Emotional needs

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is just the female version of a husband whining that his wife isn’t meeting his sexual needs.

And when we hear that on DCUM, the invariable response to him is “you won’t die if you don’t have sex, you’re not entitled to sex, toughen up, do more to make yourself attractive to her.”

Ok then, women won’t die if they don’t get their emotional needs met, they’re not entitled to a husband that cares about their feelings, they should do more to make him interested in their emotional needs.

Sorry but no one is going to be having s3x with someone they can’t rely on, can’t trust, or who is negligent.

How are any of those things related to women’s emotional needs?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is just the female version of a husband whining that his wife isn’t meeting his sexual needs.

And when we hear that on DCUM, the invariable response to him is “you won’t die if you don’t have sex, you’re not entitled to sex, toughen up, do more to make yourself attractive to her.”

Ok then, women won’t die if they don’t get their emotional needs met, they’re not entitled to a husband that cares about their feelings, they should do more to make him interested in their emotional needs.

Sorry but no one is going to be having s3x with someone they can’t rely on, can’t trust, or who is negligent.

How are any of those things related to women’s emotional needs?

Are you responding to the correct post Pap?

How is a spouse who is unreliable, untrustworthy and negligent related to the others spouse emotional needs and interest in sx with them? Are you having issues with that statement?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is just the female version of a husband whining that his wife isn’t meeting his sexual needs.

And when we hear that on DCUM, the invariable response to him is “you won’t die if you don’t have sex, you’re not entitled to sex, toughen up, do more to make yourself attractive to her.”

Ok then, women won’t die if they don’t get their emotional needs met, they’re not entitled to a husband that cares about their feelings, they should do more to make him interested in their emotional needs.

Sorry but no one is going to be having s3x with someone they can’t rely on, can’t trust, or who is negligent.

How are any of those things related to women’s emotional needs?

Are you responding to the correct post Pap?

How is a spouse who is unreliable, untrustworthy and negligent related to the others spouse emotional needs and interest in sx with them? Are you having issues with that statement?

Those indeed are faults, but are not related to the emotional needs of women. Those are just characteristics of lousy dudes.

Maybe we are all defining emotional needs differently. My examples would be when women have a hard day and need to vent/commiserate, or they are concerned about aging family members and need someone to understand. It’s not about doing, but being present and attentive.