediately upon them receiving it? Got it. So glad it worked out for you.

No, again, you added new information or facts that only come from you. I require vaccination, condoms use for a few months even when exclusive I don't mix fluids for a while. It is a pretty damn good protection that worked for me

For someone who seems to think they know everything about this-you clearly have no idea how the hpv vaccine works. Because you are responding as if it is one shot. It is not. It’s 3 for adults and over the course of about 7 months.

Leave me alone, I know how it works

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I'm also curious if the women who slept around a lot in college found all their partners attractive?

I look back at my college years and wish I had slept around more in theory (no judgement there) but I honestly didn't meet many guys in college that I found sexually attractive at all. Maybe a half dozen total? Then I was super into them and would have had sex twice a day, every day. But the vast majority of college guys were just not appealing at all.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm also curious if the women who slept around a lot in college found all their partners attractive?

I look back at my college years and wish I had slept around more in theory (no judgement there) but I honestly didn't meet many guys in college that I found sexually attractive at all. Maybe a half dozen total? Then I was super into them and would have had sex twice a day, every day. But the vast majority of college guys were just not appealing at all.

I wrote this way way up thread. I have regrets about not sleeping around more, that I wasted all my time with two long term bfs who were not good for me (but were very very cute). But when I think about my opportunities, the guys were gross. And I say that with thirty years of hindsight too. There was probably one or two guys I should have given it a go with whom I didn’t, but otherwise I think most of the hookups I could have done would have left me feeling worse. I did spend a summer in dc where I hooked up a decent amount, and that was loads of fun and made me feel great. The guys were just a little older. And that summer set me up to be in a healthy place to meet Dh (who I met right after that summer) and we’ve had a ridiculously healthy and positive relationship for 27 years now. I credit the summer of hooking up towards that! But yes, lots of ugly young guys.