Sometimes apples don't fall too far from the tree my friend. |
There are lots of people talking about "dream schools" and "selective schools" on this thread who seem really clueless about the post-2020 college admissions environment. College admissions is very hard for kids now. Kids getting into T-20s from SJC have multiple hooks. Non-hooked kids getting into even T-30s are few and far between. I've had 2 graduate post-2020. Your kid was never going to get into a selective school regardless of whether they went public or private. Of course your kid could excel at a selective school. Most kids could. It is a numbers game, and too many kids are applying for too few spots. This idea that SJC is holding them back in favor of athletes or scholars is simply a fantasy in your mind. Let it go, you will be happier! Your kid is going to do great! |
I am one of the posters “critical” of SJC policy and I agree with a lot of what you said. SJC is just not a good fit for a lot of regular good students that would really shine elsewhere. That is why it is important for the parents of those particular kids to understand truthfully what their kid’s transcript will look like compared to transcripts within SJC scholars and at other area schools. That is the where the competition is for the college seats. There is no room for error at SJC and it is a rigid path with few options for those (outside of scholars and athletes) who are just good solid students who would be allowed to be rockstars somewhere else. That being said, this is my first time in the college process. The posts here aren’t meant so much to be critical of SJC but more factual so parents of the “regular” SJC kids know what they are up against and can make the educated choices they want to make for their kid’s futures. Not everyone wants a top school or a southern state school. Those people might be ok with a college that has a high acceptance rate and they might prioritize the Catholic experience. That’s fine! Not everyone wants the same thing. Those people are going to be happy at SJC. it just isn’t the best school for a certain subset of very good students who want competitive but not Ivy level schools. Those kids will fall through the cracks and not get the classes they deserve to shine. That’s all. I hope this dicsussion helps those parents of those kids understand. The parents who are happy, I’m glad you’re happy. And whatever points you make are also valuable to the discussion. |
We had two kids go through SJC - not recruited athletes - I hated the open house and was against my older child going but she insisted and it turned out great for her and her sibling. Both were well prepared for college at competitive slacs. Neither was part of the party scene - any school this size is going to have some partiers - it is a relatively small group and neither of my kids felt oppressed by any kind of '80s type cool kids scene. It is rigid (as are most catholic schools) - overall I looked at it like a hybrid - way cheaper than a private independent school, but in many ways good and bad more like a good public school which suited my kids well as teens. We are catholic but not conservative and didn't feel like fish out of water. Our experience was very positive re: getting the higher level classes that my kids wanted despite not being in the honors program. In certain cases they let us take a summer on-line class to get a prereq that my child needed. |
I would love to know where kids like some of the PPs ended up for college. I have a similar kid there and it would be helpful. Good students but without much rigor. If anyone is willing to share it would definitely be helpful! |
The freshman teams are not walk on. This is misinformation except for running. Not even golf or tennis took any freshman boys. Baseball took 1 non-recruited freshman from tryouts. |
Yes! Pay attention to this! If you want your kid to play a sport, any sport, the odds of them making a team as a walk on are slim to none. SJC recruits its athletes heavily and aims to be a sport pipeline to the pros more than anything else. This is not a school where kids normally walk on. If sports are important to your kid then you need to know this. Your good but not stellar athlete will be able to be on a team almost anywhere else. At SJC, He’ll end up a manager or a fan in the stands. My son regrets giving up his sport to go to SJC. It has weighed heavily on him. |
That’s a change for baseball…my kid graduated three years ago and the freshman team at that time had 7-8 freshman walkons. It was a large team. That was the tail end of a bit of a debacle with kids like James Wood and like 6 others leaving SJC, so it’s possible that thinned the upper ranks and artificially created openings down the line. |
SJC parent with here with a different persepective on SJC's grade requirements for AP and honors level classes.
1) There are only two options when it comes to AP/honors class admissions - to have a grade prerequisite or not. SJC and other private schools have grade prerequisites, most publics don't. The advantage of not having a prerequisite is no one who wants to take the class is denied the opportunity (equity). The disadvantage to that approach is that some students may enroll in the course who don't have the skills to succeed. Teachers then have to make the course less challenging and/or inflate grades and/or give the kids with less developed skills poor grades. None of those are great options. 2) The SJC grade prerequisite allows SJC to keep the AP/honors courses rigorous enough to challenge the top students. 3) SJC has high expectations of its students. Some posters above see that as rigid, but many see those high expectations as pushing students to succeed. Many parents want high expectations especially since MCPS (and other schools) have very low expectations of students at the moment. (Read the September/October 2024 Bethesda Magazine article "Is MCPS Losing Its Edge?" https://moco360.media/september-october-2024-digital-edition/). 4) You should do your own research, but having read a lot about the college selection process prior to picking a high school and when my oldest went through the process, the consensus seems to be that top colleges don't care about the number of APs taken per se - they want kids who have taken the most rigorous courses available at the students' high school and/or to show that they challenged themselves in school (i.e. may have started in on level courses, but worked their way up to honors/AP by junior/senior year). This may cut against SJC for some kids, but colleges also will only take so many kids from each school. Public schools' open access to AP/honors classes and grade inflation means that each school has huge numbers of kids with over 4.0 GPAs and all AP/honors classes. The question then is how can these students distinguish themselves from each other? (The Bethesda Magazine article addresses this as well). 5) One of my kids was placed in on level math freshman year, but was moved to honors math sophomore year without any problem. 5) The SJC Class of 2024 set all sorts of records when it comes to college admissions and scholarships. SJC graduates do well. And finally, as of last year, the SJC JV swim team was not walk-on, but also was not super competitive. |
This actually sounds like a decently rigorous load. This is the PP with a Sophomore there this year. You feel like its not enough for a competitive school though? I have had a hard time with comparisons to what the public school kids take also but I assume that there is not a direct comparison when looking at kids from different schools, esp public vs private. Maybe I am wrong? I do agree about needing Calc though. It seems like there an opportunity between Jr & Sr year to take this over the summer but that, per usual, its extremely competitive (like 95+) to get in to. To the PP whose kid took pre calc at St. Albans, did your kid fall into the 95+ grade range to qualify for this or dis SJC approve the class for your kid based on other criteria? When we talked with the department last year they made it sound like the SJC summer program was the only option to move to Calc senior year, and descent grades and desire to take it got you nowhere without the impossibly high A. I would love it if there was another path. |
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So…no need to explain why you did not take as many APs as a kid in MCPS, where they start APs freshman year. This is because SJC has a well staffed office of college counseling which works closely with colleges to inform them about SJC and its students. There is also a College Profile sheet for SJC, just as there should be one for your school. Despite the “AP gate keeping,” graduates are getting into some fantastic schools. |
PP, the college lists are public. They’re on the website and info is also included in social media, the magazine, SCOIR, etc. What year is your kid? I would encourage you to contact your student’s counselor or the Dean of Academics with your concerns. |
Some of them are walk-on. Not sure about football, basketball, or lacrosse, but in past years there have been freshmen in crew, cross country, and rugby, among other boys’ sports. |
So this is well known. I’m sorry you were not aware. Kids coming from a Catholic or private school are counseled about the sports part. I remember many discussions with friends whose kids opted for other schools because of this very issue. Are you new to DC or did you come from public school? You’ve done a good turn by making others aware. |